it's been a goal of mine all through high school,and now i want to be a sorority girl once i go to college. (hopefully northern arizona u)
any advice,warnings, tips on what to wear or how to look? anything?
oh and also whos a good fit for greek life?
thanks!!Any tips/warnings/advice on being a sorority girl?
I don't go to that particular University, but I think it's great that you already know you want to go Greek.
My best advice for you is to just be yourself. If you are yourself, then you'll ultimately end up where you're supposed to be and where you'll feel comfortable with your new sisters.
Before Recruitment starts, your University will probably post a ';What to Wear'; guide, so look through it, but it's usually like ';these things are appropriate for this day: i.e. nice skirts, blouses, high heels, etc and these things are not: i.e. flip flops, jeans, t-shirts, etc.'; But always wear what makes you feel comfortable according to the guidelines.
And it never hurts to do some research on the chapters on campus before you go through recruitment--that way, you can find out what you particularly love about each group, such as a philanthropy or event.
If you have any other questions, the best person to ask would be your Rho Gamma, recruitment guide, once you've registered for Recruitment. (You can also email me in the meantime if there's anything more specific you need information about.)Any tips/warnings/advice on being a sorority girl?
Yes, I have some very specific advice: don't.
I think this is a great goal. Sorority membership develops life skills. It teaches you how to live with people, and it also gives you valuable leadership experience that comes in handy when searching for a job. Non-Greeks will say it doesn't, but when you don't have any other experience and you're right out of school, it does. I assure you. Being in a sorority was the time of my life, and I really learned and grew a lot as a person. So I encourage you to learn more about the chapters on your campus.
The best advice I can give you is to be yourself. Don't try to change who you are or what you wear. Of course you should be neat and polished, but don't worry about minor details. Rush is a very complicated and fast process, and the best way you'll find a fit during the process is if you are true to who you are. If you try to be someone you're not, you'll get into a house that's totally wrong for you and you'll spend the next 4 years trying to live up to unrealistic expectations that you have for yourself to constantly be trying to fit in. Just be who you are and find where you fit as such. You want to find real sisters, who love you for YOU. So defiantely don't get caught up in going out of your way to be what you think a chapter is looking for. Just be you.
As far as an ideal candidate for Greek life, it would be someone who is eager to get involved, someone who likes being around people and is friendly, someone who is goal-oriented and determined, and someone who is a loyal friend.
And don't forget, at the end of the day, being in a sorority is part of school. So be sure you can keep your focus.
Good luck.
Friday, January 8, 2010
Any one have advice on how to go from being a tomboy to a girl? like advice ya know.?
Well, just find one of your friends or co-workers who is kind of girly and who you trust. Then go to the mall and get a makeover. You can get a natural look or a heavy makeup look. They are usually free. Then you can buy some of the makeup or just go with a friend to the drugstore and get some makeup cheaper. then get an outfit/shoes/jewelry that is girlier... and wear your hair down. You can have the same personality and do the same stuff, but wear something other than t-shirts and ponytails...Any one have advice on how to go from being a tomboy to a girl? like advice ya know.?
if your a tomboy, you don't wanna turn into a girly girl, man its no fun, i hate prissy girls like that, they think they can do whatever they want, well they cant, i call myself an official tomboy because i love to do guys sport and i hang with so many guys i cant even count, I'm just one of those girls who likes guys (as friends)better then girls, but if you really wanna become a girly girl, then just wear pink, and TON of it, e-m your best friends like 24/7, and just stop talking to guys, and turn to girls as your only friends(which is totally not fun).Any one have advice on how to go from being a tomboy to a girl? like advice ya know.?
Enjoy being yourself - no matter what! BUT if you must --
you can try a day at a spa with a complete makeover!
Enjoy it!!
if i was you stay a tomboy....i am very attracted to tomboy girls, and girly girls are usually bitches/hoes....so stay a tomboy..
if your a tomboy, you don't wanna turn into a girly girl, man its no fun, i hate prissy girls like that, they think they can do whatever they want, well they cant, i call myself an official tomboy because i love to do guys sport and i hang with so many guys i cant even count, I'm just one of those girls who likes guys (as friends)better then girls, but if you really wanna become a girly girl, then just wear pink, and TON of it, e-m your best friends like 24/7, and just stop talking to guys, and turn to girls as your only friends(which is totally not fun).Any one have advice on how to go from being a tomboy to a girl? like advice ya know.?
Enjoy being yourself - no matter what! BUT if you must --
you can try a day at a spa with a complete makeover!
Enjoy it!!
if i was you stay a tomboy....i am very attracted to tomboy girls, and girly girls are usually bitches/hoes....so stay a tomboy..
