My first boy girl party. advice?

ok, so its my first coed party. im going with my best friend. im really nervous. cuz a bunch of high schoolers are going. any advice as to like besides ';buddy system'; wat do i do if they start grinding? how do i tell if they spiked my drink? *nervousneess!*My first boy girl party. advice?
So unless this is some sort of Christian party, drugs n booze are going to be there.


Just make sure not to be pressured into drinking/smoking that stuff. ;}


Anyone can have fun at a party with out weed/alcohol.


As for grinding, well, if you don't want to, just get out of the mob.My first boy girl party. advice?
First of all...are the parents going to be home? If NOT, I would not go. Terrible things can happen at a B/G party when parents are not there. If the parents are going to be home, they will hopefully check on all the kids periodically to make sure everything is going well and nothing bad is happening. If you are worried about alcohol, DO NOT drink anything that you have not poured out by yourself. AND don't leave your drink sitting unattended. Keep it in your hand until it is finished. If you are worried about other things happening, make sure you can call your parents to come and get you. Keep a cell phone in your pocket. Your parents will have more respect for your good judgement even if they have to come and save you (and your friend). Have fun and don't lose your head!
Relax! Go with a friend if you don't want to ask someone. Besides, then you don't have to spend the whole time with one guy. If they spiked your drink it will taste bitter. Then your head will start to hurt. If the boys and girls are on separate sides of the room, go over and talk to the hottest one. Girls will follow your lead and it will get the party going. If they start to grind, just act cool and make an excuse. Examples: * I got a text. Gotta take this.


* Bathroom or makeup check!


* Woah, guys! I'm not that stoned yet!
bring your own drink and don't put it down.. no one can spike it that way.. most date-rape drugs do not have a colour, odour or taste so you won't be able to tell.


as for grinding, no one can make you if you don't let them.. if you don't won't to grind just dance with your friends.. and since highschoolers will be there, there willl probably be alcohol and weed (i suggest avoiding that) don't be nervous, it will probably be lamer then you expect
Interesting - alcohol has a very distinct taste - you will know it in one sip. Take a sip. But there are those who would spike it with maybe drugs?





Why would you even want to go to a party where you have to worry about such things?





Grinding - uhm - do you mean sex with your clothes on? Well, look the other way, leave the room, or pour a bucket of ice cubes on them!





You are not getting nailed - it sounds like you might need some body armour to go to your first coed party - that's got to be a trip!





Don't forget your helmet!
high schoolers will grind. its how we dance. period. don't put your drink down anywhere that way it won't get ';spiked';. but... if you're that worried that someone will spike your drink maybe you ought to think about who you party with? especially first time co-ed parties. get used to being around opposite genders then venture out. always carry condoms. even if you don't want to have sex its better to use a condom just in case. if you feel intimidated by the people there don't be afraid to leave. i've done it before and trust me, i was real glad when i heard the cops showed up 30 mins after i left b/c of underage drinking. ya never know whats going to happen
well if they start grinding. go along with it. but TRUST ME try not to get an erection trust me its pretty awkward.
take a few condoms coz ur getting nailed girl wow