Could use girls advice.My girlfriend said come to her house tonite and bring condom.?

she is virgin,so am i.


im 19,she is 18.So girls,DO i go slow or plunge in fast?dont want her to be mad at me.Could use girls advice.My girlfriend said come to her house tonite and bring condom.?
Go slow and grinding always feels good.Could use girls advice.My girlfriend said come to her house tonite and bring condom.?
First time for a girl is very painful because you are ';popping her cherry';, so definetely slow, and make it as romantic as possible because this is her first time ! And surely to make her less tense (because her being tense is going to add pain to the sex) do lots of foreplay ! LOTS ! And use lubrication. Also remember sex isn't that great the first time. It will get better though :)





Good Luck, have fun ;) ahah.
Well first of all be sure that this is what you want. Once you do this, this cannot be undone. But if you are going to do it, then do it right.


First of all, reassure you that you truly love her and tell her how special she is to you. (You'd better feel that way towards her- otherwise don't do it!)


Be gentle and go slow. This will be painful and uncomfortable. Honestly this won't feel good to her until after a few times and she will be sore and uncomfortable tomorrow.


The important thing is to make sure that this is what you both want. Make sure that you love each other because you NEVER forget your first. And don't forget to CALL her tomorrow.
slow...for most girls sex for the first time is VERY painful and its also common that a man will lose his erection while trying to get inside her if she is very tight. so dont just jump into it..use foreplay to make her well lubed with her own ';juices';. oral sex and fingers to help her open a bit easier and not as painful as it can be! so make sure shes very turned on wet and ready!
Alright--based on personal experience, go really, super, /glacially/ slow. My first time hurt SO bad, I was crying and screaming and thought I would pass out (my bf offered to stop, btw, just so he doesn't sound like an @sshole, lol). And I'm sure you don't want that. Use plenty of lube (saliva works, if you don't have anything else) and carefully gauge her reaction.





Good luck, and be safe!!!
be slow and easy, of course bring protection but don't bring it up when you see her, let her make a move, when you go over there she may have changed her mind, sex is always the girls choice, as a guy you just gotta be prepared when the time comes.





good luck
If you are both virgins you will be fine, the communicate with each other so you know what she wants, and she knows what you want. Take things at a pace you both can enjoy. She will not be mad at you. Just talk about what you want from one another.
Just don't. It seems to me that your first time should be something where neither of you feel rushed. It's really sudden. Come over, explain to her that you aren't quite ready but that you still really care about her. Don't rush it. You only get a first time once.
You're obviously not ready to have sex. Why do I say that? Because you're asking other people what should you do.





Make sure you're as emotionally and morally ready as well. Remember condoms are 85% effective. Have no regrets :)
go slow and start off with a sexy kiss. and start to go down slower and rub her back. then lift her shirt up and take it off. and them i guess the bra and then the bottoms. good luck
goslow and ease in very gently since first time for a girl hurts. kissing while doing so or touching can ease the pain. look to her for cues when you can start picking up the pace.
Slow or else she might split in half.


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SLOW!


first go slow and then gradually go faster, and depending on her body movements and motion you'll know what to do.
slow; it hurts the first time.


after ';it'; breaks, then you might have to give it a rest. then gradually go faster. but not too fast.
take it slow and make sure to always use a condom.. But if you don't feel ready tell her so as well.. no use in doing something the both of you wont enjoy.
Well since it's her first time I suggest you go slow because it might be painful for her.. But after wards if she wants you to go faster then do it..
go slow. girls feel a lot of pain when its their first time, i've heard. ask her how shes doing, and make sure that shes comfortable.
umm it seems u have doubts


if u got doubts den why do it?


u will noe when da right time is


and if she gets mad then shes a ******
Slow, and don't be surprised if you bust in like 4 seconds haha
Slow girls like lots of forplay.
slow.


and make sure this is what you two really want.


she may just say that cause she thinks you want too.
VERY SLOW and also use LUBE it will help a lot when ';entering';
Lucky and slow.
Build suspense, give her something to look forward to(:
Slowly. If you go fast it'll hurt for her more.
slow. You'll hurt her otherwise.
The first time for a female can be quite painful. Just keep that in mind.
take things slow. Dont rush into anything.
do u believe in waiting for marriage?
fast, she's horny and she wants it.
Plunge fast, tear her up