Could use girls advice.My girlfriend said come to her house tonite and bring condom.?
she is virgin,so am i.
im 19,she is 18.So girls,DO i go slow or plunge in fast?dont want her to be mad at me.Could use girls advice.My girlfriend said come to her house tonite and bring condom.?
Go slow and grinding always feels good.Could use girls advice.My girlfriend said come to her house tonite and bring condom.?
First time for a girl is very painful because you are ';popping her cherry';, so definetely slow, and make it as romantic as possible because this is her first time ! And surely to make her less tense (because her being tense is going to add pain to the sex) do lots of foreplay ! LOTS ! And use lubrication. Also remember sex isn't that great the first time. It will get better though :)
Good Luck, have fun ;) ahah.
Well first of all be sure that this is what you want. Once you do this, this cannot be undone. But if you are going to do it, then do it right.
First of all, reassure you that you truly love her and tell her how special she is to you. (You'd better feel that way towards her- otherwise don't do it!)
Be gentle and go slow. This will be painful and uncomfortable. Honestly this won't feel good to her until after a few times and she will be sore and uncomfortable tomorrow.
The important thing is to make sure that this is what you both want. Make sure that you love each other because you NEVER forget your first. And don't forget to CALL her tomorrow.
slow...for most girls sex for the first time is VERY painful and its also common that a man will lose his erection while trying to get inside her if she is very tight. so dont just jump into it..use foreplay to make her well lubed with her own ';juices';. oral sex and fingers to help her open a bit easier and not as painful as it can be! so make sure shes very turned on wet and ready!
Alright--based on personal experience, go really, super, /glacially/ slow. My first time hurt SO bad, I was crying and screaming and thought I would pass out (my bf offered to stop, btw, just so he doesn't sound like an @sshole, lol). And I'm sure you don't want that. Use plenty of lube (saliva works, if you don't have anything else) and carefully gauge her reaction.
Good luck, and be safe!!!
be slow and easy, of course bring protection but don't bring it up when you see her, let her make a move, when you go over there she may have changed her mind, sex is always the girls choice, as a guy you just gotta be prepared when the time comes.
good luck
If you are both virgins you will be fine, the communicate with each other so you know what she wants, and she knows what you want. Take things at a pace you both can enjoy. She will not be mad at you. Just talk about what you want from one another.
Just don't. It seems to me that your first time should be something where neither of you feel rushed. It's really sudden. Come over, explain to her that you aren't quite ready but that you still really care about her. Don't rush it. You only get a first time once.
You're obviously not ready to have sex. Why do I say that? Because you're asking other people what should you do.
Make sure you're as emotionally and morally ready as well. Remember condoms are 85% effective. Have no regrets :)
go slow and start off with a sexy kiss. and start to go down slower and rub her back. then lift her shirt up and take it off. and them i guess the bra and then the bottoms. good luck
goslow and ease in very gently since first time for a girl hurts. kissing while doing so or touching can ease the pain. look to her for cues when you can start picking up the pace.
Slow or else she might split in half.
Answer mine: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
SLOW!
first go slow and then gradually go faster, and depending on her body movements and motion you'll know what to do.
slow; it hurts the first time.
after ';it'; breaks, then you might have to give it a rest. then gradually go faster. but not too fast.
take it slow and make sure to always use a condom.. But if you don't feel ready tell her so as well.. no use in doing something the both of you wont enjoy.
Well since it's her first time I suggest you go slow because it might be painful for her.. But after wards if she wants you to go faster then do it..
go slow. girls feel a lot of pain when its their first time, i've heard. ask her how shes doing, and make sure that shes comfortable.
umm it seems u have doubts
if u got doubts den why do it?
u will noe when da right time is
and if she gets mad then shes a ******
Slow, and don't be surprised if you bust in like 4 seconds haha
Slow girls like lots of forplay.
slow.
and make sure this is what you two really want.
she may just say that cause she thinks you want too.
VERY SLOW and also use LUBE it will help a lot when ';entering';
Lucky and slow.
Build suspense, give her something to look forward to(:
Slowly. If you go fast it'll hurt for her more.
slow. You'll hurt her otherwise.
The first time for a female can be quite painful. Just keep that in mind.
take things slow. Dont rush into anything.
do u believe in waiting for marriage?
fast, she's horny and she wants it.
Plunge fast, tear her up
im 19,she is 18.So girls,DO i go slow or plunge in fast?dont want her to be mad at me.Could use girls advice.My girlfriend said come to her house tonite and bring condom.?
Go slow and grinding always feels good.Could use girls advice.My girlfriend said come to her house tonite and bring condom.?
