Look, I have a crush on this girl who is a friend to me, she has had alot going on in her life, last year she was in a serious car accident and since she has very few friends besides her family compared to what she had, I am one of those few, we exercise, go to lunch, and hang out, when I first met her in my 7th hour class as a transfer at the start of 2nd semester she smiled at me even when she didn't know me, that is what made me start talking to her, and become her friend, she is also a health/exercise freak, so she always seems to be at my work, at a luxury grocery store, one of the workers who I am close to and I told in confidence that I like the exercise girl, well she spread it and I'm sure my good exercise friend will know within 12 hours of 5:00PM CT 7/4/07, what should I do? How do you think she'll react?Girl Crush Emergency!!! Girls give advice!! Girlfriend?
Hey!
Well there's not much you can do about crushes.But since you confided in this girl and you know that she spreaded it,if the girl you like does find out well then more then likely she will ask you about it wonderin if it is just a rumor or the truth.And personally I don't like liers I despies them so tell her the truth it's better then letting her feel like it was just a rumor.Cuz if she feels the same way you do towards her and you let her think it was just some stupid rumor then it could hurt not only her but you.It's better to be honest about how you feel about sumone(unless they are in a relationship or you feel it isn't the right thing to do)then lie to them about how you feel.Just go on about your regular businness as usual kinda like you don't know it got spreaded around and if she comes up and askes you about it just be honest with who knows she may feel the same way and if not then at least you can look at yourself and know you gave it a shot and not always wonderin what if i told the truth.Um...if she does find out possible she could act a little weird and like she is in space or sumthin.Or could she be sumwhat distant if that's the case as a friend just asks whats buggin her she'll more then likely tell you what she heard and like i said before just be honest with her and don't lie.I hope that I helped a little bit.I know this stuff is confusing.But be honest b/c if you honest with her then she will diffently trust you more as a friend and secondly your being honest with your self and will never wonder what if..... Well good luck with everything I hope that she does feel the same way you do and you two could be happy together!Girl Crush Emergency!!! Girls give advice!! Girlfriend?
She probably likes you too. Take this opportunity to tell her how you really feel. Oh and, calm down.
I think that she likes you too. Why would she smile on someone she doesn't know if she's interested?!? You don't know what she really feels about you and you won't find out if you don't ask her. Your the guy ater all. most girls doesn't like being the first one to tell a guy her feelings. so my advice, Go Tell Her! you don't know what might happen. Even if it doesn't turn out as you planned, you'll find another girl..
I think she will be flattered--ask her out.
If she is at your work all the time--she probably cares for her, too. Talk to her.....good luck.
What are you waiting for??? You need to ask her out. Not doing so would be like sitting on undiscovered oil and just letting it remain undiscovered thus your not collecting any profits. She obviously likes you. And if all fails, you at least hav a good friend. But theres probably something there if she would always smile at you like that. Also if your one of the only ones there to support her, thats a very flattering thing and gives you good chances. Ask her out before the news gets to her. Go for it!!! Best of Luck!!
Let it go. If she likes you too, she will give you a ';go ahead'; sign. If not, don't bring it up.
She could be flattered..or she could be embaressed that you didn't tell her first. Either way, talk to her pronto.
ask her out! sounds like you have a good chance. cant say how she'll react, either yes or no. yes, good for you. no, move on and still be her friend.
I can't comment for how she'll react, but this is a good opportunity. She's going to be thinking ';Either somebody's lying or he'd better tell me himself so I'll know';. You can make the first move, and now it's not as hard because she knows. She'll be expecting it.
I think u have nothing to worry about. I don't think anything will go wrong. Just believe in yr self, and everything will b ok!!!! Good luck!!!!
Friday, April 30, 2010
I need teenage girl's advice?
I'm a 14 year old guy. I'm 5'5'; and have an athletic body. I have bleach blond hair and brown eyes. My hair isn't short but it isn't long either. I lift weights almost every other day. Do i sound attractive to you? If not what would you're dream guy look like?I need teenage girl's advice?
based on your description, you seem to be cool. but also take note that girls don't only dream of good looks but also about great attitude... remember that inside beauty has equal footing as that of the outside appearanceI need teenage girl's advice?
