Serious! Long read. Please?!!! Advice?.... Girl I have been crushing on just started a relationship?!!?

So for 3 years, I have been crushing. A coworker. Everything about her, I like. I have never made my feelings known until recently. She is the whole package. ';The one,'; dare I say.





Who I was? I was shy. Fat. Unattractive. For her, I started going to the gym. Overcoming my shyness. Now i am muscular, and have more personality. I take care of myself, and women look at me. I don't look at them. Not remotely interested.





Just found out she's dating someone. I don't get it. I consider myself a good man. I have never used or abused a woman, and raised to be a gentleman. Every woman I have loved was prioritized as number 1. I missed my opportunity.





She is kind to lets me know many times that she is not interested; she tells me that she is always busy. ... ... ... I found out today through workplace gossip that she is dating someone. Fu(k me.





Fu%26lt;k. me. Just excused myself from work.. Wasted. Haven't got anyone to talk to. Prone to depression. Here I am, bearing my soul to strangers. 3 years. I made myself more desirable for her. What am I going to do?





No bashing on her please. Drunk and need sound advice. Please.





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DavdSerious! Long read. Please?!!! Advice?.... Girl I have been crushing on just started a relationship?!!?
I dont wanna sound harsh but you gonna have to let her go. Beacuse she made her point that she wasn't interested in you. So dont beat yourself up. Just find another girl to spend your days with.Serious! Long read. Please?!!! Advice?.... Girl I have been crushing on just started a relationship?!!?
Well she's obviously not interested. You can't force someone to like you. So you should just move on and find someone new.