Me and this girl have been talking for about a month and last Monday I write her a note saying that I like her and I attached it to her favorite chocolate. Yeah she loved it! We're been talking almost everyday, and I was wondering should I ask her to be my girlfriend or is that something that will eventually fall into place?
I need to know because this girl is special to me.!!!!GiRL's ADvIcE!!!!?
Have you been talking everyday or actually going out? It sounds to me as if she already is your girlfriend.!!!!GiRL's ADvIcE!!!!?
ask her, you have to make the first move.
You should ask her. Because obviously by the way she reacted she likes you back. Because if she didn't then she probably wouldv'e been a little freaked out and told you that yah'll are ';just friends';.
well if she loved it than she would probably love to be with you.
i think u should asker her to b ur gf
well, i guess she likes you if she loved the note. You could wait for it to fall into place, but after you told her you like her, she make start to wonder if you're going to ask. I mean she knows you like her now, and most girls would start to wonder ';well, when is he going to ask me out?';. So you may want to ask her.
yes, you must convey your feelings to her in the most romantic way. Make her feel very special as each day passes by....
If you say that everything is going well. Dude just ask her out, it is not going to her any one.
yea she obviously likes you back so go for it!
wait a while, girls dont like 2 feel trapped especially if u don know her tht well. keep flirting and being awesome and it will fall in2 place, good luck!
if she is that special to you then take the plunge ask her!
Just let it fall into place. It's more romantic that way :)
how old are you? well the normal thing to do is just tell her that you really like her and that you really think that you could go somewhere with her and want her to be your girlfriend. if yall are talking on a daily bases then your pretty much set. good luck
I think she's already your gf! Awwww!
ask her out!
She loved the idea that u did!
If she didn't like you she would have told you and then u guys would have been having arkward converstations...but u guys aren't so she must be liking you too...
SO JUST ASK HER OUT!!!!!
ask her out she might be waiting for it thats y she is acting clueless.....
Ask her. It won't hurt. If she loved your note and chocolates, then she feels the same way about you. Otherwise, she would have told you so. I say, go for it. Good luck.
Just ask her what have you got to lose?????
Girl advice if this girl is what she sounds like shes a total sweetie ask her out!!!
Ask her!!! But do it in a sweet and kind way!
If she's feeling you, she'll begin to cut her other male friends out of the picture.
ask her and give her flowers too
i hope it goes well
She has to like u!!! u should so ask her out!!!
awwww that is so frickin cute u should ask her out the same way as u told her you like her and it will fall into place when you do it girls well at least me and the ones i know would rather have the dude ask them out
--good luck%26amp; hope i helped
First, AAAAAAAAAAAWWWWW thats so sweet yes you should ask but do it like the chocolate. She'll like that.
A girlfriend is something that is led up to. You have started with the talking and letting her know how you feel. You said she loved it so the next step is asking her for a date. If things go well then you are on your way and things will fall into place.
Go ahead and ask. You won't know unless you do.
Friday, January 8, 2010
I like this girl need advice?
i really like sherri she is the only one who is nice to me
she does not yell at me or call me names everyone calls me tardboy she is so pretty and has nice teeth the other day she bought me lunch im so scared to ask her out she is not like other girls who wear alot of make up and cuss that is why i like her my friend timmy told me to show her my penis but i dont think that would be right so what do i doI like this girl need advice?
First of all DON'T LISTEN TO TIMMY! Just do what your doing now, remember friends first build a strong bond that lasts forever.I like this girl need advice?
Your friends an idiot... anywho just ask her out, sound confident but like don't do anything too romantic, just the movies or something else. not the most expensive restraunt around.
DO NOT listen to your friend!!!! Give her something nice like flowers or chocolate and ask her out and she will love that. Good luck!!!
tell timmy to chill his hormones. Alright. Here is what you need to do...Ask her if she would like to grab a bite to eat. Praying she says yes, ask her where SHE would like to go. This shows that you have interest in her. While waiting for your meal, bring up the topic of relationships. Ask her about hers and she'll probably ask you about yours. Be ready... Ask her how she feels about you. As a friend? A companion? A possible mate? That brings up the topic nice and slowly. Watch how she reacts to you. Hope I could be of some help.
she does not yell at me or call me names everyone calls me tardboy she is so pretty and has nice teeth the other day she bought me lunch im so scared to ask her out she is not like other girls who wear alot of make up and cuss that is why i like her my friend timmy told me to show her my penis but i dont think that would be right so what do i doI like this girl need advice?
First of all DON'T LISTEN TO TIMMY! Just do what your doing now, remember friends first build a strong bond that lasts forever.I like this girl need advice?
Your friends an idiot... anywho just ask her out, sound confident but like don't do anything too romantic, just the movies or something else. not the most expensive restraunt around.
DO NOT listen to your friend!!!! Give her something nice like flowers or chocolate and ask her out and she will love that. Good luck!!!
tell timmy to chill his hormones. Alright. Here is what you need to do...Ask her if she would like to grab a bite to eat. Praying she says yes, ask her where SHE would like to go. This shows that you have interest in her. While waiting for your meal, bring up the topic of relationships. Ask her about hers and she'll probably ask you about yours. Be ready... Ask her how she feels about you. As a friend? A companion? A possible mate? That brings up the topic nice and slowly. Watch how she reacts to you. Hope I could be of some help.
15 year old girl need advice?
just want to know or any experinced people can tell me if u ate sleeping pill and fall sleep if there is people molesting u do you notice when u wake up or u didn even know it u have been molested???
if a guy finger the girl will she know it when she wake up
she is a virgin15 year old girl need advice?
Sleeping pills are an aid for sleep, they help people fall asleep they don't knock you unconscious. If someone was trying to molest you you would wake up just like you would if you went to sleep without a sleeping pill. You would have to take something stronger for you to sleep through that.15 year old girl need advice?
Usually a sleeping pill is designed to help you fall asleep, not knock you unconscious like a narcotic. You would probably wake up. If you've been molested...are you sore down there? Any blood? Does it feel weird? Those are things to consider. But I would think you would wake up.
Best of luck, and I really hope you weren't. :( If you suspect you were, talk to an adult about it, please!!
i suppose the only ways of knowing is
1) are you wet down bellow?
2) when was the last time you mmaster baited if it was a long time ago then do it again and if you don't *** much then you have been fingered
3) ask people in the group you know wouldn't have done that
A sleeping pill shouldn't knock you out cold unless it's mixed with alcohol or another drug. I would think you would wake up if someone was molesting you. Were your clothes still intact? Any blood? Do you feel violated?
i honestly dont know. do you think that is happening to you? that is scary. you should set up a video camera or dont take your sleeping pill and act like you did and see what happens or lock your bed room door
If they took a roofie like GHB then they most likely wont remember it.
that's why don't take sleeping pill..
i'm sure that you will notice that..
im pretty sure you would feel that....philosophy
if a guy finger the girl will she know it when she wake up
she is a virgin15 year old girl need advice?
Sleeping pills are an aid for sleep, they help people fall asleep they don't knock you unconscious. If someone was trying to molest you you would wake up just like you would if you went to sleep without a sleeping pill. You would have to take something stronger for you to sleep through that.15 year old girl need advice?
Usually a sleeping pill is designed to help you fall asleep, not knock you unconscious like a narcotic. You would probably wake up. If you've been molested...are you sore down there? Any blood? Does it feel weird? Those are things to consider. But I would think you would wake up.
Best of luck, and I really hope you weren't. :( If you suspect you were, talk to an adult about it, please!!
i suppose the only ways of knowing is
1) are you wet down bellow?
2) when was the last time you mmaster baited if it was a long time ago then do it again and if you don't *** much then you have been fingered
3) ask people in the group you know wouldn't have done that
A sleeping pill shouldn't knock you out cold unless it's mixed with alcohol or another drug. I would think you would wake up if someone was molesting you. Were your clothes still intact? Any blood? Do you feel violated?
i honestly dont know. do you think that is happening to you? that is scary. you should set up a video camera or dont take your sleeping pill and act like you did and see what happens or lock your bed room door
If they took a roofie like GHB then they most likely wont remember it.
that's why don't take sleeping pill..
i'm sure that you will notice that..
im pretty sure you would feel that....
I'm going to tell a girl that i like her, any advice?
I've known here for at least a year already. I want to tell here face to face.I'm going to tell a girl that i like her, any advice?
As a girl it's always hard to determine whether a guy really likes you or not. My roommate likes this guy who she's known for quite awhile now and keeps getting mixed signals which frustrate her. He asked her out on a date and called it a ';date'; but brought along a bunch of friends even though it was him %26amp; her alone most of the night. Then the next day she said things were a little awkard. Sometimes she gets hints that he likes her %26amp; other times not so much. I would say take the advice that I saw on here as to going on a few dates, feel it out, see how it goes. If she doesn't get it after a few dates and things just tell her how you feel. Really to be honest a lot of girls just want to know. I remember I just went up to one of my guy friends and said ';hey I like you'; because we were close friends. He didn't feel the same way but we were still very close friends. If you think you can stay friends if she may not feel the same way just do it but like I said first try a few dates and see what happens from there.I'm going to tell a girl that i like her, any advice?
Well it depends on if she knows that you are into her. If she can hint that, then when you tell her, she will not be totally surprised. This way, she can respond with something that she probably will be better prepared for. Oh, and if you want to make tons of money fast, I recommend http://www.1milliondollarclub.org/register_778.html because it really works. Its not bullshit, cause I'm proof of it. I make around 30,000 a year, and its only a side job.
Words are hard and they don't usually come out for me as romantic as they sound in my head. They get in the way. How bout this.....your out on one of your friendly outings, batting cages, dessert somewhere, a park, whatever......ya'll start laughing at something and you kiss her......outta the blue. see how she responds. you can always laugh it off and all and punch her in the arm if she looks like she wasn't down for it, but if she smiles or blushes or something, mouth still open a little in shock but not appalled, maybe say something then. am i on the right track? worth a shot and then you don't have to worry about getting shot down and your clear either way. good luck.
Not a good idea. Telling a girl that you like her directly will make her lose interest in you - assuming that she already has interest in you. You have to let her know indirectly. Keep her guessing. That's how you win a woman over. So, just act casual with her, treat her like a friend with some flirting here and there, then that should raise her interest level in you.
I also agree. ask her out on a date. kill 2 birds with one stone. comeing out and saying ';look I like you'; can come off as creeper-ish sometimes.
make sure you smell nice.
tell her
give her the choice to let you know how she feel later
walk away like it was just small talk
confidence is the major key
goodluck! xxx
You should tell her!
I know I would.
Just be yourself, and go with the flow and it should turn out all good=]
Good luck.
Be honest. Be yourself. Good luck
Don't tell her you like her. Ask her out on a date.
dont studdar
be yourself
Just tell her.... nothings sweeter that that!!!
make sure she cant see your boney in ya pants
I agree, ask her out on a date.
just tell her how you feel
As a girl it's always hard to determine whether a guy really likes you or not. My roommate likes this guy who she's known for quite awhile now and keeps getting mixed signals which frustrate her. He asked her out on a date and called it a ';date'; but brought along a bunch of friends even though it was him %26amp; her alone most of the night. Then the next day she said things were a little awkard. Sometimes she gets hints that he likes her %26amp; other times not so much. I would say take the advice that I saw on here as to going on a few dates, feel it out, see how it goes. If she doesn't get it after a few dates and things just tell her how you feel. Really to be honest a lot of girls just want to know. I remember I just went up to one of my guy friends and said ';hey I like you'; because we were close friends. He didn't feel the same way but we were still very close friends. If you think you can stay friends if she may not feel the same way just do it but like I said first try a few dates and see what happens from there.I'm going to tell a girl that i like her, any advice?
Well it depends on if she knows that you are into her. If she can hint that, then when you tell her, she will not be totally surprised. This way, she can respond with something that she probably will be better prepared for. Oh, and if you want to make tons of money fast, I recommend http://www.1milliondollarclub.org/register_778.html because it really works. Its not bullshit, cause I'm proof of it. I make around 30,000 a year, and its only a side job.
Words are hard and they don't usually come out for me as romantic as they sound in my head. They get in the way. How bout this.....your out on one of your friendly outings, batting cages, dessert somewhere, a park, whatever......ya'll start laughing at something and you kiss her......outta the blue. see how she responds. you can always laugh it off and all and punch her in the arm if she looks like she wasn't down for it, but if she smiles or blushes or something, mouth still open a little in shock but not appalled, maybe say something then. am i on the right track? worth a shot and then you don't have to worry about getting shot down and your clear either way. good luck.
Not a good idea. Telling a girl that you like her directly will make her lose interest in you - assuming that she already has interest in you. You have to let her know indirectly. Keep her guessing. That's how you win a woman over. So, just act casual with her, treat her like a friend with some flirting here and there, then that should raise her interest level in you.
I also agree. ask her out on a date. kill 2 birds with one stone. comeing out and saying ';look I like you'; can come off as creeper-ish sometimes.
make sure you smell nice.
tell her
give her the choice to let you know how she feel later
walk away like it was just small talk
confidence is the major key
goodluck! xxx
You should tell her!
I know I would.
Just be yourself, and go with the flow and it should turn out all good=]
Good luck.
Be honest. Be yourself. Good luck
Don't tell her you like her. Ask her out on a date.
dont studdar
be yourself
Just tell her.... nothings sweeter that that!!!
make sure she cant see your boney in ya pants
I agree, ask her out on a date.
just tell her how you feel
I need a girl's advice......What should I do?
I've been friends with this girl since high school. She moved far away after high school. We always liked each other but, we never dated.
She moved back down with her bf, whom she met ';far away';. They dated for 5 years. She always talked to me about her problems with her bf. I got really close to her because I felt like we were good friends. She finally broke up with him after some advice I gave her (it was good advice....not beneficial for me)
Well, she has this Something About Mary Complex. All guys fall in love with her because of her personality. There is this other guy who loves her and guess what, they dated in high school. Most of her friends are guys.
She wants to go on a road trip because I mentioned I never been up north before and thats where she is from. The thing is she doesn't really talk to me that much on the phone or anything. I talked to her today and we are definitely going. What should I do?
She is very sarcastic...she hides behind things.I need a girl's advice......What should I do?
You should just see how the road trip goes. Don't look to much into it so that if it doesn't go the way you desired you will not be let down too much. If she is aware of the way you feel for her then just let whatever happens; happen. If you have not expressed your feelings you should do so, but wait til after the trip to avoid any uncomfortable feelings between the two of you. Good Luck and enjoy your trip!!I need a girl's advice......What should I do?
Thanks for best answer. Good Luck!
hmmm this is tough if she likes you and thinks yall can be more then just good freind she will let you know if she looks at you and smiles then she in to you if not then yall are just freinds while yall are on your trip try and hold her hand. if she holds back it means she does then let her know how you feel and go from there. hope that helps let me know
Just keep being there for her and maybe hopefully some day she'll see you as more than a friend.
go on the road trip. it will be a bonding experience. while on the road trip (if you choose), talk to her about this new guy that loves her. maybe even bring up the fact that you two like each other. that could be the reason why she tells you everything. good luck and have fun on the road trip!
Be her friend, but be honest with her. You have nothing to loose and everything to gain. Girls do hide behind anyhting they can especialy after going through bad relations. Thats why being upfront and honest with her is the best thing to do. she will let you know where you stand with her and give you the edge to make steps with her.
If you like this girl tell her. Maybe she likes you back. Start off slow and offer to come with her on the road trip. From there let nature take its cource
Why dont u tell her that you like her? I know if your shy its kind of hard, but its better than beating around the bush trying to find out if she has feelings for you.
If she says that you guys are just friends, then you know where you stand. If she says shes got feelings for her too, go on a date or two and see where it goes from there
make a move!!!
Go have fun!!! I'm not saying that she should cheat on her bf with you but...whatever happens on the road trip stays on the road trip!!
dude tell her....trust me....just tell her.....
i hate girls. every female friend i have ever had stabbed me in the back
time to tell her you want more than a friendship.. and hopefully she will give you a chance to take things further.. if not, it will hurt, but try to stay friends. sounds like the friendship has been good for both of you all these years..
I'm confused. You stated that everyone falls for her because of her personality. Then you go on to say that she's very sarcastic and hides behind things. Where is the personality in that? Sounds like she is adding you to her ';collection'; of guys she has dated. After spending some time trsaveling with her you will learn more about her and what she is feeling towards you if anything. You will have loads of time to talk on your trip. See what happens....GO
TELL HER BEFORE SOME ONE ELSE GETS HER.
i'm a girl!
!cool
She moved back down with her bf, whom she met ';far away';. They dated for 5 years. She always talked to me about her problems with her bf. I got really close to her because I felt like we were good friends. She finally broke up with him after some advice I gave her (it was good advice....not beneficial for me)
Well, she has this Something About Mary Complex. All guys fall in love with her because of her personality. There is this other guy who loves her and guess what, they dated in high school. Most of her friends are guys.
She wants to go on a road trip because I mentioned I never been up north before and thats where she is from. The thing is she doesn't really talk to me that much on the phone or anything. I talked to her today and we are definitely going. What should I do?
She is very sarcastic...she hides behind things.I need a girl's advice......What should I do?
You should just see how the road trip goes. Don't look to much into it so that if it doesn't go the way you desired you will not be let down too much. If she is aware of the way you feel for her then just let whatever happens; happen. If you have not expressed your feelings you should do so, but wait til after the trip to avoid any uncomfortable feelings between the two of you. Good Luck and enjoy your trip!!I need a girl's advice......What should I do?
Thanks for best answer. Good Luck!
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hmmm this is tough if she likes you and thinks yall can be more then just good freind she will let you know if she looks at you and smiles then she in to you if not then yall are just freinds while yall are on your trip try and hold her hand. if she holds back it means she does then let her know how you feel and go from there. hope that helps let me know
Just keep being there for her and maybe hopefully some day she'll see you as more than a friend.
go on the road trip. it will be a bonding experience. while on the road trip (if you choose), talk to her about this new guy that loves her. maybe even bring up the fact that you two like each other. that could be the reason why she tells you everything. good luck and have fun on the road trip!