Well I'm 18 so this is a little weird because you're young and all, but when I was 14 I loved the surfer look. Still do (but on older guys lol). My dream guy would look like (and well, basically is) Sidney Crosby. But I've found that most girls don't necessarily have a ';type'; that they always date or are attracted to. Guys come in all shapes and sizes and hair colours and there's something unique and sexy about all of them.
yup u sound very sexy!!!!!!! and I bet you are in person!
( im a girl by the way don't let my picture fool you lol)
Ya you sound cute but no offense your kinda short cuz im 13 and im 5'10'' lol but then again im pretty tall but ya you seem cute(:
you dont need other people to tell you you are atractive or hansom the girl that will one day win your heart will be lucky
one day someone will walk into your life and mke you see why it never worked out with anyone else
Strongs =)
You sound like you like the dick buddy.
Yeah you do. But most 14 year old girls ( The ones I know at least) are a little taller then you and that can be awkward.
yeah you sound attractive to me.
you sound good 2 me :)
but my dream guy i would want very sweet and romantic,i dont care about hair color,eye color etc.
Sure, you sound pretty good looking. A little short...
well I mean description is one thing but we would need to see a picture to really say...you sound cute though I guess
ooo yea ;)
ur young why do u even want to start that up if ur attractive. ull find out once u hit school n girls are drooling over u
based on your description, you seem to be cool. but also take note that girls don't only dream of good looks but also about great attitude... remember that inside beauty has equal footing as that of the outside appearanceI need teenage girl's advice?
Well I'm 18 so this is a little weird because you're young and all, but when I was 14 I loved the surfer look. Still do (but on older guys lol). My dream guy would look like (and well, basically is) Sidney Crosby. But I've found that most girls don't necessarily have a ';type'; that they always date or are attracted to. Guys come in all shapes and sizes and hair colours and there's something unique and sexy about all of them.
yup u sound very sexy!!!!!!! and I bet you are in person!
( im a girl by the way don't let my picture fool you lol)
Ya you sound cute but no offense your kinda short cuz im 13 and im 5'10'' lol but then again im pretty tall but ya you seem cute(:
you dont need other people to tell you you are atractive or hansom the girl that will one day win your heart will be lucky
one day someone will walk into your life and mke you see why it never worked out with anyone else
Strongs =)
You sound like you like the dick buddy.
Yeah you do. But most 14 year old girls ( The ones I know at least) are a little taller then you and that can be awkward.
yeah you sound attractive to me.
you sound good 2 me :)
but my dream guy i would want very sweet and romantic,i dont care about hair color,eye color etc.
Sure, you sound pretty good looking. A little short...
well I mean description is one thing but we would need to see a picture to really say...you sound cute though I guess
ooo yea ;)
ur young why do u even want to start that up if ur attractive. ull find out once u hit school n girls are drooling over u
What is the best piece of advice you could give a 14-15 year old girl?
I could use some. I'm having troubles at home, school, and I'm having troubles with myself. Help please.What is the best piece of advice you could give a 14-15 year old girl?
What I wish I had known at your age. And I'm completly serious about all of them...
1. Never eat stale gummi bears with Gatorade or any alcoholic beverage. (Seriously. Not fun.)
2. Always shower with the curtain on the inside of the tub.
3. Don't smoke. If you have asthma, stay away from others who smoke.
4. It's better to let people think you're crazy than to let them know you're a coward.
5. Never eat stale gummi bears with Gatorade or any alcoholic beverage. (You may not believe me, but...)
6. It's better to be lucky than good.
7. A stitch in time saves nine, but it ruins the suspense.
8. Nobody deserves to be loved. That is what makes love beautiful.
9. Flossing is important.
10. Nothing that happens in middle school matters. Only about 20% of what happens during high school matters, and most of that deals with applying for college. You're never going to see those people again.
11. Dating is pointless until you're out of your parents' home. Sure, you might think you like him. You might need some. Too bad. It's not worth the hassle.
12. Buy a crappy first car in case you wreck it.
13. Never eat stale gummi bears with Gatorade or any alcoholic beverage.What is the best piece of advice you could give a 14-15 year old girl?
Keep your legs crossed.
Dont have sex and dont suicide.
Just be patient . . . don't rush into things.
You are at a very confusing time . . . and you should take things one step at a time.
First thing I would work on is yourself . . . find out what is bothering you . . . and work at thing to improved the situation with yourself.
Second thing would be your education . . . because that is where your future will be
Regarding home . . . talk with your parents and love ones regarding the problems . . . . they will listen (periodically) . . . I know they are not the best listeners . . . but you have to sit them down to talk and they may help you.
