Serious! Long read. Please?!!! Advice?.... Girl I have been crushing on just started a relationship?!!?

So for 3 years, I have been crushing. A coworker. Everything about her, I like. I have never made my feelings known until recently. She is the whole package. ';The one,'; dare I say.





Who I was? I was shy. Fat. Unattractive. For her, I started going to the gym. Overcoming my shyness. Now i am muscular, and have more personality. I take care of myself, and women look at me. I don't look at them. Not remotely interested.





Just found out she's dating someone. I don't get it. I consider myself a good man. I have never used or abused a woman, and raised to be a gentleman. Every woman I have loved was prioritized as number 1. I missed my opportunity.





She is kind to lets me know many times that she is not interested; she tells me that she is always busy. ... ... ... I found out today through workplace gossip that she is dating someone. Fu(k me.





Fu%26lt;k. me. Just excused myself from work.. Wasted. Haven't got anyone to talk to. Prone to depression. Here I am, bearing my soul to strangers. 3 years. I made myself more desirable for her. What am I going to do?





No bashing on her please. Drunk and need sound advice. Please.





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DavdSerious! Long read. Please?!!! Advice?.... Girl I have been crushing on just started a relationship?!!?
you have one crazyass life sir, from the brazilian girl to this LOL.


good luck.Serious! Long read. Please?!!! Advice?.... Girl I have been crushing on just started a relationship?!!?
Have you talk to her and ask what is her type of man? Sometimes women don't want what is good for them until somebody esle has it. Same for men to but that could be the problem. She know you a good man and not ready to be committed.
let her go .. obviously she wasent the right one at this point in your life.. maybe some other time in your life she will be meant for you but obviously not right now.. try dateing around and u never knw u might find the one ! the real one this time .. god has a plan for everyone and i promise u wont be miserable forever !
David, #1, you hit it right square on the nail, you missed your opportunity.





Plus you are not her type.





Remember how you said she is just it for you, well that is just your feelings, it takes 2 to make a relationship.





Also, getting yourself into better shape or taking better care of yourself should have been solely for yourself and your self esteem, not for anyone else.





I mean really just because she does not find you attractive or her type does not mean there isn't someone else just drooling over you, saying, hey, David is looking so good now, have you noticed?





Bottom line, there are always more fish in the sea, so get out there and start looking.





Also, you can never drown your sorrows in booze, all ya get is a hangover and more depressed.





Good luck
sorry i feel for you


just move on. nothing you can do about it. cry, eat and let your sorrow out.


but dont hurt yourself or dwell too much on it. move on with your life, you will meet someone better soon, and will look back at this and smile.


life is a learning phase
Hey bro power to you


look she might be the one and you might not end up with her,


but what you did for yourself is going to stay just take that and move on


even if you somehow end up with her, you would only think she wasnt worth it


so just be glad she inspired you to become who you are today and move on with it