Need advice! ((girl stuff))?

well i'll just get right to it...lately iv'e been seein this guy ja'kes and i reaaally really like him and he knows that. we hung out a few times and we really clicked. but i keep comparin him to recent guys that iv'e dated, like i know he's gonna screw up some how just like the rest. and tonight...well last night now, he said ';maybe we shouldn't be together cause all u have on your mind are your past bf's.'; that was a slap in my face but now i dont kno if i should be figuring out how to show him that he matters to me. Or if i should be figuring out how to 4get my past relationships. ( i kno i kno this is a classic ? but its stressin me beyond belief)Need advice! ((girl stuff))?
Well all you really have to do is sit him down and explain to him that because of bad previous experiences you are a little afraid to go thought the pain again. It has nothing to do with you not caring about him but it's just your afraid. If he doesn't understand that then he's not worth it. Just break it down to him and apologize and ask him to give you another chance and bear with you. Hope it helps and all works out. And don't dwell on past guys focus on the current and future. Just relax and take it all 1 step at a time. good Luck.Need advice! ((girl stuff))?
the past is the past! and its normal to carry your past in the future! the guy is right! becuz youre making him feel wothless like he's just another jerk in your life! its good to keep your gaurds up but its not right to close the door of your heart to all loving guys that comes your just becuz of some jerks you met b4! you're just hurting yourself more! you and this guy can have soemthin more than that and even special than wat you expereienced b4! give your heart a chance..you'll never know what he's capable of untill you let him in! so dont underestimate him yet... yuo should not worry about THEN all you should worry about it NOW! it will take one guy to heal your heart and it might be him! i know its hard and you dont wanna get hurt again! but you need love in your life!so give him a chance!