Don't believe people who say you'll feel differently when you grow up. You are a whole person and you have a right to your own opinions and feelings.
Best advice what i could give is, live through it. Life has it's complications. You can only get stronger by this. The stronger you get, hte more you're able to withstand. Granted i know things get hard, work through it. I'm sure that you have friends that love you, confide in them, i sure they can help. Well since that's all i can give, Good Luck to you.
I agree with Man with a Q,. Get some counseling from someone you can trust. You school concealer or school nurse may be able to give names of concealers that can help you. In the mean time don't do drugs of any kind , have sex with any boys,or try to comit suiside, smoke cigarettes or pot.
Get your life back on track so you can make informed deciaions.
Good Luck
Use your brain. Question everything, think for yourself, and think critically. Most importantly, think critically about things. Don't just accept what people tell you as the truth.
FR
Keep both feet on the floor and next to each other
Just remember you're not alone. many of your friends and other kids your age are going through a lot of the same stuff.
don't be afraid to speak up, speak your mind, tell the truth, and ask questions.
Remember that the geeks, nerds and freeks in your school are the ones that will grow up to be more successful and well off than the jocks and bullies.
Remember today may seem hard, but tomorrow there's always a chance to make things better.
what kind of trouble are u having at home? try talking to your parents and try to find a middle ground that you all can agree on... as for school, try to get help from a friend or a teacher, there is always someone that will help if you ask for it....and as for troubles with yourself, only you know whats bothering you, try going to a counsler and or a pastor at a church if you cant talk to your parents about your troubles... whatever you do, just keep on going and keep your head high, dont dwell on your problems , try to get out with some friends and have some fun... good luck!!
Know that you are beautiful. Love yourself. Watch the seasons change. Listen to the world around you. And 1st work on knowing yourself before leaping into any other parts of lifes choices. Discover who you are, what you like, what you don't like...
Just be patient. Try to do good in school so you can get out when you are able to.. Things will get better.. And I hope they do for you..
Seek counsel of some sort. Either a school counselor, pastor, adult, teacher, etc. Somebody that you can trust.
Education 1st. There will be plenty of time for everything else after you can support yourself.
don't do drugs is the best one
Being 14/15 is a tough time. Your whole teens will be...
Try to do two things: stay out of trouble %26amp; set yourself up for the future.
How to stay out of trouble (biggest things):
1. Don't get pregnant
2. Use protection
3. Don't go crazy with drugs/alcohol
How to set yourself up for the future:
1. Do well in school - believe it or not, you can learn. Have faith in that, read a book or two for leisure. You'll begin reading faster and your concentration will improve. So will your grades
2. Learn to be social/make friends - these people will be your contacts and will be who you will lean on.
3. Respect yourself - there's no way around it, trust yourself, try to like yourself
We all have our ups and downs. Do this at your age, and a lot of the other stuff will fall into place.
Enjoy this age. It may seem hard right now, but now is when you still have all your options. There's nothing you can't do and all of life's paths lie in front of you, for you to choose from. You're mature enough to make decisions and not old enough to regret them so let the sky be your limit.
I know it's not an easy age, but that's part of it's beauty. Now's when you shape your dreams so don't be afraid to dreams and set goals. There's nothing you can't achieve if you have enough will power. I'm sorry if this sounds corny and all but I was your age not so very long ago and thinking back, that was the age when i started building myself as a person and spreading my wings...You should too. Just focus on becoming the best possible version of yourself. Good luck!
Things will get better. Do the best you can in school and go to college. College allows you to have far more freedoms both during your time there and in your life after graduating. Work on making your future brighter instead of searching for a quick fix right now.
Don't have sex, and for the love of all that is holy do not get pregnant.
That high school is nothing like the real world, and what people think or say about you in high school doesnt matter at all. The popular people most likely becaome losers in the real world.. expecially the football jocks, and cheerleaders. Whatever labels you have in HS.. does not matter at all.. Don't let high school effect you all that much because when its over.. it doesnt matter at all.