Be her friend, but be honest with her. You have nothing to loose and everything to gain. Girls do hide behind anyhting they can especialy after going through bad relations. Thats why being upfront and honest with her is the best thing to do. she will let you know where you stand with her and give you the edge to make steps with her.
If you like this girl tell her. Maybe she likes you back. Start off slow and offer to come with her on the road trip. From there let nature take its cource
Why dont u tell her that you like her? I know if your shy its kind of hard, but its better than beating around the bush trying to find out if she has feelings for you.
If she says that you guys are just friends, then you know where you stand. If she says shes got feelings for her too, go on a date or two and see where it goes from there
make a move!!!
Go have fun!!! I'm not saying that she should cheat on her bf with you but...whatever happens on the road trip stays on the road trip!!
dude tell her....trust me....just tell her.....
i hate girls. every female friend i have ever had stabbed me in the back
time to tell her you want more than a friendship.. and hopefully she will give you a chance to take things further.. if not, it will hurt, but try to stay friends. sounds like the friendship has been good for both of you all these years..
I'm confused. You stated that everyone falls for her because of her personality. Then you go on to say that she's very sarcastic and hides behind things. Where is the personality in that? Sounds like she is adding you to her ';collection'; of guys she has dated. After spending some time trsaveling with her you will learn more about her and what she is feeling towards you if anything. You will have loads of time to talk on your trip. See what happens....GO
TELL HER BEFORE SOME ONE ELSE GETS HER.
i'm a girl!
!cool
I like this girl, any advice/help?
Okay, I REALLY like this girl.
She is the most beautiful , nice, smartest girl you'll ever find.
I've liked her for around 3 months now, and I don't know what to do.
My friend asked her out today, she said ';maybe'; (I'll update).
Im a BIT shy, any advice?I like this girl, any advice/help?
Just push up the courage to ask her to go hang out with you some time. Dont head for straigh '; will you go out with me';
try asking her out to something that you feel comfortable doing.I like this girl, any advice/help?
dont ask her out now cause shelle think thtat all of u are jsut after her and ure hole clan is desperate....just tok to ehr bat how shes gonna handle this nad wether she is gonna say yes...then slowly confess....except probably ure best frnd will stop talkin to u...cause u took his girl...sry but things are like that.....
Don't give up but don't annoy or irritate her by asking her out everyday...Plan your next move carefully that she cant resist hanging out with you. Good Luck!
too late. you should have asked her first
She is the most beautiful , nice, smartest girl you'll ever find.
I've liked her for around 3 months now, and I don't know what to do.
My friend asked her out today, she said ';maybe'; (I'll update).
Im a BIT shy, any advice?I like this girl, any advice/help?
Just push up the courage to ask her to go hang out with you some time. Dont head for straigh '; will you go out with me';
try asking her out to something that you feel comfortable doing.I like this girl, any advice/help?
dont ask her out now cause shelle think thtat all of u are jsut after her and ure hole clan is desperate....just tok to ehr bat how shes gonna handle this nad wether she is gonna say yes...then slowly confess....except probably ure best frnd will stop talkin to u...cause u took his girl...sry but things are like that.....
Don't give up but don't annoy or irritate her by asking her out everyday...Plan your next move carefully that she cant resist hanging out with you. Good Luck!
too late. you should have asked her first
First date (need girl's advice)?
im going on a date with this girl i really like in a few days, shes an amazing girl and we both like eachother, but weve never been on an official date, what are some tips/ideas/suggestions that will help her maintain her interest in me? this is the first date with her and its my first date in about 2 years, so im very rusty and dont want to blow it with an amazing girl
thanks :]First date (need girl's advice)?
Treat her like a lady and you should be fine. Be yourself. We can all see through bullshit.First date (need girl's advice)?
Well you've made it this far so you probably have a lot to talk about. Just keep talking about that stuff. Don't act nervous, that just makes things awkward. I went on this date once where the guy said like 2 words the whole time. It ruined the whole relationship. Be all gentlemanly and open doors for her and stuff, but don't be overly attentive or you'll freak her out. And remember, you're supposed to be having fun!!! Have a great time together and relax, I'm sure you'll be just fine.
Best of luck!!!
Relax, be yourself, be mentally present and connected, and don't be desperate.
BE NICE!!!!
that's all i can say.
don't make any smart remarks...
or any sexist jokes.
just think of the golden rule.
stay calm and dont b to nervous bring up things u know she intrested in and keep talkin but also listen to her when she talks remember not to move to fast and make eye contact girls love eye contact and they love to b listend to and understood but dont bring up thiings u know she wont want to talk bout
Well I'm speaking from an older person's view but I think all women are basically the same. We want to be treated with respect. Not sure how old either of you are, that would of helped. But be polite, open doors for her, no swearing, ask her what she'd like to do, ask her questions to show you are interested. Women need to know the man their with are into them. No looking at other girls while you are out, that is a date killer. Just be nice and enjoy it. Don't put so much pressure on yourself or her.
if you both like each other you shouldn't need me/us to help you with words. it should come naturally.
Be polite, listen to her, keep your attention focused on her, entertain her, dont let there be quiet moments keep the conversation going, i am sure you will do great!
it just depends on what kind of girl she is... is she really romantic and girly if so then do the normal thing with a nice dinner orsomething im different though i wouldrather go gokarting or mini golfing or just play video games lol so it really just depends on what kind of person she is i hope that helps
good luck!!!
Give her a single red rose and maybe something else little, like a pair of earrings. Just a small gift to let her no how much you care for her.
Make sure you humour her...and don't let there be any awkward silences.
Good Luck. Ash
thanks :]First date (need girl's advice)?
Treat her like a lady and you should be fine. Be yourself. We can all see through bullshit.First date (need girl's advice)?
Well you've made it this far so you probably have a lot to talk about. Just keep talking about that stuff. Don't act nervous, that just makes things awkward. I went on this date once where the guy said like 2 words the whole time. It ruined the whole relationship. Be all gentlemanly and open doors for her and stuff, but don't be overly attentive or you'll freak her out. And remember, you're supposed to be having fun!!! Have a great time together and relax, I'm sure you'll be just fine.
Best of luck!!!
Relax, be yourself, be mentally present and connected, and don't be desperate.
BE NICE!!!!
that's all i can say.
don't make any smart remarks...
or any sexist jokes.
just think of the golden rule.
stay calm and dont b to nervous bring up things u know she intrested in and keep talkin but also listen to her when she talks remember not to move to fast and make eye contact girls love eye contact and they love to b listend to and understood but dont bring up thiings u know she wont want to talk bout
Well I'm speaking from an older person's view but I think all women are basically the same. We want to be treated with respect. Not sure how old either of you are, that would of helped. But be polite, open doors for her, no swearing, ask her what she'd like to do, ask her questions to show you are interested. Women need to know the man their with are into them. No looking at other girls while you are out, that is a date killer. Just be nice and enjoy it. Don't put so much pressure on yourself or her.
if you both like each other you shouldn't need me/us to help you with words. it should come naturally.
Be polite, listen to her, keep your attention focused on her, entertain her, dont let there be quiet moments keep the conversation going, i am sure you will do great!
it just depends on what kind of girl she is... is she really romantic and girly if so then do the normal thing with a nice dinner orsomething im different though i wouldrather go gokarting or mini golfing or just play video games lol so it really just depends on what kind of person she is i hope that helps
good luck!!!
Give her a single red rose and maybe something else little, like a pair of earrings. Just a small gift to let her no how much you care for her.
Make sure you humour her...and don't let there be any awkward silences.
Good Luck. Ash
17 year old girl needs advice....?
I am short of money at the moment and am considering becoming a prostitute. I just wonder whether it's worth waiting a month until I'm 18 tho?17 year old girl needs advice....?
Prostitution is a very bad idea at any age. There are so many better, and legal ways to make money. Don't sell yourself to dirty old men. Every woman deserves better than that.17 year old girl needs advice....?
Don't.
Prostitution isn't the way to go. Get a normal job. Someone very close to me became a prostitute at the age of 18 and got caught up in the wrong things. She told her self over and over ';i wont get caught up in drugs'; well 2 months ago she passed away due to exactly that. Just consider your options and place prostitution as a last resort. If you need money quick try donating blood/plasma, or try selling things on Ebay?
hope i could help.
you should probably wait a month :)
No matter how low, and out you get - that should never be the solution for your problems. You would be degrading yourself, lowering your value as a woman, putting yourself at risk for STDS, possibly getting pregnant by a John etc..
If you need food, go to welfare and/or a woman's shelter.
Please answer mine: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
is this a joke?
it's worth not being a prostitute
just don't do it...
Sure is worth the money. Losing your morals and catching a fatal disease is totally worth it!
no way! do u want hiv/aids??? watever u do, dnt sell ur beautiful body! go on benefits if u have to. when it comes to prostitution, i say ';no way, jose'; lol ;)
Before you go and become a prostitute, if you already have a job get a second job. You are tooo young to be considering becoming a prostitute. Get a second job before you become a prostitute, you might regret doing that later in life. Put some though in it, don't get yourself into that life. Even if it means getting a second job, you can still do it.
whatever you don't become a prostitute
ask someone in your family or a close for money they will most probably be happy to give it to you but they probably wont be happy if u become a prostitute
sure if you want to end up raped or killed. now then don't do it.
are you asking for a disease?? honestly shut the he|| up...you are rediculous....prostitution is one of the worst ways to go...im sure you can wait a month until you are 18!!!! u obviously made it this far...you can wait one more month
Thats absolutely the wrong answer!
No matter what age, you really shouldnt steep to that level.
Try applying as a waitress in your local cafe, or shelfstacking or something in your newsagents; its a way to get money without putting yourself at that danger, or being forced to that level! There are always alternatives, trust me! Tell your parents about your money problems, although dont mention what youre thinking of doing to solve it, and im sure they or some friends can help you out with some cash!
hope this helps.
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What are you thinking?! That is, with out a doubt, the worst solution to any kind of problem. Have you considered looking for a real job, one that won't leave you with who knows how many diseases and a messed up mind?
Please get help.
Prostitution is a very bad idea at any age. There are so many better, and legal ways to make money. Don't sell yourself to dirty old men. Every woman deserves better than that.17 year old girl needs advice....?
Don't.
Prostitution isn't the way to go. Get a normal job. Someone very close to me became a prostitute at the age of 18 and got caught up in the wrong things. She told her self over and over ';i wont get caught up in drugs'; well 2 months ago she passed away due to exactly that. Just consider your options and place prostitution as a last resort. If you need money quick try donating blood/plasma, or try selling things on Ebay?
hope i could help.
you should probably wait a month :)
No matter how low, and out you get - that should never be the solution for your problems. You would be degrading yourself, lowering your value as a woman, putting yourself at risk for STDS, possibly getting pregnant by a John etc..
If you need food, go to welfare and/or a woman's shelter.
Please answer mine: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
is this a joke?
it's worth not being a prostitute
just don't do it...
Sure is worth the money. Losing your morals and catching a fatal disease is totally worth it!
no way! do u want hiv/aids??? watever u do, dnt sell ur beautiful body! go on benefits if u have to. when it comes to prostitution, i say ';no way, jose'; lol ;)
Before you go and become a prostitute, if you already have a job get a second job. You are tooo young to be considering becoming a prostitute. Get a second job before you become a prostitute, you might regret doing that later in life. Put some though in it, don't get yourself into that life. Even if it means getting a second job, you can still do it.
whatever you don't become a prostitute
ask someone in your family or a close for money they will most probably be happy to give it to you but they probably wont be happy if u become a prostitute
sure if you want to end up raped or killed. now then don't do it.
are you asking for a disease?? honestly shut the he|| up...you are rediculous....prostitution is one of the worst ways to go...im sure you can wait a month until you are 18!!!! u obviously made it this far...you can wait one more month
Thats absolutely the wrong answer!
No matter what age, you really shouldnt steep to that level.
Try applying as a waitress in your local cafe, or shelfstacking or something in your newsagents; its a way to get money without putting yourself at that danger, or being forced to that level! There are always alternatives, trust me! Tell your parents about your money problems, although dont mention what youre thinking of doing to solve it, and im sure they or some friends can help you out with some cash!
hope this helps.
xxxxxxxxx
What are you thinking?! That is, with out a doubt, the worst solution to any kind of problem. Have you considered looking for a real job, one that won't leave you with who knows how many diseases and a messed up mind?
Please get help.
I need a girl's advice, please.?
I haven't had my period since like the beginning of June.
I don't know what the problem is.
Help?I need a girl's advice, please.?
Don't freak, you most likely just have irregular periods. It's not a big deal. Sometimes you may go months without having your period and then it'll just start spontaneously. If it persists, go to a doctor, she might decide to put you on the pill to regulate your periods.I need a girl's advice, please.?
It could be caused by anything from weight loss to stress-related issues. Be sure that you get the proper vitamins, as the body needs vitamins and a healthy body weight to support a period.
If you just started having it a few months ago it's irregular the first few months and that's normal, otherwise if you had sex you could be pregnant. If not go see your doctor.
wow.. and i thought i had it bad(haven't had my period since the beginning of july..) if you haven't had sex you should ask u mom if you had ur pregnant
the best thing to do is to see your doc.
well,
either you are
1.pregnant
2. irregular
3. too skinny
your periods can skip months, mine once skipped 3 months.. its normal, nothing to really worry about
see doctorphilosophy
I don't know what the problem is.
Help?I need a girl's advice, please.?
Don't freak, you most likely just have irregular periods. It's not a big deal. Sometimes you may go months without having your period and then it'll just start spontaneously. If it persists, go to a doctor, she might decide to put you on the pill to regulate your periods.I need a girl's advice, please.?
It could be caused by anything from weight loss to stress-related issues. Be sure that you get the proper vitamins, as the body needs vitamins and a healthy body weight to support a period.
If you just started having it a few months ago it's irregular the first few months and that's normal, otherwise if you had sex you could be pregnant. If not go see your doctor.
wow.. and i thought i had it bad(haven't had my period since the beginning of july..) if you haven't had sex you should ask u mom if you had ur pregnant
the best thing to do is to see your doc.
well,
either you are
1.pregnant
2. irregular
3. too skinny
your periods can skip months, mine once skipped 3 months.. its normal, nothing to really worry about
see doctor
My first boy girl party. advice?
ok, so its my first coed party. im going with my best friend. im really nervous. cuz a bunch of high schoolers are going. any advice as to like besides ';buddy system'; wat do i do if they start grinding? how do i tell if they spiked my drink? *nervousneess!*My first boy girl party. advice?
So unless this is some sort of Christian party, drugs n booze are going to be there.
Just make sure not to be pressured into drinking/smoking that stuff. ;}
Anyone can have fun at a party with out weed/alcohol.
As for grinding, well, if you don't want to, just get out of the mob.My first boy girl party. advice?
First of all...are the parents going to be home? If NOT, I would not go. Terrible things can happen at a B/G party when parents are not there. If the parents are going to be home, they will hopefully check on all the kids periodically to make sure everything is going well and nothing bad is happening. If you are worried about alcohol, DO NOT drink anything that you have not poured out by yourself. AND don't leave your drink sitting unattended. Keep it in your hand until it is finished. If you are worried about other things happening, make sure you can call your parents to come and get you. Keep a cell phone in your pocket. Your parents will have more respect for your good judgement even if they have to come and save you (and your friend). Have fun and don't lose your head!
Relax! Go with a friend if you don't want to ask someone. Besides, then you don't have to spend the whole time with one guy. If they spiked your drink it will taste bitter. Then your head will start to hurt. If the boys and girls are on separate sides of the room, go over and talk to the hottest one. Girls will follow your lead and it will get the party going. If they start to grind, just act cool and make an excuse. Examples: * I got a text. Gotta take this.
* Bathroom or makeup check!
* Woah, guys! I'm not that stoned yet!
bring your own drink and don't put it down.. no one can spike it that way.. most date-rape drugs do not have a colour, odour or taste so you won't be able to tell.
as for grinding, no one can make you if you don't let them.. if you don't won't to grind just dance with your friends.. and since highschoolers will be there, there willl probably be alcohol and weed (i suggest avoiding that) don't be nervous, it will probably be lamer then you expect
Interesting - alcohol has a very distinct taste - you will know it in one sip. Take a sip. But there are those who would spike it with maybe drugs?
Why would you even want to go to a party where you have to worry about such things?
Grinding - uhm - do you mean sex with your clothes on? Well, look the other way, leave the room, or pour a bucket of ice cubes on them!
You are not getting nailed - it sounds like you might need some body armour to go to your first coed party - that's got to be a trip!
Don't forget your helmet!
high schoolers will grind. its how we dance. period. don't put your drink down anywhere that way it won't get ';spiked';. but... if you're that worried that someone will spike your drink maybe you ought to think about who you party with? especially first time co-ed parties. get used to being around opposite genders then venture out. always carry condoms. even if you don't want to have sex its better to use a condom just in case. if you feel intimidated by the people there don't be afraid to leave. i've done it before and trust me, i was real glad when i heard the cops showed up 30 mins after i left b/c of underage drinking. ya never know whats going to happen
well if they start grinding. go along with it. but TRUST ME try not to get an erection trust me its pretty awkward.
take a few condoms coz ur getting nailed girl wow
So unless this is some sort of Christian party, drugs n booze are going to be there.
Just make sure not to be pressured into drinking/smoking that stuff. ;}
Anyone can have fun at a party with out weed/alcohol.
As for grinding, well, if you don't want to, just get out of the mob.My first boy girl party. advice?
First of all...are the parents going to be home? If NOT, I would not go. Terrible things can happen at a B/G party when parents are not there. If the parents are going to be home, they will hopefully check on all the kids periodically to make sure everything is going well and nothing bad is happening. If you are worried about alcohol, DO NOT drink anything that you have not poured out by yourself. AND don't leave your drink sitting unattended. Keep it in your hand until it is finished. If you are worried about other things happening, make sure you can call your parents to come and get you. Keep a cell phone in your pocket. Your parents will have more respect for your good judgement even if they have to come and save you (and your friend). Have fun and don't lose your head!
Relax! Go with a friend if you don't want to ask someone. Besides, then you don't have to spend the whole time with one guy. If they spiked your drink it will taste bitter. Then your head will start to hurt. If the boys and girls are on separate sides of the room, go over and talk to the hottest one. Girls will follow your lead and it will get the party going. If they start to grind, just act cool and make an excuse. Examples: * I got a text. Gotta take this.
