Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Idk what to do about this girl..help? advice?

Im 17, and I've been friends with this girl for a little over a year now and I really like her alot (shes the girl of my dreams) and i tookher to my junior prom. The only thing is that I never told her how i felt cuz i didnt want to risk our friendship, and now she dosent talk to me as much as she used to. People having been telling me to give up cuz its too late, but I cant. What should I do?Idk what to do about this girl..help? advice?
If you really like her you have to tell her how you feel. From my experiences, women love to hear what men really think of them and what they feel for them. I, myself, am a shy person, but I recently have been brave with telling a certain girl how I feel about her. Yes, okay, I got turned down, but that was only because she had no feelings for me and she thought it would be a waste to be in a relationship with no feelings. The way I see it, right this very moment you are at a ';no';. What else can she tell you? You can't get lower than a ';no.'; I honestly don't know why I didn't try to be braver faster. If I would've, she might have had feelings for me, but you never know. Even if you don't think she has feelings for you I would still ask her. Sometimes women hide their feelings. And as for the part where she isn't talking to you as much, maybe, just maybe, she is getting tired of waiting for you to ask her out. Hopefully that's the case. I hope this helped you, and I know what you're going through. If you need anymore advice my email is sharpieking09@yahoo.com Hope is goes over well.Idk what to do about this girl..help? advice?
maybe she was waiting on you to make a move and she just gave up...I mean she went to your junior prom with you so she probably does like you...I think you still have a chance with her so don't give up, I think you should go for it like tomorrow go to school and ask her out on a casual date like dinner and a movie...and you say you like her a lot well when you pick her up for the date tell her she looks beautiful do not say hot! when a guy says beautiful a girl thinks he's sweet but when a guy says hot they think he's obnoxious and you don't want to come off that way( I'm a 15 yr old girl and I've dealt with my fair share of guys) trust me I've dealt with both kinds of guys and my boyfriend of 3 months calls me beautiful all the time and even his friends called me pretty like the first time I met them and I thought that was cool for his friends to say that...so I think that you should ask her out, go for it and good luck! ( If you ask her out email me and tell me how it went I would love to know because my life is not going my way right now and I would still like to think there's hope for me) hope I helped somehow :-)
thats too bad your not close friends anymore but id say go for it what do you have to lose if shes stoped talkin to you what do you have to lose it could be your last shot better do it and be shot down then never to have tryed at all !!! good luck 0xx0

No comments:

Post a Comment