It's the perfect age to develop your whole person and not worry about enticing boys
if you're having trouble with the girls at school, it will pass. girls are very catty. (hey, I'm a woman so i can say that!!)high school usually gets better. this sounds Corny, if you are being picked on, remember, you will not sink to their level, these people are nobody. when you are out of school none of this will matter. concentrate on art and music and creative outlets. DO NOT self-medicate with drugs or alchol. be youself and don't give in to anyone else's views or ideas. of your family, keep a journal. when you feel you are at the breaking point, WRITE. make it come from the heart. keep it well hidden. trust me, this will help you sort out your emotions and help you face your problems clearly. you will figure your self out, honey, you are young, but remember, you are a valuable human being! walking also helps clear the mind. remember, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, you are a survivor, not a victim. keep your head up! good luck!!
Find a mentor you look up to, but think for yourself and follow your bliss.
keep your legs closed until u learn better
know that those are hard years, but bad times end. Don't let sadness and despair take you over. Go out with friends and listen to happy music.
Dont let anyone pressure you into sex.
when i was your age...5/6 yrs ago, i thought i had it the worst, my parents sucked, school was a bother, etc...i wanted to be grown sooo bad, but you know what take it day by day. and just keep in mind, high school doesn't last forever and you may feel awkward and lame or whatever, it will get better. I moved out when i was 17 with my then-bf BIG mistake. i had a lot of family issues and ended up doin drugs, dropping out of school bc of it. just remember you are worth having a good life and learn from other mistakes i am finally at 20 yrs old getting to where i need to be. It was a long hard road but i did it. others aren't so lucky. please don't do anything you think may not be right think things through. there are people that do care and will listen. get an after school job when you are 16 or 17 save so you can move out and make sure you do well in school...absolutely go to college no matter what. get that scholarship. and don't let your ';friends'; get you into bad situations. they wont be there for you when things crumple around you. trust me i know.
What I wish I had known at your age. And I'm completly serious about all of them...
1. Never eat stale gummi bears with Gatorade or any alcoholic beverage. (Seriously. Not fun.)
2. Always shower with the curtain on the inside of the tub.
3. Don't smoke. If you have asthma, stay away from others who smoke.
4. It's better to let people think you're crazy than to let them know you're a coward.
5. Never eat stale gummi bears with Gatorade or any alcoholic beverage. (You may not believe me, but...)
6. It's better to be lucky than good.
7. A stitch in time saves nine, but it ruins the suspense.
8. Nobody deserves to be loved. That is what makes love beautiful.
9. Flossing is important.
10. Nothing that happens in middle school matters. Only about 20% of what happens during high school matters, and most of that deals with applying for college. You're never going to see those people again.
11. Dating is pointless until you're out of your parents' home. Sure, you might think you like him. You might need some. Too bad. It's not worth the hassle.
12. Buy a crappy first car in case you wreck it.
13. Never eat stale gummi bears with Gatorade or any alcoholic beverage.What is the best piece of advice you could give a 14-15 year old girl?
Keep your legs crossed.
Dont have sex and dont suicide.
Just be patient . . . don't rush into things.
You are at a very confusing time . . . and you should take things one step at a time.
First thing I would work on is yourself . . . find out what is bothering you . . . and work at thing to improved the situation with yourself.
Second thing would be your education . . . because that is where your future will be
Regarding home . . . talk with your parents and love ones regarding the problems . . . . they will listen (periodically) . . . I know they are not the best listeners . . . but you have to sit them down to talk and they may help you.
Don't believe people who say you'll feel differently when you grow up. You are a whole person and you have a right to your own opinions and feelings.
Best advice what i could give is, live through it. Life has it's complications. You can only get stronger by this. The stronger you get, hte more you're able to withstand. Granted i know things get hard, work through it. I'm sure that you have friends that love you, confide in them, i sure they can help. Well since that's all i can give, Good Luck to you.
I agree with Man with a Q,. Get some counseling from someone you can trust. You school concealer or school nurse may be able to give names of concealers that can help you. In the mean time don't do drugs of any kind , have sex with any boys,or try to comit suiside, smoke cigarettes or pot.
Get your life back on track so you can make informed deciaions.
Good Luck
Use your brain. Question everything, think for yourself, and think critically. Most importantly, think critically about things. Don't just accept what people tell you as the truth.
FR
Keep both feet on the floor and next to each other
Just remember you're not alone. many of your friends and other kids your age are going through a lot of the same stuff.
don't be afraid to speak up, speak your mind, tell the truth, and ask questions.
Remember that the geeks, nerds and freeks in your school are the ones that will grow up to be more successful and well off than the jocks and bullies.