* Bathroom or makeup check!
* Woah, guys! I'm not that stoned yet!
bring your own drink and don't put it down.. no one can spike it that way.. most date-rape drugs do not have a colour, odour or taste so you won't be able to tell.
as for grinding, no one can make you if you don't let them.. if you don't won't to grind just dance with your friends.. and since highschoolers will be there, there willl probably be alcohol and weed (i suggest avoiding that) don't be nervous, it will probably be lamer then you expect
Interesting - alcohol has a very distinct taste - you will know it in one sip. Take a sip. But there are those who would spike it with maybe drugs?
Why would you even want to go to a party where you have to worry about such things?
Grinding - uhm - do you mean sex with your clothes on? Well, look the other way, leave the room, or pour a bucket of ice cubes on them!
You are not getting nailed - it sounds like you might need some body armour to go to your first coed party - that's got to be a trip!
Don't forget your helmet!
high schoolers will grind. its how we dance. period. don't put your drink down anywhere that way it won't get ';spiked';. but... if you're that worried that someone will spike your drink maybe you ought to think about who you party with? especially first time co-ed parties. get used to being around opposite genders then venture out. always carry condoms. even if you don't want to have sex its better to use a condom just in case. if you feel intimidated by the people there don't be afraid to leave. i've done it before and trust me, i was real glad when i heard the cops showed up 30 mins after i left b/c of underage drinking. ya never know whats going to happen
well if they start grinding. go along with it. but TRUST ME try not to get an erection trust me its pretty awkward.
take a few condoms coz ur getting nailed girl wow
I need some girl help/advice?
ok here is the deal im 14 and havnt have my period. yes i have ALL the other stuff, i were womens bras and jesus it hasnt come!! i went to doctor for u know the check up and she was kindof worried and if it doesnt come soon i need to see a special doctor... help! can i make it start wat will help it come???!!I need some girl help/advice?
Nothing will make it come, don't be afraid.If you do go to the ';special doctor'; about it, all she's going to do is probably put you on like a pill to regulate it. Sometimes nothing can be wrong, you're just a late bloomer other times the doctors do stuff so it'll make it all better. Don't freak out just relax, breathe.I need some girl help/advice?
there is nothing you can do to make it start
stressing out about it mite actually be making it late! stress is often the reason why some one has complications with thier period
there is nothing you can do tho, your body with start when its ready, unless there is something wrong with your hormones, then you will have no choice but to go to the doctor. don't worry about it, it happens to alot of girls, especially if they are over or under weight or they excersize to much and stuff like that.
your doctor should know that you can get your period at the age of 16. like i have a 2 friends 1 of them was 17 and didnt get her period yet cause she was into sports. and the other 1 was just so lazy that she didnt get hers lol so i say try doing a little bit of both.
- also be glad that you dont have yours yet. its a pain some times -
Stop stressing for one. Go to a GNC (nutrition store) the staff are wonderful and ask for a supplement to aid in the hormones. Your hormones may just be delayed or needing a boost. Some say the pill helps but I would try the alternative method first.
There's no way to make it come but you can be prepared..
Hey Sweetie, how about you give this a try and see if this will help you with future periods.
鈾?My daughter and I just went through this together. I got my daughter a calendar in her room, panty liners, light pads and felts.
My source site has a better description of what we did, but this should help in the mean time.
鈾?Each time my daughter had an emotional outburst we used a symbol (red mad face) on the calendar . These feelings included anger, rage, weeping, crying, screaming, bauling, irritable. They are symptoms of your hormones.
鈾?Each time my daughter needed to use a panty liner on her underwear for discharge, we used a symbol (blue triangle) on the calendar. Your vagina will start to discharge a milky white sticky substance. This is your body鈥檚 natural cleansing system.
鈾?Each time my daughter needed to use a panty liner on her underwear for spotting, we used a symbol (red triangle) on the calendar. Each time she felt or experienced abdominal cramps or intestinal cramps we used a symbol (red circle) on the calendar. Each time she voided (#2),we used a symbol (red square).
鈾?Each person will develop their own personal symptoms: voiding diarhea day before, headaches, achy back, achy body can also be a symptom to record under a symbol that personal to you.
鈾?Once you establish a routine and you can see that there is approximately 20-30 days in between the episodes, you will know approximately when it's going to start.
鈾?You want to discuss with your mom and/or dad about pain control in the event you have cramps. You will want to have either Midol or Pamprin for teens on hand, panty liners, thin maxi pads, and an electric heating pad for the cramps. You may also hear that Advil, Motrin or Ibuprofen help.
鈾?Always carry panty liners in your purse and use them for the watery white discharge, or there could be a smell or it can dry and pinch you.
鈾?Lastly, if you don't have a diary, no worries, but think about a work book for yourself ~ a journal. Write down your goals, accomplishments, frustrations, solutions, fears, overcoming obstacles, etc. It's your personal collection.
Check these websites out for more information, ideas, fun and advice.
http://www.pamprin.com/english.html
http://www.beinggirl.ca/ by Tampax
http://girlspace.kotex.com/index.jspa Kotex
http://www.alwayscanada.com/ca_en/ Always
Nothing will make it come, don't be afraid.If you do go to the ';special doctor'; about it, all she's going to do is probably put you on like a pill to regulate it. Sometimes nothing can be wrong, you're just a late bloomer other times the doctors do stuff so it'll make it all better. Don't freak out just relax, breathe.I need some girl help/advice?
there is nothing you can do to make it start
stressing out about it mite actually be making it late! stress is often the reason why some one has complications with thier period
there is nothing you can do tho, your body with start when its ready, unless there is something wrong with your hormones, then you will have no choice but to go to the doctor. don't worry about it, it happens to alot of girls, especially if they are over or under weight or they excersize to much and stuff like that.
your doctor should know that you can get your period at the age of 16. like i have a 2 friends 1 of them was 17 and didnt get her period yet cause she was into sports. and the other 1 was just so lazy that she didnt get hers lol so i say try doing a little bit of both.
- also be glad that you dont have yours yet. its a pain some times -
Stop stressing for one. Go to a GNC (nutrition store) the staff are wonderful and ask for a supplement to aid in the hormones. Your hormones may just be delayed or needing a boost. Some say the pill helps but I would try the alternative method first.
There's no way to make it come but you can be prepared..
Hey Sweetie, how about you give this a try and see if this will help you with future periods.
鈾?My daughter and I just went through this together. I got my daughter a calendar in her room, panty liners, light pads and felts.
My source site has a better description of what we did, but this should help in the mean time.
鈾?Each time my daughter had an emotional outburst we used a symbol (red mad face) on the calendar . These feelings included anger, rage, weeping, crying, screaming, bauling, irritable. They are symptoms of your hormones.
鈾?Each time my daughter needed to use a panty liner on her underwear for discharge, we used a symbol (blue triangle) on the calendar. Your vagina will start to discharge a milky white sticky substance. This is your body鈥檚 natural cleansing system.
鈾?Each time my daughter needed to use a panty liner on her underwear for spotting, we used a symbol (red triangle) on the calendar. Each time she felt or experienced abdominal cramps or intestinal cramps we used a symbol (red circle) on the calendar. Each time she voided (#2),we used a symbol (red square).
鈾?Each person will develop their own personal symptoms: voiding diarhea day before, headaches, achy back, achy body can also be a symptom to record under a symbol that personal to you.
鈾?Once you establish a routine and you can see that there is approximately 20-30 days in between the episodes, you will know approximately when it's going to start.
鈾?You want to discuss with your mom and/or dad about pain control in the event you have cramps. You will want to have either Midol or Pamprin for teens on hand, panty liners, thin maxi pads, and an electric heating pad for the cramps. You may also hear that Advil, Motrin or Ibuprofen help.
鈾?Always carry panty liners in your purse and use them for the watery white discharge, or there could be a smell or it can dry and pinch you.
鈾?Lastly, if you don't have a diary, no worries, but think about a work book for yourself ~ a journal. Write down your goals, accomplishments, frustrations, solutions, fears, overcoming obstacles, etc. It's your personal collection.
Check these websites out for more information, ideas, fun and advice.
http://www.pamprin.com/english.html
http://www.beinggirl.ca/ by Tampax
http://girlspace.kotex.com/index.jspa Kotex
http://www.alwayscanada.com/ca_en/ Always
My first boy girl party. advice?
ok, so its my first coed party. im going with my best friend. im really nervous. cuz a bunch of high schoolers are going. any advice as to like besides ';buddy system'; wat do i do if they start grinding? how do i tell if they spiked my drink? *nervousneess!*My first boy girl party. advice?
So unless this is some sort of Christian party, drugs n booze are going to be there.
Just make sure not to be pressured into drinking/smoking that stuff. ;}
Anyone can have fun at a party with out weed/alcohol.
As for grinding, well, if you don't want to, just get out of the mob.My first boy girl party. advice?
First of all...are the parents going to be home? If NOT, I would not go. Terrible things can happen at a B/G party when parents are not there. If the parents are going to be home, they will hopefully check on all the kids periodically to make sure everything is going well and nothing bad is happening. If you are worried about alcohol, DO NOT drink anything that you have not poured out by yourself. AND don't leave your drink sitting unattended. Keep it in your hand until it is finished. If you are worried about other things happening, make sure you can call your parents to come and get you. Keep a cell phone in your pocket. Your parents will have more respect for your good judgement even if they have to come and save you (and your friend). Have fun and don't lose your head!
Relax! Go with a friend if you don't want to ask someone. Besides, then you don't have to spend the whole time with one guy. If they spiked your drink it will taste bitter. Then your head will start to hurt. If the boys and girls are on separate sides of the room, go over and talk to the hottest one. Girls will follow your lead and it will get the party going. If they start to grind, just act cool and make an excuse. Examples: * I got a text. Gotta take this.
* Bathroom or makeup check!
* Woah, guys! I'm not that stoned yet!
bring your own drink and don't put it down.. no one can spike it that way.. most date-rape drugs do not have a colour, odour or taste so you won't be able to tell.
as for grinding, no one can make you if you don't let them.. if you don't won't to grind just dance with your friends.. and since highschoolers will be there, there willl probably be alcohol and weed (i suggest avoiding that) don't be nervous, it will probably be lamer then you expect
Interesting - alcohol has a very distinct taste - you will know it in one sip. Take a sip. But there are those who would spike it with maybe drugs?
Why would you even want to go to a party where you have to worry about such things?
Grinding - uhm - do you mean sex with your clothes on? Well, look the other way, leave the room, or pour a bucket of ice cubes on them!
You are not getting nailed - it sounds like you might need some body armour to go to your first coed party - that's got to be a trip!
Don't forget your helmet!
high schoolers will grind. its how we dance. period. don't put your drink down anywhere that way it won't get ';spiked';. but... if you're that worried that someone will spike your drink maybe you ought to think about who you party with? especially first time co-ed parties. get used to being around opposite genders then venture out. always carry condoms. even if you don't want to have sex its better to use a condom just in case. if you feel intimidated by the people there don't be afraid to leave. i've done it before and trust me, i was real glad when i heard the cops showed up 30 mins after i left b/c of underage drinking. ya never know whats going to happen
well if they start grinding. go along with it. but TRUST ME try not to get an erection trust me its pretty awkward.
take a few condoms coz ur getting nailed girl wow
So unless this is some sort of Christian party, drugs n booze are going to be there.
Just make sure not to be pressured into drinking/smoking that stuff. ;}
Anyone can have fun at a party with out weed/alcohol.
As for grinding, well, if you don't want to, just get out of the mob.My first boy girl party. advice?
First of all...are the parents going to be home? If NOT, I would not go. Terrible things can happen at a B/G party when parents are not there. If the parents are going to be home, they will hopefully check on all the kids periodically to make sure everything is going well and nothing bad is happening. If you are worried about alcohol, DO NOT drink anything that you have not poured out by yourself. AND don't leave your drink sitting unattended. Keep it in your hand until it is finished. If you are worried about other things happening, make sure you can call your parents to come and get you. Keep a cell phone in your pocket. Your parents will have more respect for your good judgement even if they have to come and save you (and your friend). Have fun and don't lose your head!
Relax! Go with a friend if you don't want to ask someone. Besides, then you don't have to spend the whole time with one guy. If they spiked your drink it will taste bitter. Then your head will start to hurt. If the boys and girls are on separate sides of the room, go over and talk to the hottest one. Girls will follow your lead and it will get the party going. If they start to grind, just act cool and make an excuse. Examples: * I got a text. Gotta take this.
* Bathroom or makeup check!
* Woah, guys! I'm not that stoned yet!
bring your own drink and don't put it down.. no one can spike it that way.. most date-rape drugs do not have a colour, odour or taste so you won't be able to tell.
as for grinding, no one can make you if you don't let them.. if you don't won't to grind just dance with your friends.. and since highschoolers will be there, there willl probably be alcohol and weed (i suggest avoiding that) don't be nervous, it will probably be lamer then you expect
Interesting - alcohol has a very distinct taste - you will know it in one sip. Take a sip. But there are those who would spike it with maybe drugs?
Why would you even want to go to a party where you have to worry about such things?
Grinding - uhm - do you mean sex with your clothes on? Well, look the other way, leave the room, or pour a bucket of ice cubes on them!
You are not getting nailed - it sounds like you might need some body armour to go to your first coed party - that's got to be a trip!
Don't forget your helmet!
high schoolers will grind. its how we dance. period. don't put your drink down anywhere that way it won't get ';spiked';. but... if you're that worried that someone will spike your drink maybe you ought to think about who you party with? especially first time co-ed parties. get used to being around opposite genders then venture out. always carry condoms. even if you don't want to have sex its better to use a condom just in case. if you feel intimidated by the people there don't be afraid to leave. i've done it before and trust me, i was real glad when i heard the cops showed up 30 mins after i left b/c of underage drinking. ya never know whats going to happen
well if they start grinding. go along with it. but TRUST ME try not to get an erection trust me its pretty awkward.
take a few condoms coz ur getting nailed girl wow
I need some girl help/advice?
ok here is the deal im 14 and havnt have my period. yes i have ALL the other stuff, i were womens bras and jesus it hasnt come!! i went to doctor for u know the check up and she was kindof worried and if it doesnt come soon i need to see a special doctor... help! can i make it start wat will help it come???!!I need some girl help/advice?
Nothing will make it come, don't be afraid.If you do go to the ';special doctor'; about it, all she's going to do is probably put you on like a pill to regulate it. Sometimes nothing can be wrong, you're just a late bloomer other times the doctors do stuff so it'll make it all better. Don't freak out just relax, breathe.I need some girl help/advice?
there is nothing you can do to make it start
stressing out about it mite actually be making it late! stress is often the reason why some one has complications with thier period
there is nothing you can do tho, your body with start when its ready, unless there is something wrong with your hormones, then you will have no choice but to go to the doctor. don't worry about it, it happens to alot of girls, especially if they are over or under weight or they excersize to much and stuff like that.
your doctor should know that you can get your period at the age of 16. like i have a 2 friends 1 of them was 17 and didnt get her period yet cause she was into sports. and the other 1 was just so lazy that she didnt get hers lol so i say try doing a little bit of both.
- also be glad that you dont have yours yet. its a pain some times -
Stop stressing for one. Go to a GNC (nutrition store) the staff are wonderful and ask for a supplement to aid in the hormones. Your hormones may just be delayed or needing a boost. Some say the pill helps but I would try the alternative method first.
There's no way to make it come but you can be prepared..
Hey Sweetie, how about you give this a try and see if this will help you with future periods.
鈾?My daughter and I just went through this together. I got my daughter a calendar in her room, panty liners, light pads and felts.
My source site has a better description of what we did, but this should help in the mean time.
鈾?Each time my daughter had an emotional outburst we used a symbol (red mad face) on the calendar . These feelings included anger, rage, weeping, crying, screaming, bauling, irritable. They are symptoms of your hormones.
鈾?Each time my daughter needed to use a panty liner on her underwear for discharge, we used a symbol (blue triangle) on the calendar. Your vagina will start to discharge a milky white sticky substance. This is your body鈥檚 natural cleansing system.
鈾?Each time my daughter needed to use a panty liner on her underwear for spotting, we used a symbol (red triangle) on the calendar. Each time she felt or experienced abdominal cramps or intestinal cramps we used a symbol (red circle) on the calendar. Each time she voided (#2),we used a symbol (red square).
鈾?Each person will develop their own personal symptoms: voiding diarhea day before, headaches, achy back, achy body can also be a symptom to record under a symbol that personal to you.
鈾?Once you establish a routine and you can see that there is approximately 20-30 days in between the episodes, you will know approximately when it's going to start.
鈾?You want to discuss with your mom and/or dad about pain control in the event you have cramps. You will want to have either Midol or Pamprin for teens on hand, panty liners, thin maxi pads, and an electric heating pad for the cramps. You may also hear that Advil, Motrin or Ibuprofen help.
鈾?Always carry panty liners in your purse and use them for the watery white discharge, or there could be a smell or it can dry and pinch you.
鈾?Lastly, if you don't have a diary, no worries, but think about a work book for yourself ~ a journal. Write down your goals, accomplishments, frustrations, solutions, fears, overcoming obstacles, etc. It's your personal collection.
Check these websites out for more information, ideas, fun and advice.
http://www.pamprin.com/english.html
http://www.beinggirl.ca/ by Tampax
http://girlspace.kotex.com/index.jspa Kotex
http://www.alwayscanada.com/ca_en/ Always
Nothing will make it come, don't be afraid.If you do go to the ';special doctor'; about it, all she's going to do is probably put you on like a pill to regulate it. Sometimes nothing can be wrong, you're just a late bloomer other times the doctors do stuff so it'll make it all better. Don't freak out just relax, breathe.I need some girl help/advice?
there is nothing you can do to make it start
stressing out about it mite actually be making it late! stress is often the reason why some one has complications with thier period
there is nothing you can do tho, your body with start when its ready, unless there is something wrong with your hormones, then you will have no choice but to go to the doctor. don't worry about it, it happens to alot of girls, especially if they are over or under weight or they excersize to much and stuff like that.
your doctor should know that you can get your period at the age of 16. like i have a 2 friends 1 of them was 17 and didnt get her period yet cause she was into sports. and the other 1 was just so lazy that she didnt get hers lol so i say try doing a little bit of both.
