Friday, January 8, 2010

I'm a bi girl needing advice about another girl?

to start off, im bi and i like this girl in my geometry class, idk if she is bi or not but i really like and would like to approach her..she flirts with me, well i see it as flirting, but she winks at me and smiles at me a lot..she doesn't know i'm bi and idk if i should tell her or if i should see if she likes me? what should i do?I'm a bi girl needing advice about another girl?
At this point, I think you need a spot test.





You need to start a conversation with her, and steer it towards a gay topic.... Did you see Brokeback Mountain? or Can you believe that gay people in this country can't get married?





Watch her response. If she seems uncomfortable with the homo content, then back off. Either she is gay and not ok with it, or straight.





But if she engages you in a conversation, at least then you'll know that your sexual orientation doesn't repulse her. Thats a good start.





If she responded positively, then you need to start sending some signals back. Compliments compliments compliments. Even straight people love compliments. Tell her she is pretty. In many different ways. Again, keep an eye on your response. If you see signs of panic or irritation, back off.





Suggest you two should hang out some time, go to a movie or something. Incorporate small ammounts of touching, graze you hand against hers ';accidentally'; or if you're watching a video, sit next to her on the couch and lean in a little. And keep an eye on the responses. You have to learn to be keen to things like voice intonation, eye movements, tensing up or smiles.





After you've hung out a couple times, hopefully you'll have a chance to bring up stuff about boyfriends and girlfriends. Its a good time to come out to her as bi, and see what happens. If she reacts favorabley, give her a couple days, then say you really like her and would like to take your friendship to a different place. Ask her out on a very well planned date. Have a resturant or a movie in mind. And take it from there....





Good luck!I'm a bi girl needing advice about another girl?
It sounds as if she has a ';liking'; for you otherwise the Winking would not be eminent... What I would do is ask her to go with you for a coca cola or something simple like that. I think if you broke the ice a little that way, you would find out more... give it a try
Tell her you are bi and the winking etc. is making you feel like she is flirting. Then ask if that's how she means it.
WOW ... ID BE CAREFUL SHE MIGHT BE DOIN ALL THAT JUS FOR FUN ... IF U TRY TO KISS HER OR TELL HER SHE MIGHT FREAKED ... I HAVE A FRIEND THAT IS CUISOUS CUZZ SHE ALWAYS LOOK @ WOMAN AND SAYS WOW HOT BODY AND IF I WAS A GUY ID DATE U


LOL
I think you need to talk to her and feel out the situation. That's really all you can do. Aside from openly asking her.

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