Remember today may seem hard, but tomorrow there's always a chance to make things better.
what kind of trouble are u having at home? try talking to your parents and try to find a middle ground that you all can agree on... as for school, try to get help from a friend or a teacher, there is always someone that will help if you ask for it....and as for troubles with yourself, only you know whats bothering you, try going to a counsler and or a pastor at a church if you cant talk to your parents about your troubles... whatever you do, just keep on going and keep your head high, dont dwell on your problems , try to get out with some friends and have some fun... good luck!!
Know that you are beautiful. Love yourself. Watch the seasons change. Listen to the world around you. And 1st work on knowing yourself before leaping into any other parts of lifes choices. Discover who you are, what you like, what you don't like...
Just be patient. Try to do good in school so you can get out when you are able to.. Things will get better.. And I hope they do for you..
Seek counsel of some sort. Either a school counselor, pastor, adult, teacher, etc. Somebody that you can trust.
Education 1st. There will be plenty of time for everything else after you can support yourself.
don't do drugs is the best one
Being 14/15 is a tough time. Your whole teens will be...
Try to do two things: stay out of trouble %26amp; set yourself up for the future.
How to stay out of trouble (biggest things):
1. Don't get pregnant
2. Use protection
3. Don't go crazy with drugs/alcohol
How to set yourself up for the future:
1. Do well in school - believe it or not, you can learn. Have faith in that, read a book or two for leisure. You'll begin reading faster and your concentration will improve. So will your grades
2. Learn to be social/make friends - these people will be your contacts and will be who you will lean on.
3. Respect yourself - there's no way around it, trust yourself, try to like yourself
We all have our ups and downs. Do this at your age, and a lot of the other stuff will fall into place.
Enjoy this age. It may seem hard right now, but now is when you still have all your options. There's nothing you can't do and all of life's paths lie in front of you, for you to choose from. You're mature enough to make decisions and not old enough to regret them so let the sky be your limit.
I know it's not an easy age, but that's part of it's beauty. Now's when you shape your dreams so don't be afraid to dreams and set goals. There's nothing you can't achieve if you have enough will power. I'm sorry if this sounds corny and all but I was your age not so very long ago and thinking back, that was the age when i started building myself as a person and spreading my wings...You should too. Just focus on becoming the best possible version of yourself. Good luck!
Things will get better. Do the best you can in school and go to college. College allows you to have far more freedoms both during your time there and in your life after graduating. Work on making your future brighter instead of searching for a quick fix right now.
Don't have sex, and for the love of all that is holy do not get pregnant.
That high school is nothing like the real world, and what people think or say about you in high school doesnt matter at all. The popular people most likely becaome losers in the real world.. expecially the football jocks, and cheerleaders. Whatever labels you have in HS.. does not matter at all.. Don't let high school effect you all that much because when its over.. it doesnt matter at all.
It's the perfect age to develop your whole person and not worry about enticing boys
if you're having trouble with the girls at school, it will pass. girls are very catty. (hey, I'm a woman so i can say that!!)high school usually gets better. this sounds Corny, if you are being picked on, remember, you will not sink to their level, these people are nobody. when you are out of school none of this will matter. concentrate on art and music and creative outlets. DO NOT self-medicate with drugs or alchol. be youself and don't give in to anyone else's views or ideas. of your family, keep a journal. when you feel you are at the breaking point, WRITE. make it come from the heart. keep it well hidden. trust me, this will help you sort out your emotions and help you face your problems clearly. you will figure your self out, honey, you are young, but remember, you are a valuable human being! walking also helps clear the mind. remember, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, you are a survivor, not a victim. keep your head up! good luck!!
Find a mentor you look up to, but think for yourself and follow your bliss.
keep your legs closed until u learn better
know that those are hard years, but bad times end. Don't let sadness and despair take you over. Go out with friends and listen to happy music.
Dont let anyone pressure you into sex.
when i was your age...5/6 yrs ago, i thought i had it the worst, my parents sucked, school was a bother, etc...i wanted to be grown sooo bad, but you know what take it day by day. and just keep in mind, high school doesn't last forever and you may feel awkward and lame or whatever, it will get better. I moved out when i was 17 with my then-bf BIG mistake. i had a lot of family issues and ended up doin drugs, dropping out of school bc of it. just remember you are worth having a good life and learn from other mistakes i am finally at 20 yrs old getting to where i need to be. It was a long hard road but i did it. others aren't so lucky. please don't do anything you think may not be right think things through. there are people that do care and will listen. get an after school job when you are 16 or 17 save so you can move out and make sure you do well in school...absolutely go to college no matter what. get that scholarship. and don't let your ';friends'; get you into bad situations. they wont be there for you when things crumple around you. trust me i know.
