Hey,
I have a friend whos a girl who i met on Myspace just over a week ago.
After starting to talk, we got on VERY well together, we had huge conversations and about 4 days ago, she rang me up and we had a 2 hour conversation which was nice because we got on well.
We arranged to meet up sometime, we decided this before on the phone, so it was a couple days ago.
Anyway, since a few days ago, i feel as if shes gone off me a bit. Im forced to start convesations with her via text, and i feel like im the one trying to talk instead of her wanting to talk to me, if you know what I mean?
I havent spoken to her on MSN, I was going to yesterday, but we talk very minimal and she was distracted my big brother and then didnt reply and randomly went offline a couple hours later.
And today, she logged on myspace twice, but it didnt look like she did much, and wasnt logged on MSN.
But she went offline on myspace, you cant really tell how long their online from delays
What should I do!?Need advice...girl?
I should ignore her, if she's interested, she'll get in touch, don't run after her! good luckNeed advice...girl?
You have three options
1. You could keep chasing her and forever only speaking to her when shes on.
2. Have it straight out with her with a direct question but make it an open question like ';I have been noticing you dont seem intrested in talking to, Are u wanting to still be friends or more with me?
3. Forget her and move on
Personally option two because it'd be best for both you and the girl to knw where u stand
good luck x
Leave her alone for a while. If it's meant to be, it will, if it's not then it wont. Cool off and she will come running back, you always want what you can't have
You kinda sound a little posesive maybe she was just in a bad mood, you've only know her a little while. Try leaving her a message on myspace, x
shes probs not interested anymore
:| Call her
um quit stalkin her..
leave her alone she is trying to put some distance between you
I think you may be losing her attraction to you. So yes, it is up to you to keep her attracted to you. Evaluate the conversations you had that you said went well. What did you talk about? What were her feelings when you spoke. How did she react? When you spoke on the phone for 2 hours ask yourself the same questions. What was her voice like? Was this 2 hours you wished you should not have done ?(doubt it since you said it went well) Use the success you had via email and phone and prepare yourself to transfer that over to when you meet up with her.
Second, you are going to meet up with her very soon. Dont bug her. Be sporadic. Say hey whats up (small talk) and go on with your life. Show her you have a life. That might be why she has lost some interest. If you dont have a life i strongly suggest you get one real quick or you will have a ton of issues when it comes to meeting and attracting women you like.
Right I'v had the same problem before, Wht yooh have to do is not try so hard ok ? She my be playing hard to get, Maybe sumhin has happened to her and she feels distractd or mabe she has just lost interest. Whatever yooh do though is tha yooh cannot cling!! Even stop talking to her all together for a
while and she may think that sumthin is up. I did that and it worked now im still oin out with them:D Hope everything works out.xx
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