First time for a girl is very painful because you are ';popping her cherry';, so definetely slow, and make it as romantic as possible because this is her first time ! And surely to make her less tense (because her being tense is going to add pain to the sex) do lots of foreplay ! LOTS ! And use lubrication. Also remember sex isn't that great the first time. It will get better though :)
Good Luck, have fun ;) ahah.
Well first of all be sure that this is what you want. Once you do this, this cannot be undone. But if you are going to do it, then do it right.
First of all, reassure you that you truly love her and tell her how special she is to you. (You'd better feel that way towards her- otherwise don't do it!)
Be gentle and go slow. This will be painful and uncomfortable. Honestly this won't feel good to her until after a few times and she will be sore and uncomfortable tomorrow.
The important thing is to make sure that this is what you both want. Make sure that you love each other because you NEVER forget your first. And don't forget to CALL her tomorrow.
slow...for most girls sex for the first time is VERY painful and its also common that a man will lose his erection while trying to get inside her if she is very tight. so dont just jump into it..use foreplay to make her well lubed with her own ';juices';. oral sex and fingers to help her open a bit easier and not as painful as it can be! so make sure shes very turned on wet and ready!
Alright--based on personal experience, go really, super, /glacially/ slow. My first time hurt SO bad, I was crying and screaming and thought I would pass out (my bf offered to stop, btw, just so he doesn't sound like an @sshole, lol). And I'm sure you don't want that. Use plenty of lube (saliva works, if you don't have anything else) and carefully gauge her reaction.
Good luck, and be safe!!!
be slow and easy, of course bring protection but don't bring it up when you see her, let her make a move, when you go over there she may have changed her mind, sex is always the girls choice, as a guy you just gotta be prepared when the time comes.
good luck
If you are both virgins you will be fine, the communicate with each other so you know what she wants, and she knows what you want. Take things at a pace you both can enjoy. She will not be mad at you. Just talk about what you want from one another.
Just don't. It seems to me that your first time should be something where neither of you feel rushed. It's really sudden. Come over, explain to her that you aren't quite ready but that you still really care about her. Don't rush it. You only get a first time once.
You're obviously not ready to have sex. Why do I say that? Because you're asking other people what should you do.
Make sure you're as emotionally and morally ready as well. Remember condoms are 85% effective. Have no regrets :)
go slow and start off with a sexy kiss. and start to go down slower and rub her back. then lift her shirt up and take it off. and them i guess the bra and then the bottoms. good luck
goslow and ease in very gently since first time for a girl hurts. kissing while doing so or touching can ease the pain. look to her for cues when you can start picking up the pace.
Slow or else she might split in half.
Answer mine: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
SLOW!
first go slow and then gradually go faster, and depending on her body movements and motion you'll know what to do.
slow; it hurts the first time.
after ';it'; breaks, then you might have to give it a rest. then gradually go faster. but not too fast.
take it slow and make sure to always use a condom.. But if you don't feel ready tell her so as well.. no use in doing something the both of you wont enjoy.
Well since it's her first time I suggest you go slow because it might be painful for her.. But after wards if she wants you to go faster then do it..
go slow. girls feel a lot of pain when its their first time, i've heard. ask her how shes doing, and make sure that shes comfortable.
umm it seems u have doubts
if u got doubts den why do it?
u will noe when da right time is
and if she gets mad then shes a ******
Slow, and don't be surprised if you bust in like 4 seconds haha
Slow girls like lots of forplay.
slow.
and make sure this is what you two really want.
she may just say that cause she thinks you want too.
VERY SLOW and also use LUBE it will help a lot when ';entering';
Lucky and slow.
Build suspense, give her something to look forward to(:
Slowly. If you go fast it'll hurt for her more.
slow. You'll hurt her otherwise.
The first time for a female can be quite painful. Just keep that in mind.
take things slow. Dont rush into anything.
do u believe in waiting for marriage?
fast, she's horny and she wants it.
Plunge fast, tear her up
Wuts up i kindve have a girl problem sum advice would greatly be appreciated?
ok so i really like this girl and she really like me but she has a boyfriend that she really loves.. the problem is he hits her and if wasnt for this lil ***** id ask here out, i wanna kick his *** but i dont wanna mess up any future that we mite haveWuts up i kindve have a girl problem sum advice would greatly be appreciated?
ummm... if he hits her i think you should tell somebody or just talk to her. She might be so in love she just ignores the fact that hes hurting her, and if she is you should talk to her about it, cuz that kind of relationship IS NOT HEALTHY AT ALL. and if the guy is threatening to kill her (i dont know if its true, im just sayin) then you should have her report it or stump him down. Idk, but talk to her first.Wuts up i kindve have a girl problem sum advice would greatly be appreciated?