There's this girl... (relationship advice)?
I recently found out a girl I had a crush on liked me and, when I told my friends, they kinda rushed me into a relationship with her. I really like her a lot, but now I think she feels as though I was forced into the relationship and that I only like her because my friends tell me to (which is entirely not true... I really like her). I also think that (being rather new to dating) I am acting slightly awkward around her... any help from anyone?There's this girl... (relationship advice)?
just do stuff to show her that you like her! such as telling her that you actually like her or say how much you enjoy being with her. it's normal to be awkward around her, but try to be yourself and after a bit, you'll be more comfortable.There's this girl... (relationship advice)?
its normal to be a bit awkward around a new gf.
just be HONEST with her and say hey i know they kinda pushed me in but i really do love you.
just do stuff to show her that you like her! such as telling her that you actually like her or say how much you enjoy being with her. it's normal to be awkward around her, but try to be yourself and after a bit, you'll be more comfortable.There's this girl... (relationship advice)?
its normal to be a bit awkward around a new gf.
just be HONEST with her and say hey i know they kinda pushed me in but i really do love you.
I like this girl...any advice?
I'm 16 (junior). There's this girl I've known since freshman year that I like. We talked some in freshman year when we had a class together, but this year, we don't. We're in last period together with her best guy friend (who has a gf), and they're really good friends. She and I never really talk in class anymore since the seats were changed, but neither do they, so i guess that's not too bad.
Whenever anybody says anything about me, she always defends me, even if wut they're saying is true or funny. Also, I IMed her recently (just for conversation) and asked her if she wanted to come to a get together for my birthday in April. She said sure. Later in that conversation, she said that ';her live is really boring'; and that she wanted to start goin out more. That convo, was 30 min, and one before it was 70.
Does anybody think that she sounds interested? Wut should I do? I really like her and think that this is a good match.
SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLYI like this girl...any advice?
I think she likes u and she is indirectly asking u to ask her out. Go for her. I dont think u will be dissapointed. Good luck.I like this girl...any advice?
she definently likes you if she defens you... I do that when I start liking a guy. (unless she pitties you)...
but she mentioned her live is really boring'; and that she wanted to start goin out more... so yes, that means she probably is into you, ask her on a date and/or kiss her
As a junior myself, I can say this sounds good. Go for it. I promise girls love it when guys like you make a move. Good luck!
Dating is a difficult business and it is always risky. Ask her out - it is truly the only way you will find out. If she says she isn't interested - at least you know the truth and can change your directions elsewhere. If she says yes - well the fun begins!
ok, i have been there before. this is what i think.. although it may not be true
this girl has the POTENTIAL to like you, but if you come on suddenly you might get turned down. here are some steps:
1. BE patient
2. BE yourself and dont try to imitate anyone in anyway
3. hang out with her often
4. call her often
5. BE confident(girls dig that)
6. dont act as if you are her boyfriend(as yet)
7. in the proper surroundings(possibly romantic), where her friends are not around, where it dosent have anyone that may mind your business or bother you both, ask her ';what if i told you that i like you?';
if you get a negative response and reaction, call her later and tell her that whatever you did that moment was not meant to be and apoligise, and say u want to continue being friends with her
if the reaction or response is positive ..... well , you take it from there, dont mess it up by belching or anyting like that lol....
hope i helped... good luck
I think she is interested...sounds like she is hinting for you to ask her out.
I am in a similar situation dude, but i am a girl! I think you should just ask her out....sounds like she wants u to!! Go for it!! u may be surprised!
You should ask her out. When a girl is on IM for over 20mins it means she likes the guy, unless they are very good friends. She most probably likes you (most probably coz I don't know all the facts.) ALL THE BEST and please don't ask such questions on the internet, she may just be reading it.
[By the way, try improving ur spelling; she may be more interested in guys who can spell WHAT (wut), and LIFE (live).]
She sounds really interested in you. I say go for it because you and this girl sound great togethor. Shes defending you even though it may be true think about it not many people would do that.
You never know until you ask. You dont want to go on in life and let love pass you by. She may be the one. If not, at least you have no doubt in youre mind that she was not.
Believe me.