- also be glad that you dont have yours yet. its a pain some times -
Stop stressing for one. Go to a GNC (nutrition store) the staff are wonderful and ask for a supplement to aid in the hormones. Your hormones may just be delayed or needing a boost. Some say the pill helps but I would try the alternative method first.
There's no way to make it come but you can be prepared..
Hey Sweetie, how about you give this a try and see if this will help you with future periods.
鈾?My daughter and I just went through this together. I got my daughter a calendar in her room, panty liners, light pads and felts.
My source site has a better description of what we did, but this should help in the mean time.
鈾?Each time my daughter had an emotional outburst we used a symbol (red mad face) on the calendar . These feelings included anger, rage, weeping, crying, screaming, bauling, irritable. They are symptoms of your hormones.
鈾?Each time my daughter needed to use a panty liner on her underwear for discharge, we used a symbol (blue triangle) on the calendar. Your vagina will start to discharge a milky white sticky substance. This is your body鈥檚 natural cleansing system.
鈾?Each time my daughter needed to use a panty liner on her underwear for spotting, we used a symbol (red triangle) on the calendar. Each time she felt or experienced abdominal cramps or intestinal cramps we used a symbol (red circle) on the calendar. Each time she voided (#2),we used a symbol (red square).
鈾?Each person will develop their own personal symptoms: voiding diarhea day before, headaches, achy back, achy body can also be a symptom to record under a symbol that personal to you.
鈾?Once you establish a routine and you can see that there is approximately 20-30 days in between the episodes, you will know approximately when it's going to start.
鈾?You want to discuss with your mom and/or dad about pain control in the event you have cramps. You will want to have either Midol or Pamprin for teens on hand, panty liners, thin maxi pads, and an electric heating pad for the cramps. You may also hear that Advil, Motrin or Ibuprofen help.
鈾?Always carry panty liners in your purse and use them for the watery white discharge, or there could be a smell or it can dry and pinch you.
鈾?Lastly, if you don't have a diary, no worries, but think about a work book for yourself ~ a journal. Write down your goals, accomplishments, frustrations, solutions, fears, overcoming obstacles, etc. It's your personal collection.
Check these websites out for more information, ideas, fun and advice.
http://www.pamprin.com/english.html
http://www.beinggirl.ca/ by Tampax
http://girlspace.kotex.com/index.jspa Kotex
http://www.alwayscanada.com/ca_en/ Always
HEY GUYS THIIS GIRL NEEDS ADVICE?
im an 8th grader and iv never had a bf evert other girl i no either has a bf has had a bf or has a guy crushn on them i dont no wat to do or wat im doin wronge help ,me pleaseHEY GUYS THIIS GIRL NEEDS ADVICE?
nothing wrong.. it just takes time.. i didn't date until i was 15 16... just take your time.. theres no need to be worried or rushed.. and don't feel like anything is wrong with you its not you...be happy being single right now.. believe me once you start dealing with the guys.. life gets mixed up and all crazy...
nothing wrong.. it just takes time.. i didn't date until i was 15 16... just take your time.. theres no need to be worried or rushed.. and don't feel like anything is wrong with you its not you...be happy being single right now.. believe me once you start dealing with the guys.. life gets mixed up and all crazy...
Just Some Advice On Girl Things?
Hi i was just asking for a little advice really i am 3 weeks late on my period My Period should of came on the 8th jan but i still have not came on i have taken 2 home pregnancy test but both saying negative i have gained a little weight and had lower back pain and also some cramping but nothing like period cramping also i have had a sharp pain in my virginal area this has only happened once am not sure if i am pregnant and if i cant be pregnant why am i late thank you.Just Some Advice On Girl Things?
late for period are caused by many reasons
such as pregnant, stress, food, medication, etc.
you should wait a little bit 1-1.5 weeks then check again with the high sensitive pregnant testing kit
if it show negative and you are not in those cases risk
you should go to doctor for check
normally you should check for once per 6 months anyway
so better go to doctorJust Some Advice On Girl Things?
Relax. It might be anxiety attacking causing your delay. I suggest you go see your GP.
Go see a doctor and get a check up
If the test says negative then you are not pregnant.
Oh dear god, you are SO pregnant it's not even cool.
Signs of pregnancy won't show up so soon,
I think your stress may disturb your hormone release,so as the period.
but if your period is ALWAYS regular,
the postponement this time is not normal and
you should ask for doctor's advice asap.
You can check the tester at the middle february,
it should be accurate then.
late for period are caused by many reasons
such as pregnant, stress, food, medication, etc.
you should wait a little bit 1-1.5 weeks then check again with the high sensitive pregnant testing kit
if it show negative and you are not in those cases risk
you should go to doctor for check
normally you should check for once per 6 months anyway
so better go to doctorJust Some Advice On Girl Things?
Relax. It might be anxiety attacking causing your delay. I suggest you go see your GP.
Go see a doctor and get a check up
If the test says negative then you are not pregnant.
Oh dear god, you are SO pregnant it's not even cool.
Signs of pregnancy won't show up so soon,
I think your stress may disturb your hormone release,so as the period.
but if your period is ALWAYS regular,
the postponement this time is not normal and
you should ask for doctor's advice asap.
You can check the tester at the middle february,
it should be accurate then.
I really need advice for a 14 year old girl?
Ok, say you liked a guy, you're both 14/15, but you never talked to him, you're still nervous to, and you are shy. How would you either get a friendship started, or at least tell if he likes you back?
I'm a hopeless romantic, girl,I really need advice for a 14 year old girl?
well first of all ill tell you what not to do. dont start off complimenting his clothes b/c its generic and it makes it seem like ur trying to hard. dont focus your attention too much on other people when talking to him. and dont act snotty or slutty at all.
the first thing you should say to him should be a little weird and random like nothing hes ever heard before. like one time this girl walked up to me and said u know i can tell alot about a man by the way he ties his shoes. and i kinda stood there not knowing what to say. and then she said like for instance u see how the right side is longer than the left well that means u probably enjoy pain a little bit. and i smiled and then she said and u c how your foot tilts to the left a little, u kno what that means. and i said what???? and then she said how the hell should i know. and we both started laughin and talking. ive been dating that girl now for 9 months about.
and also u should make him wanting more. like half way through talking to him you should just say i g2g and just walk away. and if he doesnt know your name, right when your walking away you should turn around and say o yea the names blah blah.
DONT BE NERVOUS!!!! WHAT HAVE YOU GOT TO LOSE???I really need advice for a 14 year old girl?
if you know anyone who knows him hang out with them a bit more and talk to them and this could help you get to know this boy through your friend and then the person would then know who you were and start conversations with you. another way is if Your in class together just kindly ask him for help with something and make a conversation about the teacher or how you find the subject hard or something. you could also add his face book,bebo,myspace,msn etc. and start chatting from there. or you could just walk past a say hello and introduce yourself and then you know who each over are and it will be easier to talk to each over.also if he hasn't spoken to you yet he might not want to because he may be shy or not know what to say to you boys get shy to very shy and get nervous around girls they may not seem it but they really do. he may not like you in that way yet either because he hasn't got to see the real you and doesn't know what your personality is like that's why its good to get to know them you may think he is good looking but he could have a horrible personality or an amazing one you just have to get to know them i hope this helped.
well it's probably way easier to start things off not face to face. like, talk on facebook or myspace. then from there you'll talk more in person. i'm also pretty shy, so when i want to talk to guys i like, i ask them a simple question and then from there it gets the ball rolling. for example: ';hey, do you know what the spanish homework was?';
good luck!!
yeah i have the same problem, lol i havn't fixed it yet or found a solution and i noe saying starting a conversation and getting to noe him better is harder then it sounds UGHHHHH especially when he flirts with like every girl in school!!!!! but yeah just try and get to noe him better and u can tell if he acts different around u then other ppl if he likes u back
I am also 14. It all really depends on where/if you see each other. If your in any of the same classes, try talking to him more than usual. If not, try to text him and keep it as just a friendly conversation at first. But after a week or two of texting, try to go in depth about one another's ';love life's.';
Good Luck!
I've been in that place so many times before.
I found that at some point, you just have to say ';f*ck it'; and walk up to that special person and say hello. If they smile and you continue a convo, flat out say you like them and would like to go out sometime.
jst drop ur pencil or sumthing in front of him if he bother to pick it up its cuz ur noticed if not then i guess hes jst not the one after that jst start a conversation about somthing u think u both have in common lik were u headin or sumthing lik that.(best answer) check out minehttp://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Av1RmxyxuiW839f4z7NqJk7sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090303094700AA312cM
hey, not to be mean but shouldn't you atleast know the person before you come out say you like them?? well i think you should find something in common you guys have or have a friend that knows him talk to him and you bud into the conversation and start talking him
Well for starters talk to one another then as you you talk you'll be able to tell if he likes u trust sometimes it's pretty obvious but don't be so nervous it will be alright start by communicating and getting to know him
Start by just saying hi to him. That's what my ex-girlfriend did when she met me. Guys like it when you pay attention to them, and unless you're butt ugly or something he'll appreciate it.
Invite him to a party, sign his yearbook, ask him a question in class and pretend you don't know what it means and keep doing it!
good luck!
Find something you guys are both interested in, if he's in a club or something join in and maybe that'll get you two talking.
do you have any classes together?
are your friends friends with any of his friends or with him?
those are both easy ways to talk to him and eventually become friends with him.
You're too young
im just lyk u but im 15 .
get some weed and go at it
Same problem here! E-mail me when u get an answer please!
I'm a hopeless romantic, girl,I really need advice for a 14 year old girl?
well first of all ill tell you what not to do. dont start off complimenting his clothes b/c its generic and it makes it seem like ur trying to hard. dont focus your attention too much on other people when talking to him. and dont act snotty or slutty at all.
the first thing you should say to him should be a little weird and random like nothing hes ever heard before. like one time this girl walked up to me and said u know i can tell alot about a man by the way he ties his shoes. and i kinda stood there not knowing what to say. and then she said like for instance u see how the right side is longer than the left well that means u probably enjoy pain a little bit. and i smiled and then she said and u c how your foot tilts to the left a little, u kno what that means. and i said what???? and then she said how the hell should i know. and we both started laughin and talking. ive been dating that girl now for 9 months about.
and also u should make him wanting more. like half way through talking to him you should just say i g2g and just walk away. and if he doesnt know your name, right when your walking away you should turn around and say o yea the names blah blah.
DONT BE NERVOUS!!!! WHAT HAVE YOU GOT TO LOSE???I really need advice for a 14 year old girl?
if you know anyone who knows him hang out with them a bit more and talk to them and this could help you get to know this boy through your friend and then the person would then know who you were and start conversations with you. another way is if Your in class together just kindly ask him for help with something and make a conversation about the teacher or how you find the subject hard or something. you could also add his face book,bebo,myspace,msn etc. and start chatting from there. or you could just walk past a say hello and introduce yourself and then you know who each over are and it will be easier to talk to each over.also if he hasn't spoken to you yet he might not want to because he may be shy or not know what to say to you boys get shy to very shy and get nervous around girls they may not seem it but they really do. he may not like you in that way yet either because he hasn't got to see the real you and doesn't know what your personality is like that's why its good to get to know them you may think he is good looking but he could have a horrible personality or an amazing one you just have to get to know them i hope this helped.
well it's probably way easier to start things off not face to face. like, talk on facebook or myspace. then from there you'll talk more in person. i'm also pretty shy, so when i want to talk to guys i like, i ask them a simple question and then from there it gets the ball rolling. for example: ';hey, do you know what the spanish homework was?';
good luck!!
yeah i have the same problem, lol i havn't fixed it yet or found a solution and i noe saying starting a conversation and getting to noe him better is harder then it sounds UGHHHHH especially when he flirts with like every girl in school!!!!! but yeah just try and get to noe him better and u can tell if he acts different around u then other ppl if he likes u back
I am also 14. It all really depends on where/if you see each other. If your in any of the same classes, try talking to him more than usual. If not, try to text him and keep it as just a friendly conversation at first. But after a week or two of texting, try to go in depth about one another's ';love life's.';
Good Luck!
I've been in that place so many times before.
I found that at some point, you just have to say ';f*ck it'; and walk up to that special person and say hello. If they smile and you continue a convo, flat out say you like them and would like to go out sometime.
jst drop ur pencil or sumthing in front of him if he bother to pick it up its cuz ur noticed if not then i guess hes jst not the one after that jst start a conversation about somthing u think u both have in common lik were u headin or sumthing lik that.(best answer) check out minehttp://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Av1RmxyxuiW839f4z7NqJk7sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090303094700AA312cM
hey, not to be mean but shouldn't you atleast know the person before you come out say you like them?? well i think you should find something in common you guys have or have a friend that knows him talk to him and you bud into the conversation and start talking him
Well for starters talk to one another then as you you talk you'll be able to tell if he likes u trust sometimes it's pretty obvious but don't be so nervous it will be alright start by communicating and getting to know him
Start by just saying hi to him. That's what my ex-girlfriend did when she met me. Guys like it when you pay attention to them, and unless you're butt ugly or something he'll appreciate it.
Invite him to a party, sign his yearbook, ask him a question in class and pretend you don't know what it means and keep doing it!
good luck!
Find something you guys are both interested in, if he's in a club or something join in and maybe that'll get you two talking.
do you have any classes together?
are your friends friends with any of his friends or with him?
those are both easy ways to talk to him and eventually become friends with him.
You're too young
im just lyk u but im 15 .
get some weed and go at it
Same problem here! E-mail me when u get an answer please!
I need a girl's advice on this one... sorry guys?
I really like this guy and i don't know if he likes me too, i know he has noticed me i mean we do talk and all but how do i make him notice me more and actually ask me out???!!!???!!! I really need helpI need a girl's advice on this one... sorry guys?
why don't you stop waiting for him and just ask yourselfI need a girl's advice on this one... sorry guys?
ok valley heres what you do. When or if your in the same area or what ever if your visual of eachother. Very casualy talk to other people. Do the whole twirling of the hair with your finger with out looking stupid and then throw it back behind your shoulder. Continue talking laugh a little even bring your voice to a higher pich, but not to loud where it is obvious. Make it look like the conversation you are having is interesting and has your full attention. Place your hand up on your hip and put your other hand up to your neck and place it there. Shake your head every now and then to the person your talking to. While doing this look to see if he is looking at you. Do it causualy, the hand up at your neck use to flip your hair back that will give you the chance to see if he is looking at you. If you catch him looking at you, look back but dont acknowledge that you two have looked at eachother. Before taking your eyes off his give him this seductive/tease stare. What I am trying to say about this is that you are giving signs on body launguage. Stick out your chest and suck in your stomach so your butt is sticking out. Your letting any guy know that you are very comfortable with your body and feel sexy in a way. Yeah I know it sounds funny, but it works. Wear a white lacy shirt if you can and a nice pair of jeans. Leave your hair down so it looks wispy. After washing it let your hair air dry so it gets that wispy look. Trust me this will all work, I have done it so many times. It drives guys crazy.
a guy can give better advice than a girl on this one
You have to do this slowly. Flirt with him first and then as things get heated, just say that you think he's a cool guy and if he wants to do something on the weekend or whenever he's free.
ask him out
Just speak up and say Hey honey do you like me?
Why would you want a womens advice only. A women can not tell you what a man is thinking. That is the problem, women giving women advice on men they know nothing about.
well the only way you'll truely know is if you ask him if you dont hell probably go for some other girl and you'll be devestated
Eye Contact! Focus on the color of his eyes when he's around, hold his gaze a second longer then you normally would. Let him notice you watching him, smile sweetly, go out of your way to do something nice(without making a big deal about it). Buddy up with his friends and get them to like you then casually drop little questions about the guy you like(letting them know your interested in him). He may just need someone suggesting a potential relationship with you before he realizes that it's there! Once they like you and they know you like him...they will totally approve and back you up! Trust me it works!
Whatever you do don't seem ';too'; available. Make him laugh and be yourself!!!
be blunt with him, ask him if he ever wants to hang out by yourselves, never wait for the man to ask, cause sometimes there just as scared to ask, you will miss out if you wait
why don't you stop waiting for him and just ask yourselfI need a girl's advice on this one... sorry guys?
ok valley heres what you do. When or if your in the same area or what ever if your visual of eachother. Very casualy talk to other people. Do the whole twirling of the hair with your finger with out looking stupid and then throw it back behind your shoulder. Continue talking laugh a little even bring your voice to a higher pich, but not to loud where it is obvious. Make it look like the conversation you are having is interesting and has your full attention. Place your hand up on your hip and put your other hand up to your neck and place it there. Shake your head every now and then to the person your talking to. While doing this look to see if he is looking at you. Do it causualy, the hand up at your neck use to flip your hair back that will give you the chance to see if he is looking at you. If you catch him looking at you, look back but dont acknowledge that you two have looked at eachother. Before taking your eyes off his give him this seductive/tease stare. What I am trying to say about this is that you are giving signs on body launguage. Stick out your chest and suck in your stomach so your butt is sticking out. Your letting any guy know that you are very comfortable with your body and feel sexy in a way. Yeah I know it sounds funny, but it works. Wear a white lacy shirt if you can and a nice pair of jeans. Leave your hair down so it looks wispy. After washing it let your hair air dry so it gets that wispy look. Trust me this will all work, I have done it so many times. It drives guys crazy.
a guy can give better advice than a girl on this one
You have to do this slowly. Flirt with him first and then as things get heated, just say that you think he's a cool guy and if he wants to do something on the weekend or whenever he's free.
ask him out
Just speak up and say Hey honey do you like me?
Why would you want a womens advice only. A women can not tell you what a man is thinking. That is the problem, women giving women advice on men they know nothing about.
well the only way you'll truely know is if you ask him if you dont hell probably go for some other girl and you'll be devestated
Eye Contact! Focus on the color of his eyes when he's around, hold his gaze a second longer then you normally would. Let him notice you watching him, smile sweetly, go out of your way to do something nice(without making a big deal about it). Buddy up with his friends and get them to like you then casually drop little questions about the guy you like(letting them know your interested in him). He may just need someone suggesting a potential relationship with you before he realizes that it's there! Once they like you and they know you like him...they will totally approve and back you up! Trust me it works!