Hmm . That's abuse . You need to tell someone first ... then ask her to dump him . If he hits her how could she love him ? He could kill her one day for all we know ! Save her ... tell her to get out of his life befor this happens , if you really love her , you'll do something.
Hope it helps .
ummm... if he hits her i think you should tell somebody or just talk to her. She might be so in love she just ignores the fact that hes hurting her, and if she is you should talk to her about it, cuz that kind of relationship IS NOT HEALTHY AT ALL. and if the guy is threatening to kill her (i dont know if its true, im just sayin) then you should have her report it or stump him down. Idk, but talk to her first.Wuts up i kindve have a girl problem sum advice would greatly be appreciated?
Hmm . That's abuse . You need to tell someone first ... then ask her to dump him . If he hits her how could she love him ? He could kill her one day for all we know ! Save her ... tell her to get out of his life befor this happens , if you really love her , you'll do something.
Hope it helps .
Who would be a good person to talk to about advice on girls and dating?
I am kind of a shy guy so I am 20 and I have never had a girlfriend. I can't really say I have any friends who are girls either. Who should I ask for advice I would rather not ask a friend if possible because that seems weird to me.Who would be a good person to talk to about advice on girls and dating?
You really should talk to one of your friends, preferably one who is in a relationship, or one who has experience in relationships. If you can't trust your friends who can you trust. You could ask your parent's but trust me you probably don't want to do that, just my opinion.
Just so you know, there are a lot of people your age who have never dated, you're not alone, perfectly normal to feel that way.Who would be a good person to talk to about advice on girls and dating?
well one thing is to just be nice and friendly to girls. and soon theyll start to befriend you. you gotta learn to talk to them first. you got a long way. honestly talk to one of you friends that has had their share of relationships. theyll help you. dont talk to your parents cuz things have changed since theyve dated.hand lotion
You really should talk to one of your friends, preferably one who is in a relationship, or one who has experience in relationships. If you can't trust your friends who can you trust. You could ask your parent's but trust me you probably don't want to do that, just my opinion.
Just so you know, there are a lot of people your age who have never dated, you're not alone, perfectly normal to feel that way.Who would be a good person to talk to about advice on girls and dating?
well one thing is to just be nice and friendly to girls. and soon theyll start to befriend you. you gotta learn to talk to them first. you got a long way. honestly talk to one of you friends that has had their share of relationships. theyll help you. dont talk to your parents cuz things have changed since theyve dated.
I like this girl any advice?
well, i transferred from this school to another school. and i met this girl she was nice and seemed like she really liked me sure we played around really close hugs saying i love you and calling me her husband. then her friend told me she likes this other guy and he likes her but they are afraid to go out because they did before and it didn't work out. he doesn't do anything to geet her attention maybe a few pokes to her sides and sits next to her but me and her really are close and i would do anything for her and she obviously knows that'11 but why wont she be with me... :(I like this girl any advice?
wow you are stuck in the friend zone :( ....that is the reason whyI like this girl any advice?
well it seems like she still has feelings for this guy but there are obviously things stopping her from getting back together with him so just tell her how you feel about her and if she rejects you then, as much as you want her, you deserve someone who wants to be with you.
tell her how you feel if she says no then move on plenty of girls out there it will be her loss
she is not impressed by you.
try to impress her
good luck dude
hun ,maybe you need to sit down and really tell her how you feel she can't read your mind just like you cant read hers,and make sure you let her know that no matter what you will always be her friend rather you stay where you are or take to the dating stage.And keep that promise
good luck and I hope this helps
wow you are stuck in the friend zone :( ....that is the reason whyI like this girl any advice?
well it seems like she still has feelings for this guy but there are obviously things stopping her from getting back together with him so just tell her how you feel about her and if she rejects you then, as much as you want her, you deserve someone who wants to be with you.
tell her how you feel if she says no then move on plenty of girls out there it will be her loss
she is not impressed by you.
try to impress her
good luck dude
hun ,maybe you need to sit down and really tell her how you feel she can't read your mind just like you cant read hers,and make sure you let her know that no matter what you will always be her friend rather you stay where you are or take to the dating stage.And keep that promise
good luck and I hope this helps
I need help reading this girl!! please...advice?
think this girl is fine. when i walk by i catch her looking but i can't tell if she looks at me when i'm turned around. when i look her way, i catch her eyes look my way but not fully. her seat is getting closer to my seat but don't know if it's coincidence. i don't usually talk to her but i want to and when we wer both late for class, she da one that started a conversation with me about how she didn't get the lessons. i like her but i'm confused. i don't jus wanna go up to her cuz i'm scared to get turned down.I need help reading this girl!! please...advice?
