Sunday, December 20, 2009

Need advice girl problem?

Hi





Well i started dating this girl who i met at a party we went out


on a date went fairly well so asked her out again there she said yeah.





The problem is i didn't txt her for like 4 or 5 days, i txt her merry christmas then 4 or 5 days later txt to see hows she goin


i didn't get a reply so i then txt her new years to wish her a good new years and she sent it back.





Then the next day i txt her to see if she was alrite and see when she was free and she hasn't got back to me





everyone has been sayin i've been playing it to cool so i think i've pissed her off maybe or something else





so wondering if i should call or text her but don't know what to say to her.





cheers for any adviceNeed advice girl problem?
Just call her and let her know that you are really interested in getting to know her. Texting is so impersonal, especially starting out when you are getting to know someone. I don't consider 4-5 days too long to salvage atleast a friendship. If she is pissed off, then it's a good thing you aren't dating her because that would me she is a way too sensitive and it's probably a preview of your entire relationship with her.





I would not take it personal if she is mad...that is her problem. I would atleast try to contact her and be sincere in your goal to strike up a relationship.Need advice girl problem?
yeah, find her on myspace.. it could work.. ask around and stuff.. if you really like her, don't push her away. You haven't lost her yet man.. just keep showing her you care for her.
Looks like your lack of action missed the boat on that one. She's probably over it and is angry with you. The girl was thinking ';oh good another date this may work';, then you go and blow her off.





You can try and call her, make up lame excuses, and try to make it work. She's probably pissed off and over it at this point seeing you as a jerk. Good luck with that lol. Only thing you can do is give her a call and try to smooth it over. The worst that can happen is she says FU
I have a friend that likes to make the guy wait, and when he finally gives up and quits texting ,she called him. Sometimes you just have to wait it out . What did she say on new years?


Did she sound like she wanted to hang out again?

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