Whatever you do don't seem ';too'; available. Make him laugh and be yourself!!!
be blunt with him, ask him if he ever wants to hang out by yourselves, never wait for the man to ask, cause sometimes there just as scared to ask, you will miss out if you wait
Alright...I just got a 10 week old baby girl Husky...Do you have any advice for me?
Shes tearing up her sheets I put out for her to do her business on...she kind of wanted to attack my cat, and her and my other dog were smelling eachother through a fence, and my other dog wouldnt stop crying...My main concern is the baby and my cat...how can I get them both to calmly get together?Alright...I just got a 10 week old baby girl Husky...Do you have any advice for me?
Let her in the rooms where the cat has been and keep the cat safely in another area so puppy can smell cat's scent. After a few days let them have supervised time together and gently tell the puppy ';No, kitty friend'; while pulling her back if she is too aggressive with it. Make sure the puppy has adequate exercise, Huskies were bred to run miles a day so she will get bored and look for trouble if her energy is not channeled properly. Look at her as a personal trainer, lots of walks and playing ball will reinforce you as her Alpha and she will do what you ask more readily. Good Luck!Alright...I just got a 10 week old baby girl Husky...Do you have any advice for me?
It is known for huskies and cats not to get along. Since she is a puppy, she will need obedience training. Let her know you are the boss, and you wont let her chase the cat. The obedience trainer will show you how without being mean.
Newspaper and training pads aren't the greatest for potty training. Think about it...you're actually encouraging your puppy to do her business in the house.
Crate training is the best way to go about potty training. ';How To Train Your Siberian Husky'; by Liz Palika is a GREAT book. It will give you sooo much information on potty training and formal training for your baby girl.
As far as the cat...yes Huskies are known for higher prey drives. However she is a puppy and puppies almost always adapt to cats. It's a lot easier when they grow up with one. She may chase the kitty. Make sure your cat has somewhere to hide or something to jump on to get away from the puppy. My Sibe LOVES his two kitties. Things were a little crazy at first. A lot of barking and hissing. Things calmed down after a couple of weeks and now they chase each other around the house.
If she tries to grab the kitty or is successful in putting her mouth on it yell no in a firm voice. Let her know it isn't acceptable. Holding the cat and letting the pup be close as well will help.
Playing with her and wearing her out will also help. If she's tired she won't be so inclined to bug the cat and want to chase it.
The best advice though is to go get that book. It will answer all your questions. Your local library may have it.
got to give it time, this is all new to her and your cat, I had a beagle puppy and a cat believe me a hunter of small games with a cat its them who have to get to know eachother, pretty much leave them be unless she goes to attack it and your cat cant defend itself then swat at your dog and growl a no cat, this will let him know you mean buisness, believe me once my beagle and cat got to know eachother they were sprawled out in the sun sleeping together, and when my cat passed away at 3 that dog was howling up a storm beacuse he missed his best friend. so give it time and goodluck! I am in the same boat as you have a 2 month shiba inu puppy and a 2 yr old mini dachshund who doesnt know what to do!
As for the papers could be because she hasnt associated them yet with potty and only sees them as a play toy and shreds them, when she shreds them correct her and say no shred and give that time too believe me I have pads for my Shiba Inu and he licks them as hes peeing away from them.
You need to play with your pet more.Take her for short walks but if it is too cold play in the house!Bring your cat and puppy near eachother and show your cat your Husky can be gentle.Good luck!
Let her in the rooms where the cat has been and keep the cat safely in another area so puppy can smell cat's scent. After a few days let them have supervised time together and gently tell the puppy ';No, kitty friend'; while pulling her back if she is too aggressive with it. Make sure the puppy has adequate exercise, Huskies were bred to run miles a day so she will get bored and look for trouble if her energy is not channeled properly. Look at her as a personal trainer, lots of walks and playing ball will reinforce you as her Alpha and she will do what you ask more readily. Good Luck!Alright...I just got a 10 week old baby girl Husky...Do you have any advice for me?
It is known for huskies and cats not to get along. Since she is a puppy, she will need obedience training. Let her know you are the boss, and you wont let her chase the cat. The obedience trainer will show you how without being mean.
Newspaper and training pads aren't the greatest for potty training. Think about it...you're actually encouraging your puppy to do her business in the house.
Crate training is the best way to go about potty training. ';How To Train Your Siberian Husky'; by Liz Palika is a GREAT book. It will give you sooo much information on potty training and formal training for your baby girl.
As far as the cat...yes Huskies are known for higher prey drives. However she is a puppy and puppies almost always adapt to cats. It's a lot easier when they grow up with one. She may chase the kitty. Make sure your cat has somewhere to hide or something to jump on to get away from the puppy. My Sibe LOVES his two kitties. Things were a little crazy at first. A lot of barking and hissing. Things calmed down after a couple of weeks and now they chase each other around the house.
If she tries to grab the kitty or is successful in putting her mouth on it yell no in a firm voice. Let her know it isn't acceptable. Holding the cat and letting the pup be close as well will help.
Playing with her and wearing her out will also help. If she's tired she won't be so inclined to bug the cat and want to chase it.
The best advice though is to go get that book. It will answer all your questions. Your local library may have it.
got to give it time, this is all new to her and your cat, I had a beagle puppy and a cat believe me a hunter of small games with a cat its them who have to get to know eachother, pretty much leave them be unless she goes to attack it and your cat cant defend itself then swat at your dog and growl a no cat, this will let him know you mean buisness, believe me once my beagle and cat got to know eachother they were sprawled out in the sun sleeping together, and when my cat passed away at 3 that dog was howling up a storm beacuse he missed his best friend. so give it time and goodluck! I am in the same boat as you have a 2 month shiba inu puppy and a 2 yr old mini dachshund who doesnt know what to do!
As for the papers could be because she hasnt associated them yet with potty and only sees them as a play toy and shreds them, when she shreds them correct her and say no shred and give that time too believe me I have pads for my Shiba Inu and he licks them as hes peeing away from them.
You need to play with your pet more.Take her for short walks but if it is too cold play in the house!Bring your cat and puppy near eachother and show your cat your Husky can be gentle.Good luck!
Any advice on approaching a girl and asking for date?
I know her, but don't talk her much, but have crush for her. I don't want to ask her in class, since some people might overhear it, I've been trying to get her along to pop the question, but she is always around someone. Any advice?Any advice on approaching a girl and asking for date?
Well first start slowly by getting to know her better. Ask her questions on homework or ask her if she understood what the teacher said and if she could explain it to you. Simple things like that. Slowly work your way by asking her more personal questions like favorite music, movies, or just asking if she's got plans for the weekend. Don't seem to interested and don't hurry to ask her out if she doesn't know you well, its wierd to be asked out by someone you don't know. Hopefully after you've gotten to know her better she'll say hi to you in the hallways, once it gets to this stage then stop her one day in the hallway and ask her if she wants to hang out that weekend and watch a movie or something. If she seems reluctant mention that its just hanging out with you and possibly some other friends. Work your way into becoming somewhat friends before you ask her out. You don't want to become really good friends b/c then she won't want to go out with you.
Good luck!Any advice on approaching a girl and asking for date?
adderall does the trick...
Try to get her to go away from the people she is with for a few minutes and ask her if she is interested. You can even make it a group date to releave some discomfort.
Since you have the same class together, try to get to know her by asking her before class if she understood something from class or after, pull her aside from her friends and ask her to repeat the homework or reading assigned. Ask her then if you get the courage.
Also, you can always pass along a little note, have you seen wedding crashers? ';Want to dance check yes or no';
Good luck!
give her a note and ask her on a date good luck
Well first start slowly by getting to know her better. Ask her questions on homework or ask her if she understood what the teacher said and if she could explain it to you. Simple things like that. Slowly work your way by asking her more personal questions like favorite music, movies, or just asking if she's got plans for the weekend. Don't seem to interested and don't hurry to ask her out if she doesn't know you well, its wierd to be asked out by someone you don't know. Hopefully after you've gotten to know her better she'll say hi to you in the hallways, once it gets to this stage then stop her one day in the hallway and ask her if she wants to hang out that weekend and watch a movie or something. If she seems reluctant mention that its just hanging out with you and possibly some other friends. Work your way into becoming somewhat friends before you ask her out. You don't want to become really good friends b/c then she won't want to go out with you.
Good luck!Any advice on approaching a girl and asking for date?
adderall does the trick...
Try to get her to go away from the people she is with for a few minutes and ask her if she is interested. You can even make it a group date to releave some discomfort.
Since you have the same class together, try to get to know her by asking her before class if she understood something from class or after, pull her aside from her friends and ask her to repeat the homework or reading assigned. Ask her then if you get the courage.
Also, you can always pass along a little note, have you seen wedding crashers? ';Want to dance check yes or no';
Good luck!
give her a note and ask her on a date good luck
Help my little girl is almost 3 need advice on how to get her to go potty without complaining.?
She will go occasonally but throws a tantrum about it also she refuses to tell me when she has to go. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!! i WANT HER TO GO TO PRESCHOOL IN 08Help my little girl is almost 3 need advice on how to get her to go potty without complaining.?
What worked for me with my daughter was this: we went shopping together, and I got her all excited about buying a squishy toilet seat for toddlers and an egg timer.
Then we got home and made a game out of setting the timer to 15 minutes and running to the bathroom to go potty (every 15 mins!). It got her completely trained within 3 days!Help my little girl is almost 3 need advice on how to get her to go potty without complaining.?
There is a book called ';Toilet training in less than a day.'; I used it to train my two kids and most of my nieces and nephews. The basis of the book is to have your child teach his/her favorite doll, stuffed animal or super hero how to use the potty. Take your child into the bathroom. Hold a hidden soaked washcloth behind the doll and place it on the potty. Also have your child's favorite treat in eyesight on the vanity. Tell your child to ask the doll to go potty in the toilet or on the potty and the doll will get his/her favorite treat. When your child repeats what you said, secretly wring out the washcloth into the potty. Tell your child to praise the doll for going potty like a big girl/boy and have your child give the doll a treat. Also give the child a treat. Have your child tell the doll that every time he/she goes potty in the toilet/potty, he/she will get another treat. Have your child explain to the doll why big boys and girls go on the potty. Every time the doll or your child goes on the potty, sing and dance together. Make up a fun song to sing every time one goes potty. The book is very detailed and has worked for me every time.
For both of my children, I used a sticker chart. It started by getting a sticker for using the potty. After 5 stickers they got a small prize (something cheap). Once they got the idea of this reward system, we would switch to a ';staying dry'; chart instead of ';using the potty. They really enjoyed seeing their progress on the wall. Also, they were able to choose something special to do with me once they filled the charts with stickers. This gave them great incentive to do their best and was actually a fun way to train themselves. Kids like choosing their own reward.
FYI - I also used this same method with other issues (bedtime, etc.)
It is very bad for a child's psychological health to set up a ';strict standard'; for potty use. Make the child feel comfortable about what she does, and you will see a difference in her. What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be against us? - Romans 8:31. The Lord daily loadeth us with benefits, even the God of our salvation. Selah. - Psalm 68:19. Peace, Love and God Bless.
dont make her...that is the first step. You have a whle year to get her to use the potty if you try to make her she will refuse even more. What I did with mydaughter when I got her potty trained she is 4 now but she was 2 when I got her potty trained. I would take her in the bath room everytime that I had to go so she could hear me go and she thought it was a game. So after I was done I told her to try to make the sounds that mommy did and one week later she was using the potty. But we did have a problem with her b/m she would not go to save her life on the potty. So one day my mom came over and said that little girls that dont use the potty cant stay the night at my house and ever since then she has used the potty just find. We have never had an accident nothing. So tell her your not going to go some where that she really like that only big girls who use the potty all the time can go. And that just might be the help that she need. So the best of luck.
Stop worrying!! She will do it when she is ready. Take a break from it for a couple of weeks , Put her back into nappies, encourage her to sit on the potty if she will do so without a fight but otherwise forget it. Children use toilet as a manipulative tool and she will be feeding off of your anxiety. There is a wide variation in the age at which children are ready to be toilet trained. some may do it over a period of a few days some may take a lot longer. They will be dry in the day well before they are dry at night. Is your little one indicating that she is ready by having occasionally dry nappies and showing signs of awareness and /or discomfort when she wets or soils?
Trainer pants can be helpful for the first week or so. Let her come to buy them with you. Or pretty pants!
Start the training at a time when you are not feeling too stressed yourself. Be laid back about it and give lots of praise and encouragement when she does 'perform'. If she has an accident just change her with a 'whoops! oh dear!' sort of attitude. Star charts can be a really useful tool at this time. She could have a tick or a star for every time she sits on the pot, the same for a dry nappy or pants and a gold star for every time she 'performs'.Give her a treat for a set number of stars. Tell her what it is so that she has an achievable goal. If problems persist for more than a few months it may be worth checking with you GP that there is nothing physically wrong. Be cool and just ignore any tantrums.
Good Luck
my daughter is almost 4 now and has been potty trained for a long time and just recently started having accidents again and having tantrums when it was time to use the potty. finally i realized that she was terrified that if she walked away from her toy to use the bathroom her sister would swoop in like a vulture and take the toy! haha. once i realized this was the problem i made a rule in my house that if you walk away from a toy to use the bathroom, it's still your toy when you get back, there's no stealing. once she was assured that it was ';safe'; to take a bathroom break from playing, the accidents went away and so did the tantrums. try to listen to your little girl and see if there's some real reason why she doesn't want to go to the bathroom. you might be surprised at what she'll tell you. maybe something you never even thought of is bothering her. good luck!
How long does she stay dry before she wets? What kind of underwear is she using? Take her shopping for ';big girl panties'; and when you get home, put them on her. Tell her ';Now, don't forget you have on big girl panties today. You don't want to wet them!'; Take her to the potty every hour and a half, after her nap, after meals, and after vigorous play. If she throws a tantrum, just stand there and ignore it. When she starts to wind down, take her to the bathroom and ask her if she can do it herself or does she need your help? If she refuses, help her pull down her pants and sit on the toilet. You can tell her ';This is not a choice thing. It's time to go potty. If you don't want to do it yourself, I will need to help you.'; Be patient and calm, but firm. It may take a few accidents, but she will catch on very quickly. Being wet in big girl panties is not fun. It's so much easier to just go when you need to!
Hang in there mom. Persistence and patience will pay off!
She will do it when she is ready. You can't rush them! My son is 2 years 9 months and has been using the toilet for months, but I still cant take him out without a nappy because he forgets and wets himself. When he is ready he will let me know. Good luck
I'm really worried about the pressure parents will place on their children about this issue. There is no right or wrong time for children to be potty trained. I have three - now young adults - that potty trained at completly different ages and ways. One was 2, one was 3 and the last one even was 3.5!
In this day and age of Pull-ups, you can send a child to preschool that is not completley potty trained. I see that all the time where I work. Being with other children of the same age, that use the potty has so far inspired everyone else faster and better than it could've happened at home! :-)
My advice - back off, don't force her, she's in control of her bladder! And then pick one day every other week, to see if she's ready to be a big girl. And if not, with no negative comments, put her back in diapers. One day she'll surprise you and be ready. :-)hand lotion
What worked for me with my daughter was this: we went shopping together, and I got her all excited about buying a squishy toilet seat for toddlers and an egg timer.
Then we got home and made a game out of setting the timer to 15 minutes and running to the bathroom to go potty (every 15 mins!). It got her completely trained within 3 days!Help my little girl is almost 3 need advice on how to get her to go potty without complaining.?
There is a book called ';Toilet training in less than a day.'; I used it to train my two kids and most of my nieces and nephews. The basis of the book is to have your child teach his/her favorite doll, stuffed animal or super hero how to use the potty. Take your child into the bathroom. Hold a hidden soaked washcloth behind the doll and place it on the potty. Also have your child's favorite treat in eyesight on the vanity. Tell your child to ask the doll to go potty in the toilet or on the potty and the doll will get his/her favorite treat. When your child repeats what you said, secretly wring out the washcloth into the potty. Tell your child to praise the doll for going potty like a big girl/boy and have your child give the doll a treat. Also give the child a treat. Have your child tell the doll that every time he/she goes potty in the toilet/potty, he/she will get another treat. Have your child explain to the doll why big boys and girls go on the potty. Every time the doll or your child goes on the potty, sing and dance together. Make up a fun song to sing every time one goes potty. The book is very detailed and has worked for me every time.
For both of my children, I used a sticker chart. It started by getting a sticker for using the potty. After 5 stickers they got a small prize (something cheap). Once they got the idea of this reward system, we would switch to a ';staying dry'; chart instead of ';using the potty. They really enjoyed seeing their progress on the wall. Also, they were able to choose something special to do with me once they filled the charts with stickers. This gave them great incentive to do their best and was actually a fun way to train themselves. Kids like choosing their own reward.
FYI - I also used this same method with other issues (bedtime, etc.)
It is very bad for a child's psychological health to set up a ';strict standard'; for potty use. Make the child feel comfortable about what she does, and you will see a difference in her. What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be against us? - Romans 8:31. The Lord daily loadeth us with benefits, even the God of our salvation. Selah. - Psalm 68:19. Peace, Love and God Bless.
dont make her...that is the first step. You have a whle year to get her to use the potty if you try to make her she will refuse even more. What I did with mydaughter when I got her potty trained she is 4 now but she was 2 when I got her potty trained. I would take her in the bath room everytime that I had to go so she could hear me go and she thought it was a game. So after I was done I told her to try to make the sounds that mommy did and one week later she was using the potty. But we did have a problem with her b/m she would not go to save her life on the potty. So one day my mom came over and said that little girls that dont use the potty cant stay the night at my house and ever since then she has used the potty just find. We have never had an accident nothing. So tell her your not going to go some where that she really like that only big girls who use the potty all the time can go. And that just might be the help that she need. So the best of luck.
Stop worrying!! She will do it when she is ready. Take a break from it for a couple of weeks , Put her back into nappies, encourage her to sit on the potty if she will do so without a fight but otherwise forget it. Children use toilet as a manipulative tool and she will be feeding off of your anxiety. There is a wide variation in the age at which children are ready to be toilet trained. some may do it over a period of a few days some may take a lot longer. They will be dry in the day well before they are dry at night. Is your little one indicating that she is ready by having occasionally dry nappies and showing signs of awareness and /or discomfort when she wets or soils?