It's first and most important to ask yourself that whether you really love her or just a little like. To consider that can you give her a happy life once you become her bf , too. If your answers are yes, go and tell her at once. Just try your best. Good luck!philosophy
Whenever anybody says anything about me, she always defends me, even if wut they're saying is true or funny. Also, I IMed her recently (just for conversation) and asked her if she wanted to come to a get together for my birthday in April. She said sure. Later in that conversation, she said that ';her live is really boring'; and that she wanted to start goin out more. That convo, was 30 min, and one before it was 70.
Does anybody think that she sounds interested? Wut should I do? I really like her and think that this is a good match.
SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLYI like this girl...any advice?
I think she likes u and she is indirectly asking u to ask her out. Go for her. I dont think u will be dissapointed. Good luck.I like this girl...any advice?
she definently likes you if she defens you... I do that when I start liking a guy. (unless she pitties you)...
but she mentioned her live is really boring'; and that she wanted to start goin out more... so yes, that means she probably is into you, ask her on a date and/or kiss her
As a junior myself, I can say this sounds good. Go for it. I promise girls love it when guys like you make a move. Good luck!
Dating is a difficult business and it is always risky. Ask her out - it is truly the only way you will find out. If she says she isn't interested - at least you know the truth and can change your directions elsewhere. If she says yes - well the fun begins!
ok, i have been there before. this is what i think.. although it may not be true
this girl has the POTENTIAL to like you, but if you come on suddenly you might get turned down. here are some steps:
1. BE patient
2. BE yourself and dont try to imitate anyone in anyway
3. hang out with her often
4. call her often
5. BE confident(girls dig that)
6. dont act as if you are her boyfriend(as yet)
7. in the proper surroundings(possibly romantic), where her friends are not around, where it dosent have anyone that may mind your business or bother you both, ask her ';what if i told you that i like you?';
if you get a negative response and reaction, call her later and tell her that whatever you did that moment was not meant to be and apoligise, and say u want to continue being friends with her
if the reaction or response is positive ..... well , you take it from there, dont mess it up by belching or anyting like that lol....
hope i helped... good luck
I think she is interested...sounds like she is hinting for you to ask her out.
I am in a similar situation dude, but i am a girl! I think you should just ask her out....sounds like she wants u to!! Go for it!! u may be surprised!
You should ask her out. When a girl is on IM for over 20mins it means she likes the guy, unless they are very good friends. She most probably likes you (most probably coz I don't know all the facts.) ALL THE BEST and please don't ask such questions on the internet, she may just be reading it.
[By the way, try improving ur spelling; she may be more interested in guys who can spell WHAT (wut), and LIFE (live).]
She sounds really interested in you. I say go for it because you and this girl sound great togethor. Shes defending you even though it may be true think about it not many people would do that.
You never know until you ask. You dont want to go on in life and let love pass you by. She may be the one. If not, at least you have no doubt in youre mind that she was not.
Believe me.
It's first and most important to ask yourself that whether you really love her or just a little like. To consider that can you give her a happy life once you become her bf , too. If your answers are yes, go and tell her at once. Just try your best. Good luck!
Need advice on talking 2 a girl?
This girl @ school hangs out with my friend's girl N she dosnt no me N wanna no how to talk 2 her? Also if i should care wat my friends say if i start talk 2 her?Need advice on talking 2 a girl?
First off, do your really like this girl? Second, if your friends make fun of you for showing interest in a girl, there just sad. As for the actual talking, just play it cool. Find out in advance if you share an interest or hobby. Starting out the conversation with a simple ';Hey'; is a good way to go. Good luck!Need advice on talking 2 a girl?
Ask them what they think about her,and should you do it and you will feel totally fine about asking her out if your friends are 100% behind you*
In the first place, don't worry about what others might say. Just worry about what you want. Others will only be jealous that they don't have what you will. When you talk with her, just be yourself, don't try to be something that you are not. Girls like honesty. They respect it when you can just be who you are. Not something else. They want to see the real you.
