NEED ADVICE Girl Problems :/?

So I was chillin and hookin up with a girl for about the past three months. She had just broken up with her boyfriend of a year and a half cuz he cheated on her right before we started so she wasnt ready for a relationship. I wanted a relationship and she just broke it off a few days ago because she thought it was unfair to me. So, if when shes ready to date, were both still single, and she tells me shes ready, what do i do? Shes really hurt me badly by breaking it off and not being sure of what she wants. I feel like the right thing to do would be to tell her its not going to be that easy, that she has to earn my trust and show me that shes not just gonna dump me when it gets a little hard. However, I dunno if I have the will power to say no to the girl I've wanted to date for 3 months. What do i do? Btw im in college, and after hooking up with a lot of girls first semester, not hooking up or flirting or dancing with any girls this semester was my way of showing her she can trust me even though we werent dating or even exclusive. She hasnt hooked up with any other guys either. What do i do?NEED ADVICE Girl Problems :/?
Sorry to tell you but you were just a rebound fling.NEED ADVICE Girl Problems :/?
Do it.
OMgosh.. lol you almost scared me cuz you erased the other question %26amp; my answer as you can see is all lengthy! :P ay. haha.





k here it is.


i understand how you feel. but cut her some slack.. you shouldn't have jumped in to a relationship right after she just got off one. she was right


it is unfair to you.. i was with my ex for over two years %26amp; honestly i dont feel up to dating much %26amp; its been over three months. i havent even given a couple guys the chance cuz it is unfair to them since i dont feel like im ready. if when she says shes ready you do what you feel.. you shouldnt let go you should give it another shot. you dont want to go about wondering ';what if'; .. getting hurt is guna happen. im sure shes hurt as well %26amp; proly insecure a bit. but definitely talk to her %26amp; let her know how it hurt you as well %26amp; that it won't be as easy but admit you still have feelings for her. remind her there is not much reason for her not to trust you especially after how much you cut back


which i'm glad ^.^ not many guys %26lt;or girls%26gt; can do that in a short period of time. %26amp; tell her just that. that she should make sure that when it gets hard she wont just get up and leave. so let her chill.. still hang with her don't lose contact but give her her space %26amp; be ready for when she's ready but dont be too readily available .. dont let her know exactly how much or how little your willpower is to say no to her.. but like i said still reassure her of your feelings %26amp; she should as well if they are true. communication is key. good luck :]
ive been cheated on twice and broken up(by girls decision) 4 times. So my best advice is that if she doesnt know what she wants then by all means dont get with her. a girl like that ends up cheating on you. 2 times my friends did the same thing you did and they both cheated on them. so try and look for a girlfriend that knows what she wants is determined to what her goals in life are and knows that she sees you in the future with her. my girlfriend(my 7th gf) knows what she wants and she is working hard in school to so we can make our own acupunture and massage therapy business.

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