Trainer pants can be helpful for the first week or so. Let her come to buy them with you. Or pretty pants!
Start the training at a time when you are not feeling too stressed yourself. Be laid back about it and give lots of praise and encouragement when she does 'perform'. If she has an accident just change her with a 'whoops! oh dear!' sort of attitude. Star charts can be a really useful tool at this time. She could have a tick or a star for every time she sits on the pot, the same for a dry nappy or pants and a gold star for every time she 'performs'.Give her a treat for a set number of stars. Tell her what it is so that she has an achievable goal. If problems persist for more than a few months it may be worth checking with you GP that there is nothing physically wrong. Be cool and just ignore any tantrums.
Good Luck
my daughter is almost 4 now and has been potty trained for a long time and just recently started having accidents again and having tantrums when it was time to use the potty. finally i realized that she was terrified that if she walked away from her toy to use the bathroom her sister would swoop in like a vulture and take the toy! haha. once i realized this was the problem i made a rule in my house that if you walk away from a toy to use the bathroom, it's still your toy when you get back, there's no stealing. once she was assured that it was ';safe'; to take a bathroom break from playing, the accidents went away and so did the tantrums. try to listen to your little girl and see if there's some real reason why she doesn't want to go to the bathroom. you might be surprised at what she'll tell you. maybe something you never even thought of is bothering her. good luck!
How long does she stay dry before she wets? What kind of underwear is she using? Take her shopping for ';big girl panties'; and when you get home, put them on her. Tell her ';Now, don't forget you have on big girl panties today. You don't want to wet them!'; Take her to the potty every hour and a half, after her nap, after meals, and after vigorous play. If she throws a tantrum, just stand there and ignore it. When she starts to wind down, take her to the bathroom and ask her if she can do it herself or does she need your help? If she refuses, help her pull down her pants and sit on the toilet. You can tell her ';This is not a choice thing. It's time to go potty. If you don't want to do it yourself, I will need to help you.'; Be patient and calm, but firm. It may take a few accidents, but she will catch on very quickly. Being wet in big girl panties is not fun. It's so much easier to just go when you need to!
Hang in there mom. Persistence and patience will pay off!
She will do it when she is ready. You can't rush them! My son is 2 years 9 months and has been using the toilet for months, but I still cant take him out without a nappy because he forgets and wets himself. When he is ready he will let me know. Good luck
I'm really worried about the pressure parents will place on their children about this issue. There is no right or wrong time for children to be potty trained. I have three - now young adults - that potty trained at completly different ages and ways. One was 2, one was 3 and the last one even was 3.5!
In this day and age of Pull-ups, you can send a child to preschool that is not completley potty trained. I see that all the time where I work. Being with other children of the same age, that use the potty has so far inspired everyone else faster and better than it could've happened at home! :-)
My advice - back off, don't force her, she's in control of her bladder! And then pick one day every other week, to see if she's ready to be a big girl. And if not, with no negative comments, put her back in diapers. One day she'll surprise you and be ready. :-)
Help my little girl is almost 3 need advice on how to get her to go potty without complaining.?
She will go occasonally but throws a tantrum about it also she refuses to tell me when she has to go. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!! i WANT HER TO GO TO PRESCHOOL IN 08Help my little girl is almost 3 need advice on how to get her to go potty without complaining.?
What worked for me with my daughter was this: we went shopping together, and I got her all excited about buying a squishy toilet seat for toddlers and an egg timer.
Then we got home and made a game out of setting the timer to 15 minutes and running to the bathroom to go potty (every 15 mins!). It got her completely trained within 3 days!Help my little girl is almost 3 need advice on how to get her to go potty without complaining.?
There is a book called ';Toilet training in less than a day.'; I used it to train my two kids and most of my nieces and nephews. The basis of the book is to have your child teach his/her favorite doll, stuffed animal or super hero how to use the potty. Take your child into the bathroom. Hold a hidden soaked washcloth behind the doll and place it on the potty. Also have your child's favorite treat in eyesight on the vanity. Tell your child to ask the doll to go potty in the toilet or on the potty and the doll will get his/her favorite treat. When your child repeats what you said, secretly wring out the washcloth into the potty. Tell your child to praise the doll for going potty like a big girl/boy and have your child give the doll a treat. Also give the child a treat. Have your child tell the doll that every time he/she goes potty in the toilet/potty, he/she will get another treat. Have your child explain to the doll why big boys and girls go on the potty. Every time the doll or your child goes on the potty, sing and dance together. Make up a fun song to sing every time one goes potty. The book is very detailed and has worked for me every time.
For both of my children, I used a sticker chart. It started by getting a sticker for using the potty. After 5 stickers they got a small prize (something cheap). Once they got the idea of this reward system, we would switch to a ';staying dry'; chart instead of ';using the potty. They really enjoyed seeing their progress on the wall. Also, they were able to choose something special to do with me once they filled the charts with stickers. This gave them great incentive to do their best and was actually a fun way to train themselves. Kids like choosing their own reward.
FYI - I also used this same method with other issues (bedtime, etc.)
It is very bad for a child's psychological health to set up a ';strict standard'; for potty use. Make the child feel comfortable about what she does, and you will see a difference in her. What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be against us? - Romans 8:31. The Lord daily loadeth us with benefits, even the God of our salvation. Selah. - Psalm 68:19. Peace, Love and God Bless.
dont make her...that is the first step. You have a whle year to get her to use the potty if you try to make her she will refuse even more. What I did with mydaughter when I got her potty trained she is 4 now but she was 2 when I got her potty trained. I would take her in the bath room everytime that I had to go so she could hear me go and she thought it was a game. So after I was done I told her to try to make the sounds that mommy did and one week later she was using the potty. But we did have a problem with her b/m she would not go to save her life on the potty. So one day my mom came over and said that little girls that dont use the potty cant stay the night at my house and ever since then she has used the potty just find. We have never had an accident nothing. So tell her your not going to go some where that she really like that only big girls who use the potty all the time can go. And that just might be the help that she need. So the best of luck.
Stop worrying!! She will do it when she is ready. Take a break from it for a couple of weeks , Put her back into nappies, encourage her to sit on the potty if she will do so without a fight but otherwise forget it. Children use toilet as a manipulative tool and she will be feeding off of your anxiety. There is a wide variation in the age at which children are ready to be toilet trained. some may do it over a period of a few days some may take a lot longer. They will be dry in the day well before they are dry at night. Is your little one indicating that she is ready by having occasionally dry nappies and showing signs of awareness and /or discomfort when she wets or soils?
Trainer pants can be helpful for the first week or so. Let her come to buy them with you. Or pretty pants!
Start the training at a time when you are not feeling too stressed yourself. Be laid back about it and give lots of praise and encouragement when she does 'perform'. If she has an accident just change her with a 'whoops! oh dear!' sort of attitude. Star charts can be a really useful tool at this time. She could have a tick or a star for every time she sits on the pot, the same for a dry nappy or pants and a gold star for every time she 'performs'.Give her a treat for a set number of stars. Tell her what it is so that she has an achievable goal. If problems persist for more than a few months it may be worth checking with you GP that there is nothing physically wrong. Be cool and just ignore any tantrums.
Good Luck
my daughter is almost 4 now and has been potty trained for a long time and just recently started having accidents again and having tantrums when it was time to use the potty. finally i realized that she was terrified that if she walked away from her toy to use the bathroom her sister would swoop in like a vulture and take the toy! haha. once i realized this was the problem i made a rule in my house that if you walk away from a toy to use the bathroom, it's still your toy when you get back, there's no stealing. once she was assured that it was ';safe'; to take a bathroom break from playing, the accidents went away and so did the tantrums. try to listen to your little girl and see if there's some real reason why she doesn't want to go to the bathroom. you might be surprised at what she'll tell you. maybe something you never even thought of is bothering her. good luck!
How long does she stay dry before she wets? What kind of underwear is she using? Take her shopping for ';big girl panties'; and when you get home, put them on her. Tell her ';Now, don't forget you have on big girl panties today. You don't want to wet them!'; Take her to the potty every hour and a half, after her nap, after meals, and after vigorous play. If she throws a tantrum, just stand there and ignore it. When she starts to wind down, take her to the bathroom and ask her if she can do it herself or does she need your help? If she refuses, help her pull down her pants and sit on the toilet. You can tell her ';This is not a choice thing. It's time to go potty. If you don't want to do it yourself, I will need to help you.'; Be patient and calm, but firm. It may take a few accidents, but she will catch on very quickly. Being wet in big girl panties is not fun. It's so much easier to just go when you need to!
Hang in there mom. Persistence and patience will pay off!
She will do it when she is ready. You can't rush them! My son is 2 years 9 months and has been using the toilet for months, but I still cant take him out without a nappy because he forgets and wets himself. When he is ready he will let me know. Good luck
I'm really worried about the pressure parents will place on their children about this issue. There is no right or wrong time for children to be potty trained. I have three - now young adults - that potty trained at completly different ages and ways. One was 2, one was 3 and the last one even was 3.5!
In this day and age of Pull-ups, you can send a child to preschool that is not completley potty trained. I see that all the time where I work. Being with other children of the same age, that use the potty has so far inspired everyone else faster and better than it could've happened at home! :-)
My advice - back off, don't force her, she's in control of her bladder! And then pick one day every other week, to see if she's ready to be a big girl. And if not, with no negative comments, put her back in diapers. One day she'll surprise you and be ready. :-)
What worked for me with my daughter was this: we went shopping together, and I got her all excited about buying a squishy toilet seat for toddlers and an egg timer.
Then we got home and made a game out of setting the timer to 15 minutes and running to the bathroom to go potty (every 15 mins!). It got her completely trained within 3 days!Help my little girl is almost 3 need advice on how to get her to go potty without complaining.?
There is a book called ';Toilet training in less than a day.'; I used it to train my two kids and most of my nieces and nephews. The basis of the book is to have your child teach his/her favorite doll, stuffed animal or super hero how to use the potty. Take your child into the bathroom. Hold a hidden soaked washcloth behind the doll and place it on the potty. Also have your child's favorite treat in eyesight on the vanity. Tell your child to ask the doll to go potty in the toilet or on the potty and the doll will get his/her favorite treat. When your child repeats what you said, secretly wring out the washcloth into the potty. Tell your child to praise the doll for going potty like a big girl/boy and have your child give the doll a treat. Also give the child a treat. Have your child tell the doll that every time he/she goes potty in the toilet/potty, he/she will get another treat. Have your child explain to the doll why big boys and girls go on the potty. Every time the doll or your child goes on the potty, sing and dance together. Make up a fun song to sing every time one goes potty. The book is very detailed and has worked for me every time.
For both of my children, I used a sticker chart. It started by getting a sticker for using the potty. After 5 stickers they got a small prize (something cheap). Once they got the idea of this reward system, we would switch to a ';staying dry'; chart instead of ';using the potty. They really enjoyed seeing their progress on the wall. Also, they were able to choose something special to do with me once they filled the charts with stickers. This gave them great incentive to do their best and was actually a fun way to train themselves. Kids like choosing their own reward.
FYI - I also used this same method with other issues (bedtime, etc.)
It is very bad for a child's psychological health to set up a ';strict standard'; for potty use. Make the child feel comfortable about what she does, and you will see a difference in her. What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be against us? - Romans 8:31. The Lord daily loadeth us with benefits, even the God of our salvation. Selah. - Psalm 68:19. Peace, Love and God Bless.
dont make her...that is the first step. You have a whle year to get her to use the potty if you try to make her she will refuse even more. What I did with mydaughter when I got her potty trained she is 4 now but she was 2 when I got her potty trained. I would take her in the bath room everytime that I had to go so she could hear me go and she thought it was a game. So after I was done I told her to try to make the sounds that mommy did and one week later she was using the potty. But we did have a problem with her b/m she would not go to save her life on the potty. So one day my mom came over and said that little girls that dont use the potty cant stay the night at my house and ever since then she has used the potty just find. We have never had an accident nothing. So tell her your not going to go some where that she really like that only big girls who use the potty all the time can go. And that just might be the help that she need. So the best of luck.
Stop worrying!! She will do it when she is ready. Take a break from it for a couple of weeks , Put her back into nappies, encourage her to sit on the potty if she will do so without a fight but otherwise forget it. Children use toilet as a manipulative tool and she will be feeding off of your anxiety. There is a wide variation in the age at which children are ready to be toilet trained. some may do it over a period of a few days some may take a lot longer. They will be dry in the day well before they are dry at night. Is your little one indicating that she is ready by having occasionally dry nappies and showing signs of awareness and /or discomfort when she wets or soils?
Trainer pants can be helpful for the first week or so. Let her come to buy them with you. Or pretty pants!
Start the training at a time when you are not feeling too stressed yourself. Be laid back about it and give lots of praise and encouragement when she does 'perform'. If she has an accident just change her with a 'whoops! oh dear!' sort of attitude. Star charts can be a really useful tool at this time. She could have a tick or a star for every time she sits on the pot, the same for a dry nappy or pants and a gold star for every time she 'performs'.Give her a treat for a set number of stars. Tell her what it is so that she has an achievable goal. If problems persist for more than a few months it may be worth checking with you GP that there is nothing physically wrong. Be cool and just ignore any tantrums.
Good Luck
my daughter is almost 4 now and has been potty trained for a long time and just recently started having accidents again and having tantrums when it was time to use the potty. finally i realized that she was terrified that if she walked away from her toy to use the bathroom her sister would swoop in like a vulture and take the toy! haha. once i realized this was the problem i made a rule in my house that if you walk away from a toy to use the bathroom, it's still your toy when you get back, there's no stealing. once she was assured that it was ';safe'; to take a bathroom break from playing, the accidents went away and so did the tantrums. try to listen to your little girl and see if there's some real reason why she doesn't want to go to the bathroom. you might be surprised at what she'll tell you. maybe something you never even thought of is bothering her. good luck!
How long does she stay dry before she wets? What kind of underwear is she using? Take her shopping for ';big girl panties'; and when you get home, put them on her. Tell her ';Now, don't forget you have on big girl panties today. You don't want to wet them!'; Take her to the potty every hour and a half, after her nap, after meals, and after vigorous play. If she throws a tantrum, just stand there and ignore it. When she starts to wind down, take her to the bathroom and ask her if she can do it herself or does she need your help? If she refuses, help her pull down her pants and sit on the toilet. You can tell her ';This is not a choice thing. It's time to go potty. If you don't want to do it yourself, I will need to help you.'; Be patient and calm, but firm. It may take a few accidents, but she will catch on very quickly. Being wet in big girl panties is not fun. It's so much easier to just go when you need to!
Hang in there mom. Persistence and patience will pay off!
She will do it when she is ready. You can't rush them! My son is 2 years 9 months and has been using the toilet for months, but I still cant take him out without a nappy because he forgets and wets himself. When he is ready he will let me know. Good luck
I'm really worried about the pressure parents will place on their children about this issue. There is no right or wrong time for children to be potty trained. I have three - now young adults - that potty trained at completly different ages and ways. One was 2, one was 3 and the last one even was 3.5!
In this day and age of Pull-ups, you can send a child to preschool that is not completley potty trained. I see that all the time where I work. Being with other children of the same age, that use the potty has so far inspired everyone else faster and better than it could've happened at home! :-)
My advice - back off, don't force her, she's in control of her bladder! And then pick one day every other week, to see if she's ready to be a big girl. And if not, with no negative comments, put her back in diapers. One day she'll surprise you and be ready. :-)
I like a girl in my class, problem is im never relaxed near her :/ anyone got some advice?
i like a girl in my class, probs is i cant relax when im near her, I end up not lookin as good as i could ( if you know what i mean) .Any advice?
P.S. we have similar interests and im perfectly calm when im talking to her on MSN.I like a girl in my class, problem is im never relaxed near her :/ anyone got some advice?
i have the same problem lol :/
the problem is that you are sexualy attracted to her.
just pretend shes some nerdy, unnatractive girl when ur talkin 2 her, and ull b smooth :D
P.S. we have similar interests and im perfectly calm when im talking to her on MSN.I like a girl in my class, problem is im never relaxed near her :/ anyone got some advice?
i have the same problem lol :/
the problem is that you are sexualy attracted to her.
just pretend shes some nerdy, unnatractive girl when ur talkin 2 her, and ull b smooth :D
Your Typical Guy Question from a Girl needing Advice.?
If a guy that knows I like him cant stop smiling whenever im around, acts interested in everything i say, lets me stand really close to him without backing away, and lets me touch him and put my around around his back and stuff, is he starting to like me? He just recently started doing this.Your Typical Guy Question from a Girl needing Advice.?
I think it is possible that he is starting to like you. But Just be careful because from experience I have known guys to do that just because their ego has been inflated. But If it seems he is really sincere and not obnoxious with it, I think you have a good chance. ^ - ^Your Typical Guy Question from a Girl needing Advice.?
he could
or got comfortable around u
it a good thing
He wants you
I think it is possible that he is starting to like you. But Just be careful because from experience I have known guys to do that just because their ego has been inflated. But If it seems he is really sincere and not obnoxious with it, I think you have a good chance. ^ - ^Your Typical Guy Question from a Girl needing Advice.?
he could
or got comfortable around u
it a good thing
He wants you
What are some fun words of advice for a 16 year old girl?
We are celebrating a Sweet 16 birthday for our niece, and we want some fun words of advice to include in her card. Anything clean and funny will do!What are some fun words of advice for a 16 year old girl?
to a wonderful amazing girl who lives life to the fullest.
';name'; she is gods gift to usWhat are some fun words of advice for a 16 year old girl?
*Wow im amazed your already 16 and will conintuned to be there for you i love you happy b-dayy*
um-mm happy b-day LOL
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to a wonderful amazing girl who lives life to the fullest.
';name'; she is gods gift to usWhat are some fun words of advice for a 16 year old girl?
*Wow im amazed your already 16 and will conintuned to be there for you i love you happy b-dayy*
um-mm happy b-day LOL
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I need some advice about contacting a girl......Please help me girls...?
