I really need advice for a 14 year old girl?

Ok, say you liked a guy, you're both 14/15, but you never talked to him, you're still nervous to, and you are shy. How would you either get a friendship started, or at least tell if he likes you back?





I'm a hopeless romantic, girl,I really need advice for a 14 year old girl?
well first of all ill tell you what not to do. dont start off complimenting his clothes b/c its generic and it makes it seem like ur trying to hard. dont focus your attention too much on other people when talking to him. and dont act snotty or slutty at all.





the first thing you should say to him should be a little weird and random like nothing hes ever heard before. like one time this girl walked up to me and said u know i can tell alot about a man by the way he ties his shoes. and i kinda stood there not knowing what to say. and then she said like for instance u see how the right side is longer than the left well that means u probably enjoy pain a little bit. and i smiled and then she said and u c how your foot tilts to the left a little, u kno what that means. and i said what???? and then she said how the hell should i know. and we both started laughin and talking. ive been dating that girl now for 9 months about.





and also u should make him wanting more. like half way through talking to him you should just say i g2g and just walk away. and if he doesnt know your name, right when your walking away you should turn around and say o yea the names blah blah.





DONT BE NERVOUS!!!! WHAT HAVE YOU GOT TO LOSE???I really need advice for a 14 year old girl?
if you know anyone who knows him hang out with them a bit more and talk to them and this could help you get to know this boy through your friend and then the person would then know who you were and start conversations with you. another way is if Your in class together just kindly ask him for help with something and make a conversation about the teacher or how you find the subject hard or something. you could also add his face book,bebo,myspace,msn etc. and start chatting from there. or you could just walk past a say hello and introduce yourself and then you know who each over are and it will be easier to talk to each over.also if he hasn't spoken to you yet he might not want to because he may be shy or not know what to say to you boys get shy to very shy and get nervous around girls they may not seem it but they really do. he may not like you in that way yet either because he hasn't got to see the real you and doesn't know what your personality is like that's why its good to get to know them you may think he is good looking but he could have a horrible personality or an amazing one you just have to get to know them i hope this helped.
well it's probably way easier to start things off not face to face. like, talk on facebook or myspace. then from there you'll talk more in person. i'm also pretty shy, so when i want to talk to guys i like, i ask them a simple question and then from there it gets the ball rolling. for example: ';hey, do you know what the spanish homework was?';





good luck!!
yeah i have the same problem, lol i havn't fixed it yet or found a solution and i noe saying starting a conversation and getting to noe him better is harder then it sounds UGHHHHH especially when he flirts with like every girl in school!!!!! but yeah just try and get to noe him better and u can tell if he acts different around u then other ppl if he likes u back
I am also 14. It all really depends on where/if you see each other. If your in any of the same classes, try talking to him more than usual. If not, try to text him and keep it as just a friendly conversation at first. But after a week or two of texting, try to go in depth about one another's ';love life's.';





Good Luck!
I've been in that place so many times before.


I found that at some point, you just have to say ';f*ck it'; and walk up to that special person and say hello. If they smile and you continue a convo, flat out say you like them and would like to go out sometime.
jst drop ur pencil or sumthing in front of him if he bother to pick it up its cuz ur noticed if not then i guess hes jst not the one after that jst start a conversation about somthing u think u both have in common lik were u headin or sumthing lik that.(best answer) check out minehttp://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Av1RmxyxuiW839f4z7NqJk7sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090303094700AA312cM
hey, not to be mean but shouldn't you atleast know the person before you come out say you like them?? well i think you should find something in common you guys have or have a friend that knows him talk to him and you bud into the conversation and start talking him
Well for starters talk to one another then as you you talk you'll be able to tell if he likes u trust sometimes it's pretty obvious but don't be so nervous it will be alright start by communicating and getting to know him
Start by just saying hi to him. That's what my ex-girlfriend did when she met me. Guys like it when you pay attention to them, and unless you're butt ugly or something he'll appreciate it.
Invite him to a party, sign his yearbook, ask him a question in class and pretend you don't know what it means and keep doing it!





good luck!
Find something you guys are both interested in, if he's in a club or something join in and maybe that'll get you two talking.
do you have any classes together?


are your friends friends with any of his friends or with him?





those are both easy ways to talk to him and eventually become friends with him.
You're too young
im just lyk u but im 15 .
get some weed and go at it
Same problem here! E-mail me when u get an answer please!