What is the best piece of advice you could give a 14-15 year old girl?

I could use some. I'm having troubles at home, school, and I'm having troubles with myself. Help please.What is the best piece of advice you could give a 14-15 year old girl?
What I wish I had known at your age. And I'm completly serious about all of them...





1. Never eat stale gummi bears with Gatorade or any alcoholic beverage. (Seriously. Not fun.)





2. Always shower with the curtain on the inside of the tub.





3. Don't smoke. If you have asthma, stay away from others who smoke.





4. It's better to let people think you're crazy than to let them know you're a coward.





5. Never eat stale gummi bears with Gatorade or any alcoholic beverage. (You may not believe me, but...)





6. It's better to be lucky than good.





7. A stitch in time saves nine, but it ruins the suspense.





8. Nobody deserves to be loved. That is what makes love beautiful.





9. Flossing is important.





10. Nothing that happens in middle school matters. Only about 20% of what happens during high school matters, and most of that deals with applying for college. You're never going to see those people again.





11. Dating is pointless until you're out of your parents' home. Sure, you might think you like him. You might need some. Too bad. It's not worth the hassle.





12. Buy a crappy first car in case you wreck it.





13. Never eat stale gummi bears with Gatorade or any alcoholic beverage.What is the best piece of advice you could give a 14-15 year old girl?
Keep your legs crossed.
Dont have sex and dont suicide.
Just be patient . . . don't rush into things.





You are at a very confusing time . . . and you should take things one step at a time.





First thing I would work on is yourself . . . find out what is bothering you . . . and work at thing to improved the situation with yourself.





Second thing would be your education . . . because that is where your future will be





Regarding home . . . talk with your parents and love ones regarding the problems . . . . they will listen (periodically) . . . I know they are not the best listeners . . . but you have to sit them down to talk and they may help you.
Don't believe people who say you'll feel differently when you grow up. You are a whole person and you have a right to your own opinions and feelings.
Best advice what i could give is, live through it. Life has it's complications. You can only get stronger by this. The stronger you get, hte more you're able to withstand. Granted i know things get hard, work through it. I'm sure that you have friends that love you, confide in them, i sure they can help. Well since that's all i can give, Good Luck to you.
I agree with Man with a Q,. Get some counseling from someone you can trust. You school concealer or school nurse may be able to give names of concealers that can help you. In the mean time don't do drugs of any kind , have sex with any boys,or try to comit suiside, smoke cigarettes or pot.


Get your life back on track so you can make informed deciaions.


Good Luck
Use your brain. Question everything, think for yourself, and think critically. Most importantly, think critically about things. Don't just accept what people tell you as the truth.





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Keep both feet on the floor and next to each other
Just remember you're not alone. many of your friends and other kids your age are going through a lot of the same stuff.





don't be afraid to speak up, speak your mind, tell the truth, and ask questions.





Remember that the geeks, nerds and freeks in your school are the ones that will grow up to be more successful and well off than the jocks and bullies.





Remember today may seem hard, but tomorrow there's always a chance to make things better.
what kind of trouble are u having at home? try talking to your parents and try to find a middle ground that you all can agree on... as for school, try to get help from a friend or a teacher, there is always someone that will help if you ask for it....and as for troubles with yourself, only you know whats bothering you, try going to a counsler and or a pastor at a church if you cant talk to your parents about your troubles... whatever you do, just keep on going and keep your head high, dont dwell on your problems , try to get out with some friends and have some fun... good luck!!
Know that you are beautiful. Love yourself. Watch the seasons change. Listen to the world around you. And 1st work on knowing yourself before leaping into any other parts of lifes choices. Discover who you are, what you like, what you don't like...
Just be patient. Try to do good in school so you can get out when you are able to.. Things will get better.. And I hope they do for you..
Seek counsel of some sort. Either a school counselor, pastor, adult, teacher, etc. Somebody that you can trust.
Education 1st. There will be plenty of time for everything else after you can support yourself.
don't do drugs is the best one
Being 14/15 is a tough time. Your whole teens will be...





Try to do two things: stay out of trouble %26amp; set yourself up for the future.





How to stay out of trouble (biggest things):


1. Don't get pregnant


2. Use protection


3. Don't go crazy with drugs/alcohol





How to set yourself up for the future:


1. Do well in school - believe it or not, you can learn. Have faith in that, read a book or two for leisure. You'll begin reading faster and your concentration will improve. So will your grades


2. Learn to be social/make friends - these people will be your contacts and will be who you will lean on.


3. Respect yourself - there's no way around it, trust yourself, try to like yourself





We all have our ups and downs. Do this at your age, and a lot of the other stuff will fall into place.
Enjoy this age. It may seem hard right now, but now is when you still have all your options. There's nothing you can't do and all of life's paths lie in front of you, for you to choose from. You're mature enough to make decisions and not old enough to regret them so let the sky be your limit.


I know it's not an easy age, but that's part of it's beauty. Now's when you shape your dreams so don't be afraid to dreams and set goals. There's nothing you can't achieve if you have enough will power. I'm sorry if this sounds corny and all but I was your age not so very long ago and thinking back, that was the age when i started building myself as a person and spreading my wings...You should too. Just focus on becoming the best possible version of yourself. Good luck!
Things will get better. Do the best you can in school and go to college. College allows you to have far more freedoms both during your time there and in your life after graduating. Work on making your future brighter instead of searching for a quick fix right now.





Don't have sex, and for the love of all that is holy do not get pregnant.
That high school is nothing like the real world, and what people think or say about you in high school doesnt matter at all. The popular people most likely becaome losers in the real world.. expecially the football jocks, and cheerleaders. Whatever labels you have in HS.. does not matter at all.. Don't let high school effect you all that much because when its over.. it doesnt matter at all.
It's the perfect age to develop your whole person and not worry about enticing boys
if you're having trouble with the girls at school, it will pass. girls are very catty. (hey, I'm a woman so i can say that!!)high school usually gets better. this sounds Corny, if you are being picked on, remember, you will not sink to their level, these people are nobody. when you are out of school none of this will matter. concentrate on art and music and creative outlets. DO NOT self-medicate with drugs or alchol. be youself and don't give in to anyone else's views or ideas. of your family, keep a journal. when you feel you are at the breaking point, WRITE. make it come from the heart. keep it well hidden. trust me, this will help you sort out your emotions and help you face your problems clearly. you will figure your self out, honey, you are young, but remember, you are a valuable human being! walking also helps clear the mind. remember, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, you are a survivor, not a victim. keep your head up! good luck!!
Find a mentor you look up to, but think for yourself and follow your bliss.
keep your legs closed until u learn better
know that those are hard years, but bad times end. Don't let sadness and despair take you over. Go out with friends and listen to happy music.
Dont let anyone pressure you into sex.
when i was your age...5/6 yrs ago, i thought i had it the worst, my parents sucked, school was a bother, etc...i wanted to be grown sooo bad, but you know what take it day by day. and just keep in mind, high school doesn't last forever and you may feel awkward and lame or whatever, it will get better. I moved out when i was 17 with my then-bf BIG mistake. i had a lot of family issues and ended up doin drugs, dropping out of school bc of it. just remember you are worth having a good life and learn from other mistakes i am finally at 20 yrs old getting to where i need to be. It was a long hard road but i did it. others aren't so lucky. please don't do anything you think may not be right think things through. there are people that do care and will listen. get an after school job when you are 16 or 17 save so you can move out and make sure you do well in school...absolutely go to college no matter what. get that scholarship. and don't let your ';friends'; get you into bad situations. they wont be there for you when things crumple around you. trust me i know.