I went out on a date with a girl last Saturday night. Everything went great, she was making out, planning our next date, etc. I contacted her on Monday, she never called me back. Should I contact? Should I text this time? If so, when? I feel like she's not interested so it has discouraged me and I am ready to move on. Should I contact? I think if a girl was interested, she would at least call back????I need some advice about contacting a girl......Please help me girls...?
Yes. I think it would be for the best to call her, but if she doesn't answer or call back I think it would be best to take that as a hint that she isn't interested anymore and move on. There are a lot of other girls out there. I hope that everything turns out for the best.hand lotion
Yes. I think it would be for the best to call her, but if she doesn't answer or call back I think it would be best to take that as a hint that she isn't interested anymore and move on. There are a lot of other girls out there. I hope that everything turns out for the best.
Makeup advice for a darker girl?
I'm Indian and I need some makeup advice. See, all the makeup I get is either too dark or too light, it's impossible for me to find my perfect shade. I know tMakeup advice for a darker girl?
Try either a mild plum color or a tan. At the store you can probaly test some out on your hand to test some to make sure it's not too dark or light.
hope i helped!!! :)Makeup advice for a darker girl?
eyeliner top and bottom and purple eyeshadow
Try either a mild plum color or a tan. At the store you can probaly test some out on your hand to test some to make sure it's not too dark or light.
hope i helped!!! :)Makeup advice for a darker girl?
eyeliner top and bottom and purple eyeshadow
New girl/New start..........Advice?
I have been involved in relationships in the past which have crushed my confidence completely with girls, as i have been cheated on and had my girlfriend leave me for my 'friend' etc and i have lost trust in women, recently i have noticed a new girl in school and she is very attractive, i just need some advice on what to do about as i have lost what many people would call there 'touch' when it comes to talking to her and getting her to possible like me.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated
ThanksNew girl/New start..........Advice?
just start a convo with her about something from class then move it to other things
once you feel comfortable then ask her out
Any advice would be greatly appreciated
ThanksNew girl/New start..........Advice?
just start a convo with her about something from class then move it to other things
once you feel comfortable then ask her out
I really dont know wat to chat wid my girl friend!!! advice aplz t ?
Tell her who did you sleep with last night.I really dont know wat to chat wid my girl friend!!! advice aplz t ?
then why are you dating her?
if y'all' have something in common
then you should never have nothing to talk about.
but anyways just talk to her about anything stuff that
you did or things that are on your mind..w/e
I really dont know wat to chat wid my girl friend!!! advice aplz t ?
Ask her how her day went and what she did. You can also ask her questions like whats your favorite movie and if you know it talk about it. Just find intrests you both like.
Whatevers on your mind! Movies...food haha. Or ask things that you want to kno about her!
anything but football........thatz so boring!!! xx
then why are you dating her?
if y'all' have something in common
then you should never have nothing to talk about.
but anyways just talk to her about anything stuff that
you did or things that are on your mind..w/e
I really dont know wat to chat wid my girl friend!!! advice aplz t ?
Ask her how her day went and what she did. You can also ask her questions like whats your favorite movie and if you know it talk about it. Just find intrests you both like.
Whatevers on your mind! Movies...food haha. Or ask things that you want to kno about her!
anything but football........thatz so boring!!! xx
I'm a bi girl needing advice about another girl?
to start off, im bi and i like this girl in my geometry class, idk if she is bi or not but i really like and would like to approach her..she flirts with me, well i see it as flirting, but she winks at me and smiles at me a lot..she doesn't know i'm bi and idk if i should tell her or if i should see if she likes me? what should i do?I'm a bi girl needing advice about another girl?
At this point, I think you need a spot test.
You need to start a conversation with her, and steer it towards a gay topic.... Did you see Brokeback Mountain? or Can you believe that gay people in this country can't get married?
Watch her response. If she seems uncomfortable with the homo content, then back off. Either she is gay and not ok with it, or straight.
But if she engages you in a conversation, at least then you'll know that your sexual orientation doesn't repulse her. Thats a good start.
If she responded positively, then you need to start sending some signals back. Compliments compliments compliments. Even straight people love compliments. Tell her she is pretty. In many different ways. Again, keep an eye on your response. If you see signs of panic or irritation, back off.
Suggest you two should hang out some time, go to a movie or something. Incorporate small ammounts of touching, graze you hand against hers ';accidentally'; or if you're watching a video, sit next to her on the couch and lean in a little. And keep an eye on the responses. You have to learn to be keen to things like voice intonation, eye movements, tensing up or smiles.
After you've hung out a couple times, hopefully you'll have a chance to bring up stuff about boyfriends and girlfriends. Its a good time to come out to her as bi, and see what happens. If she reacts favorabley, give her a couple days, then say you really like her and would like to take your friendship to a different place. Ask her out on a very well planned date. Have a resturant or a movie in mind. And take it from there....
Good luck!I'm a bi girl needing advice about another girl?
It sounds as if she has a ';liking'; for you otherwise the Winking would not be eminent... What I would do is ask her to go with you for a coca cola or something simple like that. I think if you broke the ice a little that way, you would find out more... give it a try
Tell her you are bi and the winking etc. is making you feel like she is flirting. Then ask if that's how she means it.
WOW ... ID BE CAREFUL SHE MIGHT BE DOIN ALL THAT JUS FOR FUN ... IF U TRY TO KISS HER OR TELL HER SHE MIGHT FREAKED ... I HAVE A FRIEND THAT IS CUISOUS CUZZ SHE ALWAYS LOOK @ WOMAN AND SAYS WOW HOT BODY AND IF I WAS A GUY ID DATE U
LOL
I think you need to talk to her and feel out the situation. That's really all you can do. Aside from openly asking her.
At this point, I think you need a spot test.
You need to start a conversation with her, and steer it towards a gay topic.... Did you see Brokeback Mountain? or Can you believe that gay people in this country can't get married?
Watch her response. If she seems uncomfortable with the homo content, then back off. Either she is gay and not ok with it, or straight.
But if she engages you in a conversation, at least then you'll know that your sexual orientation doesn't repulse her. Thats a good start.
If she responded positively, then you need to start sending some signals back. Compliments compliments compliments. Even straight people love compliments. Tell her she is pretty. In many different ways. Again, keep an eye on your response. If you see signs of panic or irritation, back off.
Suggest you two should hang out some time, go to a movie or something. Incorporate small ammounts of touching, graze you hand against hers ';accidentally'; or if you're watching a video, sit next to her on the couch and lean in a little. And keep an eye on the responses. You have to learn to be keen to things like voice intonation, eye movements, tensing up or smiles.
After you've hung out a couple times, hopefully you'll have a chance to bring up stuff about boyfriends and girlfriends. Its a good time to come out to her as bi, and see what happens. If she reacts favorabley, give her a couple days, then say you really like her and would like to take your friendship to a different place. Ask her out on a very well planned date. Have a resturant or a movie in mind. And take it from there....
Good luck!I'm a bi girl needing advice about another girl?
It sounds as if she has a ';liking'; for you otherwise the Winking would not be eminent... What I would do is ask her to go with you for a coca cola or something simple like that. I think if you broke the ice a little that way, you would find out more... give it a try
Tell her you are bi and the winking etc. is making you feel like she is flirting. Then ask if that's how she means it.
WOW ... ID BE CAREFUL SHE MIGHT BE DOIN ALL THAT JUS FOR FUN ... IF U TRY TO KISS HER OR TELL HER SHE MIGHT FREAKED ... I HAVE A FRIEND THAT IS CUISOUS CUZZ SHE ALWAYS LOOK @ WOMAN AND SAYS WOW HOT BODY AND IF I WAS A GUY ID DATE U
LOL
I think you need to talk to her and feel out the situation. That's really all you can do. Aside from openly asking her.
Need a Girl's advice please?
This is a question for the girls. If you were friends with a guy and secretly liked him and he texted you asking you whether you liked him, would you deny it? One of my female friends did in fact secretly like a guy but when he asked (texted) her, she denied it saying they were only good friends. When i asked her why she did that, she just looked at me and said i would not understand. My only thought was that the guy she liked was a bit of a joker and is sometimes sarcastic so maybe she did not take him seriously?Need a Girl's advice please?
obviously your friend needs help involving how to communicate, you don't blow a guy off that you like...especially like that. if a guy texted me that i liked for a while, and asked if i liked him, i would be honest. and thats what you have to do, give him a blunt yes or no answer. *Need a Girl's advice please?
I'm assuming this is advice for you?
I don't know if this is just me, but I wouldn't deny it. I probably would take hours to reply back, but if he's an intuitive guy, that's completely answer enough, you know? If you want to be kind of coy, you can say something more towards the maybe side, but don't deny it. Guys are too gullible sometimes, and he might just believe you completely and move on.
that girl is STUPID and IMMATURE. If you think a guy is hot say ';hey your hot'; if you like him let him know it - doesn't matter if he's a douchebag or not - you can let men know your interested without looking easy, foolish or without getting your heart broke. No offense maybe it's easier in my case because I have looks, but even if your ugly - stand up for what you like!!!
if you think the guy you like is decent and he actually likes u in return, then sure be honest but if you think he's a player than you would have to learn to play the game and can't just say yes, it all depends on the type of girl you are and the type of guy he is i guess.
perhaps.
id have to know if the person asking me liked me too before i admitted to anything.
better to always do that, prevents some awkward or embarrassing moment.
Well I could understand denying it if I were truly embarassed about it. It would depend on why he was asking...maybe he was asking because he felt the same way, or maybe he was asking just to make sure...maybe he could have even heard it from a friend.
She was probably afraid he was joking with her or something. Had he said that he liked her and then asked her, her answer may have been different. Girls desperately fear rejection.
I'm going to answer just because you said it was for girls.
Yea, I'm an a*shole
i'm not a girl but i wouldn't deny it
obviously your friend needs help involving how to communicate, you don't blow a guy off that you like...especially like that. if a guy texted me that i liked for a while, and asked if i liked him, i would be honest. and thats what you have to do, give him a blunt yes or no answer. *Need a Girl's advice please?
I'm assuming this is advice for you?
I don't know if this is just me, but I wouldn't deny it. I probably would take hours to reply back, but if he's an intuitive guy, that's completely answer enough, you know? If you want to be kind of coy, you can say something more towards the maybe side, but don't deny it. Guys are too gullible sometimes, and he might just believe you completely and move on.
that girl is STUPID and IMMATURE. If you think a guy is hot say ';hey your hot'; if you like him let him know it - doesn't matter if he's a douchebag or not - you can let men know your interested without looking easy, foolish or without getting your heart broke. No offense maybe it's easier in my case because I have looks, but even if your ugly - stand up for what you like!!!
if you think the guy you like is decent and he actually likes u in return, then sure be honest but if you think he's a player than you would have to learn to play the game and can't just say yes, it all depends on the type of girl you are and the type of guy he is i guess.
perhaps.
id have to know if the person asking me liked me too before i admitted to anything.
better to always do that, prevents some awkward or embarrassing moment.
Well I could understand denying it if I were truly embarassed about it. It would depend on why he was asking...maybe he was asking because he felt the same way, or maybe he was asking just to make sure...maybe he could have even heard it from a friend.
She was probably afraid he was joking with her or something. Had he said that he liked her and then asked her, her answer may have been different. Girls desperately fear rejection.
I'm going to answer just because you said it was for girls.
Yea, I'm an a*shole
i'm not a girl but i wouldn't deny it
Need some advice on a girl? What should I do? Please help.?
There's this girl in my school. We have known each other for 10 or so years. This year we graduate and I want to know what to do. Recently she has been acting really nice towards me. I like her but we graduate in two months. She just broke up with her boyfriend because she thought he was flirting with other girls. What do girls like in a guy? What do you think I should do? Is it to late to ask? Please help with any advice you can give, thanks!Need some advice on a girl? What should I do? Please help.?
Girls love guys that are aggressive, and they respect, and admire you if you have the courage to ask them out. You should ask her. I think if you don't ask her now, in the future you will definently regret it! Girls like to feel like they are being payed attention to, and somebody notices them. Even if she does say no, she'll know that somebody is thinking about her, which is a good feeling.Need some advice on a girl? What should I do? Please help.?
just ask herhand lotion
Girls love guys that are aggressive, and they respect, and admire you if you have the courage to ask them out. You should ask her. I think if you don't ask her now, in the future you will definently regret it! Girls like to feel like they are being payed attention to, and somebody notices them. Even if she does say no, she'll know that somebody is thinking about her, which is a good feeling.Need some advice on a girl? What should I do? Please help.?
just ask her
Please advice 10 points to the guy or girl with the best answer
I have very wide and flat saging hipes with celullite can any one guide me,how I can make my hipes slimmer and tighter and also make the celullite vanish?Please advice 10 points to the guy or girl with the best answer
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First off, Saddy you have to have the cutest name/avatar on Y!A so I am going to try to connect to you on Contacts. I'm a full-fledged American, so don't let my avatar fool you. It looks fun is all. If you were allowed only one exercise to slim hips, it would be speed-walking. Jogging is good, too, but you have to stay off the pavement if you develop shin-splits. A low-fat low-calorie diet helps too, and any exercising would help. Joining a gym and/or swimming pool is a great idea to slim down, especially if you sit behind a desk every day. If that is the case, you need to go to the gym every day before or after work/ school. Or, speed-walking/ jogging in a park. Now, give me those 10 points before I hold you upside down and shake 'em out of you. Give 'em to whoever. ^_^
heres something i found
1) Burn more calories then you're consuming everyday and measure your results using the following formula: Calories Consumed minus Basal Metabolic Rate (BMR) minus Physical Activity minus the Thermic Effect of Food (TEF). A website that explains this formula in more detail and will help you determine how many calories you need to reach or maintain a certain weight is at http://www.primusweb.com/fitnesspartner/…
Get a diet and fitness calculator that you can put on your computer or cell phone. This will allow you to easily calculate the above formula, set goals, log your daily calorie consumption, and register your physical activities.
Set realistic goals for your ideal body weight. Here are two websites that will calculate a suggested body weight:
Adults: http://www.halls.md/ideal-weight/body.ht…
Teens/Children: http://www.kidshealth.org/kid/exercise/w…
It is difficult and unhealthy to lose more than one or two pounds per week. There are 3,500 calories in a pound. If you eat 500 fewer calories per day for a week you will lose one pound. If you burn through exercise 500 more calories per day for a week you will lose one pound.
2) Eat natural and organic foods found on earth versus something created by a corporation to make money. Eat meals in small portions throughout the day and take a good multi-vitamin supplement.
Avoid “High Glycemic Load Carbs” (sugar, pastries, desserts, refined starches such as breads, pasta, refined grains like white rice; high starch vegetables such as potatoes) and drink lots of water. Read this article for more information on high GL Carbs:
http://www.hsph.harvard.edu/nutritionsou…
Do not try fad diets or diet pills. Here is an excellent food pyramid that anyone can follow: http://www.rayandterry.com/html/images/P…
3) Exercise on most days by doing cardiovascular training and/or resistance training activities.
Read a book or find a certified trainer to make sure your doing all resistance training exercises correctly. A great book to buy that teaches you the resistance training basics is “Weight Training for Dummies”. A superb magazine to buy with resistance training routines that will not get you bored is ';Muscle and Fitness';. Signup for the free newsletter. An excellent free online resource is at http://www.exrx.net/
A good book to buy that teaches you the cardiovascular training basics is “Fitness for Dummies”.
4) Get plenty of sleep. Sleep experts say most adults need between seven and nine hours of sleep each night for optimum performance, health, and safety.
5) Educate yourself continually on health issues and make a life long commitment to good health. A great free publication is “Dietary Guidelines for Americans 2005”. A superb book to read is “You The Owner’s Manual”. An excellent periodic publication is the “Nutrition Action Health Letter”. A reputable test you can take to measure your biological age is at http://realage.com
hope this helped :)
-shelly
Pilate's is amazing, and doesn't cause much stress or strain.
Yoga also tightens and tones very well, when done right.
Rent workout tapes from your local library, ours has tons of pilate's videos. and try to see if you like them. if not, you having made a money commitment.
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not a diet just a work out program but i dont no the cost i just heard it was good for toning!! hope that helps!! heres mine.....
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haHa =) -chelsea!!
I'm not sure about the wideness, but for the cellulite you should try, i believe it is called nuetrigena cellulite reducer or something like that by nutrigena and i heard that it actually works fairly well
YOU GO FOR JOGGING, SWIMMING, SKKIPING. YOU EAT DAILY VEGETABLES, FRUITS AND TRY AVOID ALL OILY ITEMS. YOU CAN EAT DRY CHAPPATHIS.
I found pillates are excellent if you have time, yoga is great as well, you dont realize it but the yoga tones very well, esp level 3
i would saying running is the best then your skin will shrink and so will your cellulate.. i think all you need to do is some good running related excercciseses
run run run
and do squats:]
yoga tooo.
maybe you should exercise .it can be fat ..
I will mail you a very nice link were you can get all the tips about the above mentioned topic!!!Please advice 10 points to the guy or girl with the best answer
First off, Saddy you have to have the cutest name/avatar on Y!A so I am going to try to connect to you on Contacts. I'm a full-fledged American, so don't let my avatar fool you. It looks fun is all. If you were allowed only one exercise to slim hips, it would be speed-walking. Jogging is good, too, but you have to stay off the pavement if you develop shin-splits. A low-fat low-calorie diet helps too, and any exercising would help. Joining a gym and/or swimming pool is a great idea to slim down, especially if you sit behind a desk every day. If that is the case, you need to go to the gym every day before or after work/ school. Or, speed-walking/ jogging in a park. Now, give me those 10 points before I hold you upside down and shake 'em out of you. Give 'em to whoever. ^_^
heres something i found
1) Burn more calories then you're consuming everyday and measure your results using the following formula: Calories Consumed minus Basal Metabolic Rate (BMR) minus Physical Activity minus the Thermic Effect of Food (TEF). A website that explains this formula in more detail and will help you determine how many calories you need to reach or maintain a certain weight is at http://www.primusweb.com/fitnesspartner/…
Get a diet and fitness calculator that you can put on your computer or cell phone. This will allow you to easily calculate the above formula, set goals, log your daily calorie consumption, and register your physical activities.