Just talk to her....that is the only way that you will ever know...
So what if she turns you down. There will be other girls.I need help reading this girl!! please...advice?
if u dont talk to her some1 else will....y not u go for it
Dude she either likes you OR there's just something about you that she wants to get to know. I know girls are weird to try and ';read'; sometimes but just go up and start (at least) talking to her and just see where it goes from there.
Good Luck
man hollla @ her en lay dwn ur game lol
just ask her out, and talk to her. use ur guts... dont b chicken u can do it.
Just talk to her more and more frequently and if nothing else have a bbq at your house or something and invite a group of friends over so that neither of you will feel uncomfortable and invite her too.....she is more likely to come and everything else should come natural.
well, if she's moving closer to you, thats a good sign...keep looking at her and make eye contact...wink at her...she digs ya, thats why shes moving closer...out of the blue, tell her you think she's hot, and that you two should hook up or something...dont be affraid...whats the worst that would happen...
Everyones scared of being turned down but life theres rejections and acceptence but by the signs she telling you is that she likes you she's trying not to make it obvious but really you should ask her to the movies or the mall or make it a double cate with your friends and hers but your situation sounds like the movie mean girls
if you like her go for it, you never know what it could turn into....it'll all be worth it in the end.
I was told that nothing beats an effort but a try. So if you don't try it you will never know. Don't try any pimp moves or any games just relax and be yourself. Good luck and don't push the issue there are plenty more girls out there.
just go up to her. if you get turned down you get turned down...but she'll respect you for trying. :)
have confidence in your self and just ask her out
the worst she can say is no
dont be afraid to get turned down it happens to the best of us
Dont be afraid of gettin turned down. A lot of girls love it when the guy has the guts to ask us out. I think that is what this girl is trying to tell you. Take the anitiative and ask her out. If she tells you no, then you dont have to wonder about her anymore. Plenty of fish in the sea:) Trust me, I am pretty sure by the way you desribed her behaviour, that she will not say no! Ask her:)
I think that u should get someone u know 2 do it 4 you like tell your homeboy are one of her homegirls 2 do it.In see wht happens!!!
If you like her, then talk to her and get to know her a bit better. Trust your instincts. Don't be shy - she could be the love of your life!!
Just talk to her....that is the only way that you will ever know...
So what if she turns you down. There will be other girls.I need help reading this girl!! please...advice?
if u dont talk to her some1 else will....y not u go for it
Dude she either likes you OR there's just something about you that she wants to get to know. I know girls are weird to try and ';read'; sometimes but just go up and start (at least) talking to her and just see where it goes from there.
Good Luck
man hollla @ her en lay dwn ur game lol
just ask her out, and talk to her. use ur guts... dont b chicken u can do it.
Just talk to her more and more frequently and if nothing else have a bbq at your house or something and invite a group of friends over so that neither of you will feel uncomfortable and invite her too.....she is more likely to come and everything else should come natural.
well, if she's moving closer to you, thats a good sign...keep looking at her and make eye contact...wink at her...she digs ya, thats why shes moving closer...out of the blue, tell her you think she's hot, and that you two should hook up or something...dont be affraid...whats the worst that would happen...
Everyones scared of being turned down but life theres rejections and acceptence but by the signs she telling you is that she likes you she's trying not to make it obvious but really you should ask her to the movies or the mall or make it a double cate with your friends and hers but your situation sounds like the movie mean girls
if you like her go for it, you never know what it could turn into....it'll all be worth it in the end.
I was told that nothing beats an effort but a try. So if you don't try it you will never know. Don't try any pimp moves or any games just relax and be yourself. Good luck and don't push the issue there are plenty more girls out there.
just go up to her. if you get turned down you get turned down...but she'll respect you for trying. :)
have confidence in your self and just ask her out
the worst she can say is no
dont be afraid to get turned down it happens to the best of us
Dont be afraid of gettin turned down. A lot of girls love it when the guy has the guts to ask us out. I think that is what this girl is trying to tell you. Take the anitiative and ask her out. If she tells you no, then you dont have to wonder about her anymore. Plenty of fish in the sea:) Trust me, I am pretty sure by the way you desribed her behaviour, that she will not say no! Ask her:)
I think that u should get someone u know 2 do it 4 you like tell your homeboy are one of her homegirls 2 do it.In see wht happens!!!
If you like her, then talk to her and get to know her a bit better. Trust your instincts. Don't be shy - she could be the love of your life!!
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