Dating advice-Girl or Boy can answer.?

I've liked this girl that went to my school last year and we have both moved on to the same high school. I've liked her for about one year now. One day I decide to tell my friend that I liked her. My friend had a really big mouth went and told his girlfriend. His girlfriend who had an even biger mouth goes and tells the girl's best friend that I like her. From that point, alot of people became aware of who I liked. Ever since she found out that I liked her, she has somewhat acted very different around me. She doesn't speak to me as often as the other guys but if I ask her something or vice versa we just answer each other and thats it. We are both in band and I'm first chair and she is second chair so we sit right next to each other and there is usually a lager gap between our chairs than the others. I think I might have to purposely forget my music someday so I can share with her =) . I would really like to become friends with her again but I just don't know how. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.





ThanksDating advice-Girl or Boy can answer.?
Talk to her. She will understand you better if you talk to her. But don't make it acquired. Just talk to her, not her with her friends. And don't forget your music it makes you seem desperate, if she finds out. Oh and don't tell your friend who you like any more, kk.





If talking to her doesn't work give it time. She might need time to let it sink in. Don't pressure her to much. Two reasons you might scare her away, and it makes you look desperate again.





I hop this helps. I haven't dated anyone, but I am a girl so it makes it easier to read her reaction.Dating advice-Girl or Boy can answer.?
Forgetting your music and sharing would be good just remember to bring it if you really need it one day for a grade or something. If u can talk in the class maybe you could ask her how to play something. if it doesn't hurt your grade go down to second chair and have her help you with how to play something. What instrument do you play? Good luck and try not to push be too pushy. Just talk to her a couple times like 1 to 2 at first in band and then maybe you'll start talking everyday. Good luck.
I think that if you really like her, you should try talking to her more... like ask her how her weekend was, or ask her how she is doing, what she has planned for the holidays... if she likes you, she is going to try to talk to you more too...like she will ask you what your plans are, and how your doing. If she just answers one word answers and doesn't reciprocate, then she probably doesn't feel the same way you do. Talk to her, if you don't you are going to regret it.