Set realistic goals for your ideal body weight. Here are two websites that will calculate a suggested body weight:
Adults: http://www.halls.md/ideal-weight/body.ht…
Teens/Children: http://www.kidshealth.org/kid/exercise/w…
It is difficult and unhealthy to lose more than one or two pounds per week. There are 3,500 calories in a pound. If you eat 500 fewer calories per day for a week you will lose one pound. If you burn through exercise 500 more calories per day for a week you will lose one pound.
2) Eat natural and organic foods found on earth versus something created by a corporation to make money. Eat meals in small portions throughout the day and take a good multi-vitamin supplement.
Avoid “High Glycemic Load Carbs” (sugar, pastries, desserts, refined starches such as breads, pasta, refined grains like white rice; high starch vegetables such as potatoes) and drink lots of water. Read this article for more information on high GL Carbs:
http://www.hsph.harvard.edu/nutritionsou…
Do not try fad diets or diet pills. Here is an excellent food pyramid that anyone can follow: http://www.rayandterry.com/html/images/P…
3) Exercise on most days by doing cardiovascular training and/or resistance training activities.
Read a book or find a certified trainer to make sure your doing all resistance training exercises correctly. A great book to buy that teaches you the resistance training basics is “Weight Training for Dummies”. A superb magazine to buy with resistance training routines that will not get you bored is ';Muscle and Fitness';. Signup for the free newsletter. An excellent free online resource is at http://www.exrx.net/
A good book to buy that teaches you the cardiovascular training basics is “Fitness for Dummies”.
4) Get plenty of sleep. Sleep experts say most adults need between seven and nine hours of sleep each night for optimum performance, health, and safety.
5) Educate yourself continually on health issues and make a life long commitment to good health. A great free publication is “Dietary Guidelines for Americans 2005”. A superb book to read is “You The Owner’s Manual”. An excellent periodic publication is the “Nutrition Action Health Letter”. A reputable test you can take to measure your biological age is at http://realage.com
hope this helped :)
-shelly
Pilate's is amazing, and doesn't cause much stress or strain.
Yoga also tightens and tones very well, when done right.
Rent workout tapes from your local library, ours has tons of pilate's videos. and try to see if you like them. if not, you having made a money commitment.
slimin6.com
not a diet just a work out program but i dont no the cost i just heard it was good for toning!! hope that helps!! heres mine.....
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…
haHa =) -chelsea!!
I'm not sure about the wideness, but for the cellulite you should try, i believe it is called nuetrigena cellulite reducer or something like that by nutrigena and i heard that it actually works fairly well
YOU GO FOR JOGGING, SWIMMING, SKKIPING. YOU EAT DAILY VEGETABLES, FRUITS AND TRY AVOID ALL OILY ITEMS. YOU CAN EAT DRY CHAPPATHIS.
I found pillates are excellent if you have time, yoga is great as well, you dont realize it but the yoga tones very well, esp level 3
i would saying running is the best then your skin will shrink and so will your cellulate.. i think all you need to do is some good running related excercciseses
run run run
and do squats:]
yoga tooo.
maybe you should exercise .it can be fat ..
Any tips/warnings/advice on being a sorority girl?
it's been a goal of mine all through high school,and now i want to be a sorority girl once i go to college. (hopefully northern arizona u)
any advice,warnings, tips on what to wear or how to look? anything?
oh and also whos a good fit for greek life?
thanks!!Any tips/warnings/advice on being a sorority girl?
I don't go to that particular University, but I think it's great that you already know you want to go Greek.
My best advice for you is to just be yourself. If you are yourself, then you'll ultimately end up where you're supposed to be and where you'll feel comfortable with your new sisters.
Before Recruitment starts, your University will probably post a ';What to Wear'; guide, so look through it, but it's usually like ';these things are appropriate for this day: i.e. nice skirts, blouses, high heels, etc and these things are not: i.e. flip flops, jeans, t-shirts, etc.'; But always wear what makes you feel comfortable according to the guidelines.
And it never hurts to do some research on the chapters on campus before you go through recruitment--that way, you can find out what you particularly love about each group, such as a philanthropy or event.
If you have any other questions, the best person to ask would be your Rho Gamma, recruitment guide, once you've registered for Recruitment. (You can also email me in the meantime if there's anything more specific you need information about.)Any tips/warnings/advice on being a sorority girl?
Yes, I have some very specific advice: don't.
I think this is a great goal. Sorority membership develops life skills. It teaches you how to live with people, and it also gives you valuable leadership experience that comes in handy when searching for a job. Non-Greeks will say it doesn't, but when you don't have any other experience and you're right out of school, it does. I assure you. Being in a sorority was the time of my life, and I really learned and grew a lot as a person. So I encourage you to learn more about the chapters on your campus.
The best advice I can give you is to be yourself. Don't try to change who you are or what you wear. Of course you should be neat and polished, but don't worry about minor details. Rush is a very complicated and fast process, and the best way you'll find a fit during the process is if you are true to who you are. If you try to be someone you're not, you'll get into a house that's totally wrong for you and you'll spend the next 4 years trying to live up to unrealistic expectations that you have for yourself to constantly be trying to fit in. Just be who you are and find where you fit as such. You want to find real sisters, who love you for YOU. So defiantely don't get caught up in going out of your way to be what you think a chapter is looking for. Just be you.
As far as an ideal candidate for Greek life, it would be someone who is eager to get involved, someone who likes being around people and is friendly, someone who is goal-oriented and determined, and someone who is a loyal friend.
And don't forget, at the end of the day, being in a sorority is part of school. So be sure you can keep your focus.
Good luck.
any advice,warnings, tips on what to wear or how to look? anything?
oh and also whos a good fit for greek life?
thanks!!Any tips/warnings/advice on being a sorority girl?
I don't go to that particular University, but I think it's great that you already know you want to go Greek.
My best advice for you is to just be yourself. If you are yourself, then you'll ultimately end up where you're supposed to be and where you'll feel comfortable with your new sisters.
Before Recruitment starts, your University will probably post a ';What to Wear'; guide, so look through it, but it's usually like ';these things are appropriate for this day: i.e. nice skirts, blouses, high heels, etc and these things are not: i.e. flip flops, jeans, t-shirts, etc.'; But always wear what makes you feel comfortable according to the guidelines.
And it never hurts to do some research on the chapters on campus before you go through recruitment--that way, you can find out what you particularly love about each group, such as a philanthropy or event.
If you have any other questions, the best person to ask would be your Rho Gamma, recruitment guide, once you've registered for Recruitment. (You can also email me in the meantime if there's anything more specific you need information about.)Any tips/warnings/advice on being a sorority girl?
Yes, I have some very specific advice: don't.
I think this is a great goal. Sorority membership develops life skills. It teaches you how to live with people, and it also gives you valuable leadership experience that comes in handy when searching for a job. Non-Greeks will say it doesn't, but when you don't have any other experience and you're right out of school, it does. I assure you. Being in a sorority was the time of my life, and I really learned and grew a lot as a person. So I encourage you to learn more about the chapters on your campus.
The best advice I can give you is to be yourself. Don't try to change who you are or what you wear. Of course you should be neat and polished, but don't worry about minor details. Rush is a very complicated and fast process, and the best way you'll find a fit during the process is if you are true to who you are. If you try to be someone you're not, you'll get into a house that's totally wrong for you and you'll spend the next 4 years trying to live up to unrealistic expectations that you have for yourself to constantly be trying to fit in. Just be who you are and find where you fit as such. You want to find real sisters, who love you for YOU. So defiantely don't get caught up in going out of your way to be what you think a chapter is looking for. Just be you.
As far as an ideal candidate for Greek life, it would be someone who is eager to get involved, someone who likes being around people and is friendly, someone who is goal-oriented and determined, and someone who is a loyal friend.
And don't forget, at the end of the day, being in a sorority is part of school. So be sure you can keep your focus.
Good luck.
Any one have advice on how to go from being a tomboy to a girl? like advice ya know.?
Well, just find one of your friends or co-workers who is kind of girly and who you trust. Then go to the mall and get a makeover. You can get a natural look or a heavy makeup look. They are usually free. Then you can buy some of the makeup or just go with a friend to the drugstore and get some makeup cheaper. then get an outfit/shoes/jewelry that is girlier... and wear your hair down. You can have the same personality and do the same stuff, but wear something other than t-shirts and ponytails...Any one have advice on how to go from being a tomboy to a girl? like advice ya know.?
if your a tomboy, you don't wanna turn into a girly girl, man its no fun, i hate prissy girls like that, they think they can do whatever they want, well they cant, i call myself an official tomboy because i love to do guys sport and i hang with so many guys i cant even count, I'm just one of those girls who likes guys (as friends)better then girls, but if you really wanna become a girly girl, then just wear pink, and TON of it, e-m your best friends like 24/7, and just stop talking to guys, and turn to girls as your only friends(which is totally not fun).Any one have advice on how to go from being a tomboy to a girl? like advice ya know.?
Enjoy being yourself - no matter what! BUT if you must --
you can try a day at a spa with a complete makeover!
Enjoy it!!
if i was you stay a tomboy....i am very attracted to tomboy girls, and girly girls are usually bitches/hoes....so stay a tomboy..
if your a tomboy, you don't wanna turn into a girly girl, man its no fun, i hate prissy girls like that, they think they can do whatever they want, well they cant, i call myself an official tomboy because i love to do guys sport and i hang with so many guys i cant even count, I'm just one of those girls who likes guys (as friends)better then girls, but if you really wanna become a girly girl, then just wear pink, and TON of it, e-m your best friends like 24/7, and just stop talking to guys, and turn to girls as your only friends(which is totally not fun).Any one have advice on how to go from being a tomboy to a girl? like advice ya know.?
Enjoy being yourself - no matter what! BUT if you must --
you can try a day at a spa with a complete makeover!
Enjoy it!!
if i was you stay a tomboy....i am very attracted to tomboy girls, and girly girls are usually bitches/hoes....so stay a tomboy..
Could use girls advice.My girlfriend said come to her house tonite and bring condom.?
she is virgin,so am i.
im 19,she is 18.So girls,DO i go slow or plunge in fast?dont want her to be mad at me.Could use girls advice.My girlfriend said come to her house tonite and bring condom.?
Go slow and grinding always feels good.Could use girls advice.My girlfriend said come to her house tonite and bring condom.?
First time for a girl is very painful because you are ';popping her cherry';, so definetely slow, and make it as romantic as possible because this is her first time ! And surely to make her less tense (because her being tense is going to add pain to the sex) do lots of foreplay ! LOTS ! And use lubrication. Also remember sex isn't that great the first time. It will get better though :)
Good Luck, have fun ;) ahah.
Well first of all be sure that this is what you want. Once you do this, this cannot be undone. But if you are going to do it, then do it right.
First of all, reassure you that you truly love her and tell her how special she is to you. (You'd better feel that way towards her- otherwise don't do it!)
Be gentle and go slow. This will be painful and uncomfortable. Honestly this won't feel good to her until after a few times and she will be sore and uncomfortable tomorrow.
The important thing is to make sure that this is what you both want. Make sure that you love each other because you NEVER forget your first. And don't forget to CALL her tomorrow.
slow...for most girls sex for the first time is VERY painful and its also common that a man will lose his erection while trying to get inside her if she is very tight. so dont just jump into it..use foreplay to make her well lubed with her own ';juices';. oral sex and fingers to help her open a bit easier and not as painful as it can be! so make sure shes very turned on wet and ready!
Alright--based on personal experience, go really, super, /glacially/ slow. My first time hurt SO bad, I was crying and screaming and thought I would pass out (my bf offered to stop, btw, just so he doesn't sound like an @sshole, lol). And I'm sure you don't want that. Use plenty of lube (saliva works, if you don't have anything else) and carefully gauge her reaction.
Good luck, and be safe!!!
be slow and easy, of course bring protection but don't bring it up when you see her, let her make a move, when you go over there she may have changed her mind, sex is always the girls choice, as a guy you just gotta be prepared when the time comes.
good luck
If you are both virgins you will be fine, the communicate with each other so you know what she wants, and she knows what you want. Take things at a pace you both can enjoy. She will not be mad at you. Just talk about what you want from one another.
Just don't. It seems to me that your first time should be something where neither of you feel rushed. It's really sudden. Come over, explain to her that you aren't quite ready but that you still really care about her. Don't rush it. You only get a first time once.
You're obviously not ready to have sex. Why do I say that? Because you're asking other people what should you do.
Make sure you're as emotionally and morally ready as well. Remember condoms are 85% effective. Have no regrets :)
go slow and start off with a sexy kiss. and start to go down slower and rub her back. then lift her shirt up and take it off. and them i guess the bra and then the bottoms. good luck
goslow and ease in very gently since first time for a girl hurts. kissing while doing so or touching can ease the pain. look to her for cues when you can start picking up the pace.
Slow or else she might split in half.
Answer mine: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
SLOW!
first go slow and then gradually go faster, and depending on her body movements and motion you'll know what to do.
slow; it hurts the first time.
after ';it'; breaks, then you might have to give it a rest. then gradually go faster. but not too fast.
take it slow and make sure to always use a condom.. But if you don't feel ready tell her so as well.. no use in doing something the both of you wont enjoy.
Well since it's her first time I suggest you go slow because it might be painful for her.. But after wards if she wants you to go faster then do it..
go slow. girls feel a lot of pain when its their first time, i've heard. ask her how shes doing, and make sure that shes comfortable.
umm it seems u have doubts
if u got doubts den why do it?
u will noe when da right time is
and if she gets mad then shes a ******
Slow, and don't be surprised if you bust in like 4 seconds haha
Slow girls like lots of forplay.
slow.
and make sure this is what you two really want.
she may just say that cause she thinks you want too.
VERY SLOW and also use LUBE it will help a lot when ';entering';
Lucky and slow.
Build suspense, give her something to look forward to(:
Slowly. If you go fast it'll hurt for her more.
slow. You'll hurt her otherwise.
The first time for a female can be quite painful. Just keep that in mind.
take things slow. Dont rush into anything.
do u believe in waiting for marriage?
fast, she's horny and she wants it.
Plunge fast, tear her up
im 19,she is 18.So girls,DO i go slow or plunge in fast?dont want her to be mad at me.Could use girls advice.My girlfriend said come to her house tonite and bring condom.?
Go slow and grinding always feels good.Could use girls advice.My girlfriend said come to her house tonite and bring condom.?
First time for a girl is very painful because you are ';popping her cherry';, so definetely slow, and make it as romantic as possible because this is her first time ! And surely to make her less tense (because her being tense is going to add pain to the sex) do lots of foreplay ! LOTS ! And use lubrication. Also remember sex isn't that great the first time. It will get better though :)
Good Luck, have fun ;) ahah.
Well first of all be sure that this is what you want. Once you do this, this cannot be undone. But if you are going to do it, then do it right.
First of all, reassure you that you truly love her and tell her how special she is to you. (You'd better feel that way towards her- otherwise don't do it!)
Be gentle and go slow. This will be painful and uncomfortable. Honestly this won't feel good to her until after a few times and she will be sore and uncomfortable tomorrow.
The important thing is to make sure that this is what you both want. Make sure that you love each other because you NEVER forget your first. And don't forget to CALL her tomorrow.
slow...for most girls sex for the first time is VERY painful and its also common that a man will lose his erection while trying to get inside her if she is very tight. so dont just jump into it..use foreplay to make her well lubed with her own ';juices';. oral sex and fingers to help her open a bit easier and not as painful as it can be! so make sure shes very turned on wet and ready!
Alright--based on personal experience, go really, super, /glacially/ slow. My first time hurt SO bad, I was crying and screaming and thought I would pass out (my bf offered to stop, btw, just so he doesn't sound like an @sshole, lol). And I'm sure you don't want that. Use plenty of lube (saliva works, if you don't have anything else) and carefully gauge her reaction.
Good luck, and be safe!!!
be slow and easy, of course bring protection but don't bring it up when you see her, let her make a move, when you go over there she may have changed her mind, sex is always the girls choice, as a guy you just gotta be prepared when the time comes.
good luck
If you are both virgins you will be fine, the communicate with each other so you know what she wants, and she knows what you want. Take things at a pace you both can enjoy. She will not be mad at you. Just talk about what you want from one another.
Just don't. It seems to me that your first time should be something where neither of you feel rushed. It's really sudden. Come over, explain to her that you aren't quite ready but that you still really care about her. Don't rush it. You only get a first time once.
You're obviously not ready to have sex. Why do I say that? Because you're asking other people what should you do.
Make sure you're as emotionally and morally ready as well. Remember condoms are 85% effective. Have no regrets :)
go slow and start off with a sexy kiss. and start to go down slower and rub her back. then lift her shirt up and take it off. and them i guess the bra and then the bottoms. good luck
goslow and ease in very gently since first time for a girl hurts. kissing while doing so or touching can ease the pain. look to her for cues when you can start picking up the pace.
Slow or else she might split in half.
Answer mine: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
SLOW!
first go slow and then gradually go faster, and depending on her body movements and motion you'll know what to do.
slow; it hurts the first time.
after ';it'; breaks, then you might have to give it a rest. then gradually go faster. but not too fast.
take it slow and make sure to always use a condom.. But if you don't feel ready tell her so as well.. no use in doing something the both of you wont enjoy.
Well since it's her first time I suggest you go slow because it might be painful for her.. But after wards if she wants you to go faster then do it..
go slow. girls feel a lot of pain when its their first time, i've heard. ask her how shes doing, and make sure that shes comfortable.
umm it seems u have doubts
if u got doubts den why do it?
u will noe when da right time is
and if she gets mad then shes a ******
Slow, and don't be surprised if you bust in like 4 seconds haha
Slow girls like lots of forplay.
slow.
and make sure this is what you two really want.
she may just say that cause she thinks you want too.
VERY SLOW and also use LUBE it will help a lot when ';entering';
Lucky and slow.
Build suspense, give her something to look forward to(:
Slowly. If you go fast it'll hurt for her more.
slow. You'll hurt her otherwise.
The first time for a female can be quite painful. Just keep that in mind.
take things slow. Dont rush into anything.
do u believe in waiting for marriage?
fast, she's horny and she wants it.
Plunge fast, tear her up
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