Good Luck
I'd say, make yourself known! If you know any of her close friends, hang with them for a while and then when they hang with her, join them! Get to know her She will pick up that you're aroubd, and maybe even be into you in the end. And as for your friends, if they give you greif because you like her, screw them, because they are just jealous that you found who you're looking for. Don't fall for peer presure, and just give it a try. Who knows, you might end up with the girl in the end... %26lt;3 Hope this helps! --Mer Mer
Be your self! Have fun!!!!
lol,really,its no big deal,sumtimes it depends on the click(im in the nerdy comic book kind)and stuuf,usually i suggest talking to her online,then find out her intrests and find out what she lkes or dislikes byy taking to her,that easy!
you just couldnt type in better english now could you?
just start talkin to her. and dont listen to wat ur friends say about you talkin to her.
just talk to her foo.....just small talk nd if shes diggin you she'll talk bye....
just start with a hello
good lukZ
walk up to her say hello
its as easy as that
and make eye contact with her when u talk and be confident too
and dont listen to what your say freinds
go get her!
just start talking to her thats how it all starts
just start being friends..start saying hi every once in a while in da hallways and no u shouldn't think what your friends say cause u like her..but good luck =D!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What the hell...just walk up to her and say ';hi';. and just start a conversation...and why should you even care about your friend's opinion? Just go and talk to her...Gud Luck!
just go up to her and go ';you're ____'s friend right? Hi I'm her friend _____';
even better if you can get your friend to help you so that there wouldn't be any misunderstanding and unnecessary drama.
Well, learn how to type. Then she will talk to you
You should never care what your friends say or think if you really like her. Casually ask her to hangout. Be a little flirty and girls like humour. Be your self though. And don't try to hard. Don't be nervous either. I hope it works out!:)
First off, do your really like this girl? Second, if your friends make fun of you for showing interest in a girl, there just sad. As for the actual talking, just play it cool. Find out in advance if you share an interest or hobby. Starting out the conversation with a simple ';Hey'; is a good way to go. Good luck!Need advice on talking 2 a girl?
Ask them what they think about her,and should you do it and you will feel totally fine about asking her out if your friends are 100% behind you*
In the first place, don't worry about what others might say. Just worry about what you want. Others will only be jealous that they don't have what you will. When you talk with her, just be yourself, don't try to be something that you are not. Girls like honesty. They respect it when you can just be who you are. Not something else. They want to see the real you.
Good Luck
I'd say, make yourself known! If you know any of her close friends, hang with them for a while and then when they hang with her, join them! Get to know her She will pick up that you're aroubd, and maybe even be into you in the end. And as for your friends, if they give you greif because you like her, screw them, because they are just jealous that you found who you're looking for. Don't fall for peer presure, and just give it a try. Who knows, you might end up with the girl in the end... %26lt;3 Hope this helps! --Mer Mer
Be your self! Have fun!!!!
lol,really,its no big deal,sumtimes it depends on the click(im in the nerdy comic book kind)and stuuf,usually i suggest talking to her online,then find out her intrests and find out what she lkes or dislikes byy taking to her,that easy!
you just couldnt type in better english now could you?
just start talkin to her. and dont listen to wat ur friends say about you talkin to her.
just talk to her foo.....just small talk nd if shes diggin you she'll talk bye....
just start with a hello
good lukZ
walk up to her say hello
its as easy as that
and make eye contact with her when u talk and be confident too
and dont listen to what your say freinds
go get her!
just start talking to her thats how it all starts
just start being friends..start saying hi every once in a while in da hallways and no u shouldn't think what your friends say cause u like her..but good luck =D!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What the hell...just walk up to her and say ';hi';. and just start a conversation...and why should you even care about your friend's opinion? Just go and talk to her...Gud Luck!
just go up to her and go ';you're ____'s friend right? Hi I'm her friend _____';
even better if you can get your friend to help you so that there wouldn't be any misunderstanding and unnecessary drama.
Well, learn how to type. Then she will talk to you
You should never care what your friends say or think if you really like her. Casually ask her to hangout. Be a little flirty and girls like humour. Be your self though. And don't try to hard. Don't be nervous either. I hope it works out!:)
I'm going to ask a girl out as soon as I'm back to school on Monday. Any tips or advice I can get?
dooooo it(:
Girls love it when guys ask us out!
And as long as it's face to face it's only awkward for like, 3 seconds!I'm going to ask a girl out as soon as I'm back to school on Monday. Any tips or advice I can get?
Be confident! Just go up to her and tell her how you feel :)
Girls love it when guys ask us out!
And as long as it's face to face it's only awkward for like, 3 seconds!I'm going to ask a girl out as soon as I'm back to school on Monday. Any tips or advice I can get?
Be confident! Just go up to her and tell her how you feel :)
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